Are rural girls really happy when they marry men 20 years older than themselves?

A rural girl really married a 42-year-old man at the age of 22. That year, it was true that her father was 46 years old, and her uncle and her husband were not much different in age, so they could be called brothers.

As soon as the son-in-law entered the door, he gave his father a bank card with 200 thousand in it, telling him it was a real gift Her father is very happy. It doesn't matter if he is older. Real money is real.

The son-in-law entered the room and the ceremony was completed. Spread out the banquet and drink openly. Her father drank too much, put his arm around his son-in-law and said, Brother, my daughter is yours from now on.

If you marry a man 20 years older than yourself, will you be happy in the future? I really don't know. All she knows is that life without money is definitely not happy. Her sister is a living example. She doesn't want to be a sister.

1. Zhen Zhen Street

There are three sisters in Zhen Zhen's family. She is the youngest. Her elder sister and I are primary school classmates, and my second sister is my brother's classmate. She is young, a few grades lower than us, and has always been a little girl in her mind.

Her sister didn't study well and didn't continue to go to school after graduating from junior high school. At marriageable age, I arranged a blind date and married in a village not far away. The man is also a farmer, and his family is average. Fortunately, he has only one son.

At first, Zhen Zhen's parents were very satisfied with their eldest daughter's marriage and thought it was appropriate. There is only one son in the family, no income, and the daughter does not suffer. But who ever thought, not happy for a few years, my father-in-law was accidentally injured at work, and the treatment cost spent a lot of money. Moreover, after the father-in-law was injured, he could not work in the fields, and there was no main source of income at home, so his life was tight.

A real man, who works outside the home, earns an average income, and wants to earn more by farming with his parents. After the old man was injured, life became difficult in an instant.

There is no money at home, and I have no confidence to go back to my family. When Sister Pearl Krabs and the man went back to their parents' home, Pearl Krabs's father didn't give a good look. I'm poor and short of breath, so I really hope my parents can borrow some money. Who wants my father to refuse?

Her father said: the married daughter doesn't care so much. Originally, people looked down on having no sons and expected their daughters to give them a long face. It's a joke to borrow money from me when you arrive. Why don't you find a rich man to show me?

When Pearl Krabs was not married, he often heard his father say that about her elder sister, and he also saw her elder sister being wronged because she had no money. I don't know when it became her obsession to marry a rich man.

2. Pearl Krabs's second sister

There are three sisters. My sister doesn't get good grades and really doesn't like studying. Only the second sister got the best grades. A woman's learning talent may be inversely proportional to her looks.

Her second sister has dark skin, wears pants, has short hair and is careless. She dresses up like a tomboy all day. She doesn't care that she looks unhappy. I spent my time studying, but I didn't expect to become a schoolmaster.

The college entrance examination was admitted to Sichuan University in one fell swoop. I studied as a graduate student for two years, went abroad for further study, and finally stayed in the United States and married an American. She became a legend in our village and the first woman to study abroad and marry abroad.

Second sister's domineering temperament seems to be born, and her parents never care about her study. When she was in junior high school, it was not obvious. After entering high school, she seems to have died. Since then, she has often been in the top few. Her later college entrance examination, graduate school and going abroad seemed to be a natural thing.

After the second sister went to college, she didn't spend any more money at home, and she didn't get less scholarships. My biological parents finally held their heads high and told everyone that the second child was very powerful and that the second child had never let them down.

Her second sister seemed to get on a rocket flying at high speed and watched it go away and disappear. Can't keep up, can't catch up. She is the only unmarried person in the Zhen Zhen family, which leaves her with few choices.

I really don't want to live as miserable as my sister. Second sister's life is enviable but can't be copied. What should she do? Does she have more choices?

3. Real choice

She really wants to get married. As the most beautiful of the three sisters, she should have a figure and looks. She believes that with her own conditions, she will be able to catch a rich husband.

She barely graduated from high school, so she has no interest in learning. Going out to work, like the working girls in the village, went to Shenzhen to enter the electronics factory and went to the assembly line.

It's hard to get a chance to meet the world by working monotonous day after day, leaving early and returning late. This is not the life she wants. Once she visited the talent market and saw a sales center recruiting front desk. She wanted a change of scenery, so she signed up for a job change.

In the real estate center, there are many rich people coming and going, and one of the bosses comes more often and often chats with her.

For a while, she learned that a man is a contractor, and he is responsible for building most houses, so he is a rich man. Dressing is quite fashionable at ordinary times, unlike greasy middle-aged uncle.

A man's mind, she knows. I often talk to her and often take the opportunity to get close. I must be interested in her. But she doesn't want to compromise so easily. She is young and beautiful, and she also wants to find a handsome boy.

The man is divorced, she knows. Men are really generous in spending money. They often give her gifts, and flowers are sent to the front desk, which can be seen by colleagues in the sales center. There are many people who encourage her to get married, and men have made a lot of efforts behind her back.

Often surrounded by flowers, the mood is naturally beautiful. Rites move people's hearts, and people's hearts are changeable. The ideal image of the other half is gradually shrinking, and the figure of a man is slowly accommodated in my heart.

I really think, first, I can't be worse than my sister, and second, I can't embarrass my parents. Men are old, which is nothing. They all live together anyway. what is love ? Love is nothing more than three meals a day, daily necessities.

When she got married, she really took it seriously. She really lives more smartly than her sister, and there is no shortage of houses and cars. This year, I still drive back for the New Year.

Just, is she happy? I can't talk nonsense either. I hope she won't regret her choice at that time.