We can't judge a book by its cover. Many times, we hate to judge a book by its cover.

Many times we hate to judge people by their appearances, but we often bring ourselves into the strange circle of judging people by their appearances. This is a strange man. The most important key word between men and women is mutual attraction, because eye contact is the premise of communication, but don't forget that it is easy to fall in love with someone, and it is not that simple to fall in love with someone for a lifetime. Therefore, as a woman, to attract men successfully, we need to pay attention to the following points.

First, the appearance.

Three-point appearance, seven-point dress; There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women. I believe that a woman has heard these truths. Therefore, if a woman wants to be called a real beauty by a man, she needs a heart that loves beauty. If she cultivates external beauty and internal beauty at the same time, she will kill the man visually first.

Second, personality.

What kind of personality do men like best? It's hard to say, because men's preferences are different, so it is particularly important to find a man who matches them and appreciates his personality. Here, I want to remind all women in love that personality and nausea are two different things. If a man can't agree with your personality in the process of interacting with him, then don't try to change it. That will make you lose yourself and get worse in love. What if there is a personality conflict?

Third, I am willing to pay.

In the process of getting along with men and women, it is usually men who pay more than women. It seems that the traditional idea that there are more men and fewer women is normal, but once there are more women and fewer men, it becomes putting the cart before the horse. Here, I want to say that as a woman, you can pay less than a man, but you must never let a man's contribution show a one-sided trend, because sometimes, a man's contribution also needs a positive response from a woman. If you don't get a corresponding response, a man will feel that he has paid more for you, but you don't understand, so he will be in a bad mood and stop paying.

Fourth, know how to put yourself in other's shoes.

When two people are together, they will experience a lot of things, and it is inevitable that differences will arise because of some different positions. What should we do when there is disagreement? We should actively learn to put ourselves in others' shoes. Perhaps in the mode of empathy, you will find that many things may not be as bad as you think. In this way, men won't be so embarrassed without liberating themselves. Many times, empathy equals a win-win situation.

5. Attitude towards family.

There is only one parent, so there is no choice, so women can have their own ideas about dealing with male parents, but they can't swear. If they dare to speak ill of men's parents, the result will be: poor quality, do not know how to respect the elderly and love the young; It is difficult and embarrassing for men to follow.

Sixth, the cold-faced killer.

Evil comes from the mouth, so talk less and do more. If a woman reveals all the secrets in her heart to a man, then a woman will become very worthless and what she says will be very insignificant. Sometimes, being a calm, mysterious and quiet woman will help you get extra points.

Seven, tone.

Tone is very important, give a simple example to illustrate one: husband, have a meal; Again, turn off the TV and climb over to eat. In fact, they all express the meaning of eating fast, but the feeling of listening is different. There are so many trivial things in life that it is necessary for each of us to cultivate the utilitarianism of speaking. We really don't have the talent for humor, just talking about civilization. This is the simplest.

Eight, kindness.

The area of kindness is too big. To put it more thoroughly, you should learn to feel sorry for the man who loves you, so that he will feel gratified. In fact, men need emotional nourishment more than women. Many times, men's emotional betrayal is not caused by their love, but because they can't get the strength and care they deserve in front of their lover, and they will seek warmth elsewhere without telling their lover.

Nine, spend money moderately.

Women should have the spirit of risking their lives, but they don't have to buy what they like. I have asked many men, and they all say that it is acceptable for women to spend a lot of money once a year, but the high frequency not only makes them unacceptable, but also makes them feel disgusted and stressed.

Therefore, if women want men to feel sorry for themselves, they must first learn to spend men's money. Women who save men money are the meanest, and women who spend men's money without blinking an eye are the most annoying. A woman who spends a man's money properly is a woman who makes a man love and hate.

Ten, be careful but not careful.

Nowadays, the ways of communication between people are diversified. Sometimes ambiguity is not really ambiguity, but a wide range of pleasantries, or a joke when you are cheap. As a woman, you can remind men to pay attention to their discretion, but don't stare at men's whereabouts every day like a monitor, which will make the other party very tired, and the other party is too transparent, which will consume the freshness of the emotion itself.