How did Datang choose a son-in-law?

At that time, choosing a son-in-law in the Tang Dynasty was very different from now. People who chose a son-in-law were generally very powerful and wanted to choose a suitable husband for their daughters. So let the man be both civil and military, or have both ability and political integrity.

So what are the specific ways to choose a son-in-law? In fact, anyone who has seen the historical dramas of the Tang Dynasty should know that there are basically ways to throw hydrangeas and fight for fathers.

First of all, the most popular is throwing hydrangeas, that is, the daughter of her own family stands in the palace or attic, and then looks at the men under the stage and throws hydrangeas. Whoever grabs the hydrangea is the prospective son-in-law of this family.

But throwing hydrangeas can actually be derailed, that is, the woman will run to him when she sees the boy she likes. If the man has the ability to grab the hydrangea, there will be a beautiful marriage.

If you don't have the ability, then the woman can also break off the marriage, but this situation is generally difficult to break off the marriage. After all, the ancient rules were also very strict.

There is also a competition to recruit relatives, that is, many people come to the stage to thunder, and whoever wins in the end is the woman's husband.