What embarrassing scenes will appear when you go to the object's home for the first time?

There may be many embarrassing scenes when you go to the object's home for the first time. For example, your eating habits are different, but your parents are very enthusiastic about bringing meals, so you just bite the bullet and finish eating. For another example, I really want to eat that dish, but I am too embarrassed to stand up and get it because I am far away from myself. I didn't eat that dish after dinner, and I was embarrassed to go to the toilet. I didn't go all day.

In fact, it is not normal to be nervous when you meet a stranger who may be renamed "Mom and Dad" for the first time. Ten thousand parents who met me very harshly, it was very difficult for them.

In fact, compared with boys, it is much easier for girls to go to their husband's house. After all, the future is to marry the daughter-in-law who enters the door. Unlike boys, many girls' fathers seem to want to eat each other when they see their daughters' boyfriends. No wonder boys are nervous.

What a girl should do when she meets her boyfriend's parents for the first time;

1, about meeting and giving gifts

Many people don't know whether it is necessary to bring a gift to their boyfriend's house for the first time. In fact, it's up to them to decide. You can ask your boyfriend if he needs to buy a gift before you go. Some enlightened families don't mind. In some places, there is a custom that girls don't have to bring gifts when they go to the man's house for the first time, but the man must buy gifts when he goes to the woman's house for the first time.

If it is necessary to buy gifts, don't choose expensive ones, don't buy thousands, just buy hundreds. You can buy some fruits and nutrients suitable for middle-aged and elderly people.

Some girls may think so. Will the boyfriend's family look down on themselves because the gift is too light? Of course, such a family certainly exists. But if they really look down on you because your gift is too light, it means that you will not be happy if you get married.

2. About address and courtesy

When meeting the man's parents for the first time, the girls are a little nervous, don't know how to address each other's parents, and even forget the most basic manners. About addressing, it is actually very simple. You don't care if his parents are older than you, you can call them uncle or aunt. Or you can call your uncle or aunt.

As for politeness, girls should be polite when they go to a man's house for the first time. For example, thank you, sorry, etc. You can thank the man when he brings you tea, and you can apologize for doing something inappropriate. These are the basic manners you should have when you meet for the first time.