Fifty years ago, a female educated youth angrily married a farmer because of a joke. What happened afterwards?

There is an old saying: "It is predestined to meet thousands of miles away, but we have never met." In all relationships, not just marriage, we pay attention to the word "fate", and marriage pays more attention to fate. Only the parties know what it is like to twist a melon.

Educated youth going to the countryside is the characteristic of that era.

The so-called educated youth is a name for knowledgeable young people, who often live in big cities. It is precisely because of this that families have the financial strength to support them to receive higher education. In the 1950s and 1960s, these people responded to the call of the country. In order to alleviate the difficulties of urban employment and support the construction and development of rural areas, they started large-scale activities in the countryside. After these intellectuals came to the countryside, they were often respected by local farmers because of their completely different living environment and different people. This respect comes from the awe of knowledge.

Educated youth married to farmers

Bai Qixian was an intellectual young woman who responded positively at that time. Before the protection and improvement of women's rights, Bai's parents were extremely open-minded and were the most powerful supporters on Bai Qixian's way to study. Even though Bai Qixian chose to go to the countryside to experience farmers' life personally, his parents showed a supportive attitude. 1968, Bai Qixian went to the countryside of Hebei alone. A woman who grew up under the family's favor always has a complacent temperament wherever she goes. The farmers in Bai Qixian's village also have great respect for this educated youth. Bai Qixian didn't show indifference and alienation, but mingled with the locals without shelf, and his life in the local area was very smooth.

Because of a joke, the female educated youth accidentally "ruined" her life.

A promising young single woman, her personal problems naturally attracted the attention of enthusiastic villagers. The local villagers began to want to introduce Bai Qixian to a suitable object, so that the educated youth could stay in the village physically and mentally. As an educated youth, Bai Qixian pursues free love and politely refuses to be introduced by others. In the long run, people in the village can't help complaining that Bai Qixian, as a girl in the city, still looks down on farmers in his bones, so he refuses to marry the villagers.

The rumor reached Bai Qixian's ears, which made Bai Qixian very angry and said that she had no resistance to the people in the village. So a group of farmers began to hiss. Anyway, Bi Zhenyuan in the village is not married. As a clerk of the village brigade, Bi Zhenyuan is also loved by farmers in the local area. Bai Qixian was still angry about those words, so he angrily married the farmer Bi Zhenyuan. Bai Qixian, on the other hand, forgot to consider the differences between himself and Bi Zhenyuan from the living environment to the concept of life. She just wants to prove that there is no gap between educated youth and farmers, because Bai Qixian's living environment makes her competitive and never gives up easily. However, she forgot that she didn't win or lose in the relationship.

When she entered the married life, she was in great pain.

Because Bai Qixian is young and beautiful and an intellectual from the city, he will get a lot of attention wherever he goes. But in Bi Zhenyuan's view, he is a traditional man, and he doesn't want his wife to come out in public. This is a great contradiction between them. Bi Zhenyuan even suspects that Bai Qixian is unfaithful to himself, so he is more sensitive to her every move in daily life. Bai Qixian thinks this is very unreasonable because she has never been unfaithful to Bi Zhenyuan.

In fact, this is the conflict between the two concepts of openness and conservatism. They grew up in different families, received different education, and had great differences in ideas and concepts, which were manifested in completely different attitudes towards life. However, Bai Qixian did not give up this husband at first, but chose to accept tolerance and understanding, and gave birth to a lovely child for her husband. She wants to prove that there is no difference between them, and both educated youth and farmers will live a good life. So what happened to her later?

Life gave Bai Qixian a heavy blow, because Bi Zhenyuan often beat her, so she had to live with her children in the school where she worked. After all, this is not a long-term solution, and Bai Qixian finally proposed. Bai Qixian's divorce application was approved, but considering that the child is still young, Bai Qixian did not divorce in order to give the child a complete home.

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Bai Qixian didn't live a happy life with Bi Zhenyuan in the end. She died early in an accident. That year, this woman was only thirty-nine years old, and she was only halfway through her life journey. It was a gas leak that killed Bai Qixian. She didn't see her children grow up. The tragic fate of this educated youth has a lot to do with her marriage. If she can choose her suitable marriage partner more carefully, instead of forcing someone who has no chance, she may be happier.