Qintai: Why do billionaires fall in love with rural women?

In the past two days, "Millionaire met a peasant woman by staying overnight and abandoned overseas billions of assets to marry her" occupied many people's circle of friends. How many women, especially single middle-aged women, saw the woman holding the billionaire's hand with a smile on her face, and her eyes turned green with envy-several of them were better-looking than the peasant woman, so she was so lucky that she caught the billionaire's rich husband at once.

In the common sense of the public, not to mention billionaires, even single elderly people with three melons and two dates at home will also regard the fairy as their courtship object. Why does this billionaire have a unrequited love for such an ordinary village woman?

There are different opinions about the origin of this marriage. In my opinion, the answer is six words: time, place and people.

Speaking of the weather, it's God's help. Why did God help the peasant woman Liu Lijuan? There is a simple reason. This ordinary-looking middle-aged peasant woman has accumulated "kindness" for herself in the first half of her life that can bear this blessing.

Liu Lijuan, a peasant woman, had a sad life track in the first half of her life. No children after marriage, adopted the abandoned baby found at home. The child is one year old and can't stand yet. Liu Lijuan sought medical treatment for her daughter everywhere, and there was nothing around the poor family. Finally, the root of the disease was found, but the treatment fee of100000 yuan was needed. In this case, many people advised Liu Lijuan to give up this "burden" without any blood relationship. Without compassion, perhaps, Liu Lijuan really became a deserter. However, the dilemma recalled the goodness of this woman. She borrowed money to treat her adopted daughter. After her daughter recovered, life once again gave Liu Lijuan bad luck. The husband suffered from stomach cancer, and the originally poor family borrowed another 200 thousand.

This series of sufferings, in the local view at that time, was the ruthlessness of fate to Liu Lijuan. From the perspective of karma, any suffering in the world is a test of people's hearts. If the nature is pure and can stand the test, then the process of bearing hardships is also the process of accumulating blessings for individuals. And those who can't afford it, from now on, give themselves a ruthless or selfish logo, wishing that nature has no chance with her.

Later, it turned out that only after understanding Liu Lijuan's responsibility and kindness did billionaire Yao Nanshan feel awe. Liu Lijuan's "virtue" is nourished by his innocence and kindness in suffering. It is precisely because of this "kindness" that when Yao Nanshan and his friends came to stay for the night because they missed the bus, Liu Lijuan not only warmly entertained them, but also did not charge room and board.

This battle righteousness left a deep impression in Yao Nanshan's heart. As a businessman, he has traveled all over the world over the years. Yao Nanshan has seen too much money, and Liu Lijuan's simplicity makes him feel refreshed.

All this, like pearls and broken jade, gradually wears a red line, holding Liu Lijuan at one end and Yao Nanshan at the other.

Let's talk about geographical location first.

Liu Lijuan lives in Yunhe, Zhejiang, and Yao Nanshan's hometown is Qingtian, Zhejiang. In a sense, Liu Lijuan is the hometown of Yao Nanshan.

Ordinary mountain villages and rural areas, strangers will not feel much, but for Yao Nanshan, who has been wandering overseas for many years, everything here has the kindness and nature of dreaming.

The leaves fell to the roots. Every old man, especially a man, always has an indescribable attachment and nostalgia for his hometown. I saw the world when I was young. When they are old, the heroes in their twilight years will consciously or unconsciously cherish such a dream: the fields returned from disarmament, neighbors with young children, dogs barking and fighting, screens pushing and shoving, and leisurely south mountains everywhere.

Such a dream, the farther away from home, the more eager it will be.

Such a dream should also be in Yao Nanshan's heart.

From this perspective, the hand-in-hand relationship between Yao Nanshan and Liu Lijuan is not so much a karma as another love affair with his hometown. After the marriage, Yao Nanshan left all the enterprises with hundreds of millions of assets to the children abroad to take care of, returned to his hometown alone, opened an inn, and took the hand of this simple peasant woman to start his pastoral life that he had lost for many years.

This combination is not so much a round of Yao Nanshan's love dream as a round of his homesickness dream. He longed for his hometown and wanted to come back, but he always lacked the motivation to make up his mind. The appearance of Liu Lijuan means that his hometown paved the way for Yao Nanshan's return home.

Finally, talk about man and peace.

There is a joke on the Internet that women's mate selection criteria will change with age, and men's mate selection criteria will remain unchanged for life-18 years old.

For most men, the young and beautiful opposite sex is really a good heart forever. However, most of them are not all. There are always some men in this world. After experiencing thousands of rivers and Qian Shan, they really crossed countless ways of the world, and their requirements and aesthetics for love will no longer stay at 18 years old.

After the divorce of media tycoon Murdoch and Wendi Deng, it was not easy to marry many girls aged 65,438+08, but instead of doing that, he married a 59-year-old former female model.

What makes Murdoch jump out of the ordinary mate selection criteria?

There are only two things in retrospect, one is experience and knowledge, and the other is the depth of thought and the needs of the soul. For men whose love satisfaction is only desire, beauty, freshness and youth are the most important courtship standards. But when a person reads thousands of colors, he will completely see through the skin as a cover. At this time, when he came to seek love, he no longer pursued the external color, but the peace and joy of the soul, which was the same frequency vibration between the two souls.

In order to achieve this, an approximate or similar age becomes a necessity.

A good friend of mine, when he was nearly forty years old, fell into a fanatical relationship with a post-90 s generation. In the climax season of love, it was in full swing and really boiled for a while. Unfortunately, no amount of fuel can burn the burning old house. After less than two months, the old house began to be a little overwhelmed: I was really tired. Tomorrow, I will go to a nightclub, watch meteors at the top of the mountain in the middle of the night, and then go to the cinema to watch them all night. Oh, my old arms and legs are sore.

The old gang dishes can't adapt to the new era and will be eliminated sooner or later. After being in love for half a year, my best friend broke up with the post-90 s girl Lao Yan. I thought he would cry bitterly, but when giving comfort, someone came over and said, although I can't bear it, I can really breathe a sigh of relief. If I really want to continue, I really can't bear it.

After this love fire, friends fall in love again and choose peers who are familiar with each other and have a certain age and knowledge.

"Although I didn't get along so warmly, I was safe and comfortable. If there is no big accident, I am going to propose to her. "

After Qian Fan's death, men's aesthetic taste matured, and this friend's mood was exactly the same as Yao Nanshan's.

With Yao Nanshan's experience and experience, at the age of 56, he should know exactly what kind of woman he is suitable for. As far as the rural life he wants is concerned, how many little girls can compare with Liu Lijuan, a middle-aged peasant woman? Who can understand Yao Nanshan's feelings for his hometown better than middle-aged Liu Lijuan?

There is also a small detail in the post. When Yao Nanshan confessed to Liu Lijuan again, he invited her to visit his hometown. There, Liu Lijuan first knew that Yao Nanshan was a multimillionaire.

Knowing this news, Liu Lijuan pulled away and walked away. Yao Nanshan caught up with him and said, "You shouldn't tease me like this."

In the mind of middle-aged women, such an adventure is absolutely impossible to become a reality. Liu Lijuan's rational calmness undoubtedly added goodwill to Yao Nanshan. In the end, Yao Nanshan wanted to pay Liu Lijuan's debts, but she resolutely refused-I still want to pay them back, even if I haven't paid them back in my life, my daughter can continue to pay them back.

How to cultivate this sense of independence without experiencing wind and rain? Without this independence, Yao Nanshan's proposal may not be so merciless.

Rich people have a common logic: I can give you money, but if you love me for money, then I'm sorry, I can't leave.

Why do billionaires fall in love with middle-aged peasant women? The right time, the right place and the right people are really indispensable. Therefore, it is better not to envy the onlookers. Such a miracle between people will never be copied and plagiarized. It only exposes the true nature of the inner emotional needs of those old men who retire after success.

Therefore, with them, they will be happy. More single women will continue to cultivate themselves on the long road of loneliness or loneliness, and continue to become better and more independent.

It would be nice if you could meet me for the rest of your life. If you can't meet each other, it's nice to be alone.