What are the 7 speaking habits that need to be corrected?

In daily life, if we pay a little attention, we will find that many people have some bad habits in their spoken language. Although these problems are not of decisive significance, if not paid attention to, they will greatly affect the effect of our conversation.

When ordinary people talk, they are often prone to the following problems:

(1) Use redundant formulas

Some people like to use Too many or unnecessary formulas. For example, some people like to add words such as "naturally" or "of course" everywhere; others like to add too many clichés such as "frankly speaking" and "honestly"; Ask others "What do you understand?" or "Did you hear clearly?"; others like to always say "Do you think so?" or "What do you think?" and so on. You may not feel this kind of problem yourself at all. The best way to overcome this kind of problem is to ask your friends to remind you all the time.

(2) There is noise

Some people talk very well, but there is a lot of meaningless noise mixed in between their words. Their noses are always snoring, or their throats seem to be always blocked, and they cough lightly, or they use a protracted "Alas" at the beginning of each sentence, as if they are afraid of others. It was as if he couldn't hear his words clearly. These problems can be eliminated as long as you are determined.

(3) Too many proverbs

Proverbs are originally humorous and persuasive words, but too many proverbs are not good. Using too many proverbs often makes others feel glib and sensational, which not only does not help enhance your persuasiveness, but makes the listener feel cumbersome.

Proverbs can make a conversation vivid and powerful only when used in the right place. When using proverbs, we should try to make them as appropriate as possible.

(4) Abuse of popular words and phrases

Some popular words and phrases are often used indiscriminately. For example, the word "××王" has been abused. "King" is imposed on everything, such as "SMS King", "Original Sound King", this "King" and that "King", which makes people confused.

(5) Particularly like to use a word

Some people like to use a word especially because they are lazy and refuse to use their brains to find more appropriate words, or for other reasons. A word or word can express a variety of meanings, regardless of whether the word or word itself has so many meanings. For example, many people like to use the word "great". Everything became great in his words. "You are so great", "This potted flower is so great", "I had a great lunch today", "This batch of goods sold for a great price", etc., giving others a flashy impression. Therefore, we should remember as many words as possible to make our expressions as accurate and diverse as possible.

(6) Too trivial

Many people are annoyingly trivial in their conversations.

For example, it is easiest to tell a vivid and exciting story about one's own experiences, and many people also like to hear others talk about their personal experiences. However, when many people talk about their own experiences, they blindly describe them in a straightforward manner without prioritizing them. They feel that everything they have experienced has a flavor and it is necessary to talk about it. As a result, the listeners are confused and disorganized. It's boring.

When telling experiences or stories, you must be good at focusing on the key points and understand where the listener is interested, and use less dialogue. Be as detailed as possible on important points. For other places, just explain it in one or two sentences and forget it.

(7) Like to use exaggeration

Exaggeration has the effect of attracting attention. However, we cannot use exaggeration too much, otherwise, others will not believe what you say.

In real life, it is impossible to tell "very important" news every time, nor to tell the "most touching" story or the "most ridiculous" joke every time. Therefore, Don't use words like "very", "most", and "extremely" everywhere. Otherwise, when you have a real "most" among countless "most", how do you express it? Can you say "this matter is the most important to me"? If you really say this, others will be indifferent, because they think you are someone who always likes to exaggerate.

In addition to the above seven points, we should also pay attention to our tone, gestures, facial expressions, etc. in conversation, and strive to make all aspects coordinated and appropriate.

In this way, we can greatly enhance the attractiveness of our words.