Take the initiative to talk to boys. The beginning is very short.

What did you say at the beginning of chatting with boys? 1, hello, can you give me some trouble and help me? 2. hey! Are you a friend of xxx? I am also a friend of xxx. Nice to meet you. Can I make friends with you? 3. hey? Aren't you xxx? I'm sorry, I mistook you for someone else. You are really alike. Ha ha ha, maybe you can make friends. Do you want me to introduce you? 4. Excuse me, handsome? I have too many things to take. Can you help me? After someone has helped you, in order to show your gratitude, you can ask him for contact information and invite him to dinner. 5. Have you seen the latest movie xxx? It's really good! I think,,, (If it happens that he also watched the film, you will naturally have a topic to talk about! If he hasn't seen it, you can give it to him. That xxx game is very popular recently. Have you ever played? Do you want to team up together? Take me with you, I promise I won't lie to you! 7. I see that you seem to be reading a book on xxx recently, and I am reading it, too. We can discuss it together! 8. Wow! I saw you send a picture of xxx restaurant dishes in your circle of friends yesterday. Is it really that delicious? When shall we have the meeting? How to attract each other's curiosity from the beginning when chatting with boys? Girls must attract the attention of boys when chatting up boys, and plain chatting up boys will not like it. Opening remarks such as "What are you doing? Are you free? Hello?" are not recommended. After all, we should consider each other's feelings in this matter. If a girl wants to attract a boy, she can say, "You look like one of my classmates. What's your name?" At first, the boy thought you were his primary school classmate or classmate. Because it takes too long to remember, he will definitely reply to you at this time. Girls must seize this opportunity and don't let it out after boys' curiosity rises. Looking for help from each other, girls will definitely encounter problems of all sizes. Girls can find some small questions to chat up boys. Of course, don't ask questions directly as soon as you come up, but ask the other person if he is free before determining whether the boys are interested in you. A girl can say, "I have a question I don't understand. Can you help me solve it? " If this boy is interested or a warm-hearted person, he will certainly promise you, and girls will also have the opportunity to befriend boys, so girls must not be shy, even if they are rejected, you will have nothing to lose. Pretending to be an acquaintance is suitable for open girls. Generally, more introverted girls can't say such things, and even if they do, they won't take the next sentence. Girls can pretend to be acquaintances or friends with boys. For example, girls send boys "Long time no see, what are you doing". At this time, the boy will definitely remember who you are or be curious about your identity, which will also arouse his curiosity. If he doesn't have the answer, he will ask who you are, and then the girl can answer the phone. Be sure to let nature take its course, or boys will think you are doing it. Talk to boys about what? 1. What's your job? When you want to pursue each other, you must show interest so that you can ask each other what they do. If the other person is willing to communicate with you, it means that two people may have a good impression. 2. You are single, right? When you meet someone you like when interacting with boys, you must take the initiative to talk to them. At this time, you can be humorous. Generally, girls who are very confident in themselves are boys who will not refuse and will give you opportunities for common development. I heard that you come from a company. Can you understand it? Sometimes men are proud, so they like to show off their abilities. At this time, they can give men these satisfaction, show their admiration for each other when they meet, and also narrow the distance between you. Chatting with a boy 1, hey, wait a minute, I only have one minute. If I don't say hello to you, I think I will regret it for the rest of my life. Because I think you are very friendly and I really want to know you. I really want to know you, but I don't know how, so I just came to say hello to you. Do you mind? I find you a particularly interesting place. "The other party will have great interest in asking questions when they hear this sentence. At this time, you can take the opportunity to communicate with each other. Such an opening remark is easy to talk about boys. " Copyright All the initiatives of chatting with boys in No.5.com are short-lived. Because boys like to conquer, just like fighting in ancient times. Boys like to go to the battlefield and fight for their country. But he hates being beaten by others. You are actively pursuing him now, just like you are invading him, so many boys will have a strange feeling and be particularly embarrassed when they encounter this situation. Therefore, the core principle for girls to attract high-quality boys is actually: you seduce him to pursue you, not you actively pursue him. Among them, it is best to keep in mind that you even like him, and don't let him find out. So when he catches up with you, he will have a sense of accomplishment and he will cherish it. This requires you to focus on the core needs of boys when chatting with them. So what are the core needs of men in chatting? Be noticed, understood and worshipped. It is true that men are not good at talking, but one of the reasons why they are not good at talking is that they think you don't understand and it's useless to talk to you. So you should first give them a feeling that you are willing to pay attention to them and listen to them, and then you can gradually improve their goodwill. Let him find the feeling of being worshipped. Here, everyone needs to pay attention to giving boys a feeling of being worshipped. You don't have to expose your fans when chatting with boys. Because sometimes, the worship you offer is also a very uncomfortable bondage. Give a simple example: a girl is chatting with a boy, and the first sentence begins: Woman: "Wow, I admire you very much and think you are very powerful. I watch you play basketball every day, and I am so excited every time! " "At this time, what can a boy say except" thank you "? Because you put him in a very high position at once, you can't communicate equally. Similarly, if you want to give a boy a feeling of being worshipped, it doesn't need to be so obvious. You only need to do one thing: ask him more questions about his professional field. Don't think that you can't ask if you don't know much about this field. You just need to ask the most basic and simple question, let him begin to express his advantages, and then ask him further according to what he mentioned. Many girls are deeply confused about the topic selection, either the other party doesn't understand, or they are not interested, or the topic selection has become the other party's "minefield". Over time, many girls can only flinch from the boys they like. The skill of making him talk more can be said to be effortless, but it is particularly good. You only need to ask some basic questions to achieve this goal: for example, where do you study? How is your school? What do you think of your company? How stressful is your life there? Asking boys questions is not the key, but showing and listening are the key. Your question doesn't need to be too fancy, you just need to keep a state: he listens carefully when he says it, nods more, and then panders to him and says, "Oh, so that's it! """and then what?" "I really can't see it if you don't tell me!" In addition, it is also a great sense of accomplishment for boys to remember to laugh and make girls laugh. Only when your relationship has reached a certain stage can you use this skill. If you try to wander around with some questions from the beginning when you are not very familiar with each other, it will only make the other party feel embarrassed. When your relationship is good and you can chat naturally, you can start asking questions. The problem of mind wandering is often ambiguous or related to you. Taking this opportunity, I don't know but give each other a vague feeling: Is this girl talking about me and her? But it's not so obvious. Is it important that this vague feeling is the most likely to cause ambiguity? Give a simple example: female: "Let me ask you a question. What do you think of a girl with my personality? Will boys like such girls? " Woman: "Are you boys particularly easy to pester girls and just don't confess?" Woman: "I feel that what you said is a routine. Are you setting me up? " If you ask such questions in a good relationship, the other party will not feel embarrassed, and because it is related to emotions, it is easy to figure out the other party's emotional views and even hidden attitudes towards you. Especially through this question, it is easy for two people to talk about their past emotional experiences. This topic can not only be talked about a lot, but also easily spark. Emotional topics are ambiguous, so make good use of this problem. Do the girls really understand what is the key behind these skills? The most important thing is what this question leads to: boys' talk, boys' self-display, and boys' emotional exposure. This is what you need to master most when chatting with boys: enough information and an opportunity to show your sense of listening, admiration and distraction. The question is just an introduction, and what comes after the question is the most important. The beginning of active chatting with boys is short. 3. Which is the most appropriate beginning to actively chat with boys? 1. Arouse each other's curiosity: When girls talk to boys, they must attract boys' attention. Boys don't like plain chatting up, such as what are you doing? Are you free? These courses are not recommended. After all, we should consider each other's feelings in this matter. Girls should attract boys. We can say girls as if I were classmates. What's your name? But first of all, I thought you were his primary school or classmate, because it was too long to remember. At this time, he will definitely reply to you. Girls must seize this opportunity and don't let it out after boys' curiosity rises. 2. Ask each other for help: Girls are bound to encounter some problems, big and small. Girls can find some small questions to be accosted by boys. Of course, don't ask each other directly as soon as you come up, but ask them if they are free, and then make sure the boys are interested in you. Girls can say I have a question that I don't understand. Can you help me answer it? If this boy is interested or a warm-hearted person, he will definitely promise your girl, and he will have a chance to get close to this boy, so women must not be shy. Even if they are rejected, you have nothing to lose. 2. What topics do you talk to boys? 1. ball games: ball games are a boy's favorite, but you still have to see what kind of balls he likes. Basketball, football, badminton and billiards are different. Do what you like and study his favorite stars and teams. 2. Sports stars: Sports stars choose according to their favorite sports. For example, he likes watching basketball. You must know something about Kobe. If he likes watching badminton, you can check the information of Dānlín. 3. Movies: Don't think that only girls like watching movies. Some wonderful action movies and horror movies are also very popular with boys. Go and see the boys you like even if you are afraid. Talking more will definitely be good for your communication. 4. Computer games: Boys like games very much, whether they are stand-alone games or online games. There are some games you must learn. 5. Cars: Many men like cars, but girls don't need to study more. To know the common license plates, meet for the first time, talk about each other's cars, and ask some common knowledge about car maintenance and driving. It is particularly important for girls to be happy when chatting with boys.