Why doesn't everyone like others to laugh at themselves?

I remember going to a friend's house once. I saw two new friends there. He asked me to go shopping and come back for dinner. I was puzzled at that time, because I had no money to buy it, so I had to ask him to come out and say that I had no money to buy it. He said that you should go down first and transfer money to you. Then I went down and bought it. After he bought it back, he still didn't turn around, so I typed and asked him, afraid to open my voice for fear that others would know that he was so poor. Then he turned around and I came back to him. As soon as I sat down, my new friend talked about me. He said he was glad to see you dressed up. Why are you so poor that you don't even have dozens of dollars? At that time, I was confused and embarrassed, because I had just started a business with my friends and my money was almost spent, so I sent it back. Why others say that what they say is a blow to you is only a joke in my heart, because caring about what others say is a blow and caring about what others say is a joke. Everyone doesn't like people around him to make fun of themselves, and there is a sense of loss and frustration. So be yourself, no matter how others laugh at you, just be an air.

My family was poor when I was young. I only went to the second grade. But I am sensible, and I am ridiculed and sarcastic by my next-door neighbors every day. But when they grow up, they are a little promising now, and they are old. Let me go home and give presents to people who used to laugh at me. My parents said not to send you away. Do you know how people treated you when you were young?

People have dignity.

People have personalities.

Successful people do stories and legends.

The behavior of unsuccessful people is a joke and a laughing stock.

Rural people look down on people;

"A dog with a tail wags its tail,

A dog without a tail wags its tail. "

"I want to go to heaven, and there is no cloud to meet."

"People like him are not enough to feed chickens."

……

in fact

Many successful people,

Will experience failure.

but

Before it succeeds,

Sometimes people laugh at you,

People who are laughed at sometimes become depressed,

If you can't lift your head, you can't lift your head

To be exact:

A word helps,

A word of condolences.

In addition:

A kind word warms three winters,

A word in June hurts.

……

Everyone has weaknesses.

I'm most afraid of being sarcastic when it's hot,

I am also most afraid of being laughed at.

……

As the saying goes:

"Sixty-six, don't laugh at people."

because

People have experienced three recessions and six booms.

On lucky days,

There are also times of bad luck.

As a person in this world,

Never look down on people.

Look at others.

Just look at yourself.

expression

Encouraging people is the most popular,

And the most respected.

It is very unpleasant to be laughed at by others. Exposing ugliness and making a fool of yourself, the nose will lightly affect self-confidence and leave psychological obstacles at the same time. Since then, paranoia has brought many negative effects to people's study, work and life. In view of this, many elderly people object to the younger generation laughing at others, and many younger generations often benefit from it, and regard respecting others as one of the virtues of life.

Nevertheless, the phenomenon of laughing at others and being laughed at still exists, and the difference is only in degree, scope and severity. Others are fundamentally influenced by the environment, determined by their own quality, and interact with each other, causing great harm to ordinary people. Willing to laugh at others without being laughed at, seemingly contradictory, is actually a weakness of human nature. As Mr. Lu Xun said, the general idea is: I like to wrap myself up, but I am keen to see other people's naked bottoms. So if you don't want to be laughed at by others, start with me and don't laugh at others yet.

As the old saying goes, it makes sense to joke that people are not as good as people. Although the shortcomings and problems of others are not reflected in you now, they will certainly not be reflected in the future. It is immoral to base your happiness (feeling) on the pain of others, and it is likely to repeat the same mistakes, worse than others. This is not only a possibility, but also a long-standing reality, so most educated, experienced and compassionate people can do it: don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.

In real life, being laughed at is a normal state, which cannot be fundamentally avoided or eliminated. The correct attitude is to calm down, concentrate on doing your own words and deeds, strive to improve yourself, and regard other people's jokes as the driving force for your progress. Only in this way can things become simple, not trapped by others, and turn bad things into good things. Why not? !

We talk and tell stories because our life, cultural foundation and understanding of water evaluation are different, and our ability to do things is also different. We are often one-sided, so it is natural to leave a joke. Naturally, some people joke, talk too much and point too low. I don't like people laughing at me after doing things and talking. First, I feel that others have a sense of disrespect for themselves and my self-esteem is hurt. Second, some people have the opportunity to belittle their own consciousness, while others are up to no good and take the opportunity to drink some water, hoping that they can't kill the object that can make people laugh. In this case, I don't want others to laugh at me, and I'm afraid things will get out of hand. But some people's jokes are an instruction, but this instruction will be ignored by their own rebellious consciousness. Therefore, as long as others joke, they won't like it too much. However, whether you like others to laugh at you or not, you should be aware of your own shortcomings. You should clearly know where you are in life, cultural background, attitude or understanding, and where there are gaps and shortcomings, thus causing jokes about talking and doing things. So as to improve and learn from what aspects in order to achieve perfection in the future. Never hurt your self-esteem, but face up to your shortcomings and ridicule from others.

Despising others shows a sense of honey superiority, which is particularly noble. Generally, this kind of person is not the kind of person who lives a good life and is full of darkness.

They like to watch people fail, hoping to see someone fall to the same level as them, even worse than them, so that their hearts will be satisfied. "Look, if you work so hard, will you still be like me?" . Just like those people who say that reading is useless every day and worship Li Ka-shing Schumacher. They always believe that those students who work hard will not get the rewards they deserve in the future, and even get worse than themselves; I believe I will be the next Li Ka-shing.

However, even if they don't fail, they will still criticize this and that. They have been indignant at the injustice of this world, but they have not seen the efforts and progress of others and their own decadence and filth.

Right, Keyboard Man?

Making fun of others is a person's psychological quality problem. Who can stand the ridicule and ridicule of others? Only when a person has a good personality quality, or through his own cultivation and shaping his own quality, can he gain a reputation. Don't joke about other people's strengths and weaknesses, but know how to tolerate and respect others and live with a happy mood. People should have moral cultivation and good personality quality, which is the foundation of being a man.

Who has ever heard someone laugh at himself to his face? The answer is yes: yes! However, this is a joke made by an old acquaintance or friend in a harmonious situation, or a kind word of correction from a relative. Most jokes are told behind people's backs, and jokes are generally not heard by jokes unless there are ears through the wall. When I heard it, it was the second and third time. Word reached Liu Erba Erduo. There is no good word behind it. Bad words are negative, corrode the soul, and make those who hear them get no benefit. So you don't listen, you don't mind. A generation of film emperor Ruan Yuling lamented that people's words were awesome, tired and fragrant. Nowadays, there are too many online sprays, making excuses, making things out of nothing, fabricating facts, calling names at will and so on. , with the development of the network. Not telling the truth, promoting positive energy, but following the crowd, for example, female mosquitoes in autumn will not stop until they see blood. Humor, ridicule, curse, arrogance ... The Internet has become a stage for such people to satisfy themselves, and the shirtless Wulin is waiting for the ugly "Jiang Lang exhausted" to be ousted by a just audience! Aren't these people also the troublemakers behind it? Who is the victim who wants to be spoiled? ! There's no other way but to flow east. Leave a scar? . I believe that self-esteem makes everyone unwilling to be laughed at.

I think this question is a good one. I think everyone has a different sense of dignity. If you laugh right, you may hurt the dignity of others if you laugh wrong, and you may even hate you and get back at you.

Everyone has the ability and has his own life; Like going home for the New Year, all kinds of comparisons, all kinds of ridicule, all kinds of contempt, I don't think it is necessary and don't care.

Be yourself, be modest and prudent, guard against arrogance and rashness, and work hard. Study more, face life optimistically, strengthen yourself, and let those who laugh at you go to hell.

I don't agree with this view.

What is not envied is mediocrity. Talented people are admired behind others' backs, and it is common to be gossiped, which just proves that you are not a vulgar generation. You already have enviable capital and professional knowledge, and you are extraordinary.

I went out with a big smile. How can I be a person who has lived in the wild for a long time? Do what you want to do and make others laugh. When your prestige has accumulated to a certain extent, the people who laughed at you may understand, regret, hate themselves as blind as a bat and always want to apologize to you. It's too late to make amends!

The correct attitude is not afraid of clouds covering your eyes and not being influenced by other people's gossip.