Quoted from Qian Zhongshu's wife Jiang Yang.

Quoted from Qian Zhongshu's wife Jiang Yang, quoted from Jiang Yang's centenary speech.

Brief introduction of Jiang Yang: Jiang Yang, whose real name is Yang Jikang, was born in Beijing in July 1989.

[1] Born in Wuxi, Jiangsu Province, he is a famous writer, dramatist and translator in China.

Jiang Yang is familiar with English, French and Spanish, and her translation of Don Quixote is recognized as the best translation, with a cumulative distribution of more than 700,000 copies. Her early play Satisfaction has been put on the stage for more than 60 years, and it is still in public performance in 2006. At the age of 93, Jiang Yang published the essay "The Three of us", which was very popular at home and abroad and reprinted more than one million copies. At the age of 96, he published a collection of philosophical essays, Walking to the Edge of Life, and at the age of 102, he published eight volumes of 2.5 million words of Jiang Yang's Collected Works.

Prose: Six Chapters of Cadre School, Drinking Tea (including Memories of My Father, Memories of Qian Zhongshu and Besieged City in Jiang Yang, Memories of My menstruation, etc.). ), essays (including memories of Chen Hengzhe, etc. ), Ding's Youth, The Three of us, Xiaoyangchun, Big Joke, Jade Man, Romanesque, Ghost, Career: Don Quixote, Jill Brass, Little Lazy Bone, Fido and/kloc.

I'm a hundred years old, and I'm on the verge of life. I can't know exactly how far I can go, and I can't help living, but I know very well that I will go home soon.

1, I am one hundred years old, on the edge of life. I can't know exactly how far I can go, and I can't help living, but I know very well that I will go home soon. I want to wash away the filth that has been contaminated for a hundred years and go home. I don't have the feeling of "climbing Mount Tai and being small in the world". I just live a quiet life in my own land of Xiaotian.

I am an old man, I just said some old sayings. For the times, I am a laggard, and I have no good words to contribute to modern marriage. Only under the trend of material supremacy, I want to remind young friends that the most important thing in the combination of men and women is feelings, which is the degree of mutual understanding. Only through in-depth understanding can we appreciate, attract, support and encourage each other, two of a kind. It doesn't matter whether you are suitable or not.

I discussed Einstein's theory of relativity with Fei Xiaotong when I was young. I don't understand. One day I suddenly understood that time was running and the earth was turning. Even the same place is not exactly the same. I feel the same way now Every day is new. Watching the changes of leaves is different from listening to the songs of birds, ne.

I want to wash away the filth that has been contaminated for a hundred years and go home. I don't have the feeling of "climbing Mount Tai and being small in the world". I just live a quiet life in my own land of Xiaotian. At this point, I am as calm as water. I want to greet every day peacefully and prepare to go home.

Life is really hard in this materialistic world. If you deliberately be honest, people will use you to bully you. If you are gifted and good-looking, others will envy you and crowd you out. If you give in generously, people will invade you and hurt you. If you don't fight with others, you have to be indifferent to the world, and at the same time you have to maintain your strength and be prepared for the struggle. If you want to make peace with others, you have to deal with them first, and you have to be prepared to suffer losses at any time.

Teenagers are playful, young people are obsessed with love, young people are eager to become famous and have a family, and they are content to deceive themselves in their twilight years.

Life geometry, how much pure gold can stubborn iron make? However, different degrees of exercise will inevitably have different degrees of results; Different degrees of indulgence will inevitably accumulate different degrees of stubbornness.

God will not concentrate all happiness on one person, and getting love is not necessarily rich; Being rich is not necessarily happiness; Happiness does not necessarily mean health; Having health may not be everything you want.

Keeping a contented heart is the best way to temper and purify the mind. All happy enjoyment belongs to the spirit, and this kind of happiness turns patience into enjoyment, which is the victory of the spirit over the material. This is the philosophy of life.

After different degrees of exercise, a person can obtain different degrees of self-cultivation and different degrees of benefits. Just like spices, the finer they are, the stronger the fragrance. We were so eager for the waves of fate, only to find out in the end that the most beautiful scenery in life is actually inner peace and calmness ... We were so eager for external recognition, only to know in the end that the world belongs to us and has nothing to do with others. I am 100 years old this year, and I have reached the edge of my life. I can't know exactly how far I can go, and I can't help living, but I know very well that I will go home soon.

I want to wash away the filth that has been contaminated for a hundred years and go home. I don't have the feeling of "climbing Mount Tai and being small in the world". I just live a quiet life in my own land of Xiaotian. At this point, I am as calm as water. I want to greet every day peacefully and prepare to go home.

Excerpts from classic quotations and famous sayings of Mrs. Qian Zhongshu's Jiang Yang.

1, if the metaphor platform like a mirror can be borrowed, she will wipe off all the dust. Jiang Yang Yu

2. I never thought about getting married before I met her; After I married her, I never regretted marrying her. I first met Zhong Shu in March of 1932. He is wearing a blue gown, shoes with wool soles and a pair of old-fashioned glasses. His brow is beautiful. After meeting, Lao Qian began to write to me and asked me to meet in the I-shaped hall. When they met, his first sentence was: I'm not engaged. And I nervously replied: I don't have a boyfriend either. So he began to correspond with Hongyan, and wrote letters more and more frequently, one a day, so that he went home on holiday. I was ill for a long time. Calm down and don't feel good. This is love. Yang Jiang

I am afraid that people are not as easy to deal with as books. They will look down on you, bully you, or be jealous of you, or bully and be jealous. Jiang Yang Yu

4, teenagers are playful, young people are infatuated with love, eager to become famous and have a family in their prime, and content to deceive themselves in their later years. Life geometry, how much pure gold can stubborn iron make? However, different degrees of exercise will inevitably have different degrees of results; Different degrees of indulgence will inevitably accumulate different degrees of stubbornness.

In this materialistic world, life is really hard enough. If you deliberately be honest, people will use you to bully you. If you are gifted and good-looking, others will envy you and crowd you out. If you give in generously, people will invade you and hurt you. If you don't fight with others, you have to be indifferent to the world, and at the same time you have to maintain your strength and be prepared for the struggle. If you want to make peace with others, you have to deal with them first, and you have to be prepared to suffer losses at any time.

6, ugly people look in the mirror, always can't see how ugly they are, only see the beauty that others can't see.

7. I think fate is the most unreasonable. The fate we see is unreasonable. We are always joking, playing tricks on people and causing trouble.

8. God will not concentrate all happiness on one person, and getting love does not necessarily mean having money; Being rich is not necessarily happiness; Happiness does not necessarily mean health; Having health may not be everything you want. Keeping a contented heart is the best way to temper and purify the soul. All happy enjoyment belongs to the spirit, and this kind of happiness turns patience into enjoyment, which is the victory of the spirit over the material. This is the philosophy of life.

9, a person through different degrees of exercise, get different degrees of sense of accomplishment, different degrees of income. Just like spices, the finer they are, the stronger the fragrance.

10, the confidence of ordinary people is sometimes absent. If not, or the times have changed, it will be forgotten, or the demand exceeds the supply, it will be suspected. This is the normal state of ordinary people. Without exercise, confidence will not be firm.

1 1. Only humble people have the best chance to see the truth of the world and human feelings. If a person doesn't want to climb higher, he is not afraid of falling and doesn't have to crowd out others. He can keep his innocence, become natural and concentrate on what he can do.

12. Is it to increase the pain or reduce the pain for a long time? I don't know, but the farther I go with him, the more afraid I will never see him again.

13, if a person has some shortcomings, he must be deceiving himself. Tell a lie three times and you will believe it yourself.

14, laziness is also innate. Diligence requires your own efforts, and when you relax, you become lazy.

15, I often wonder why someone got help from his father and kowtowed to his mother with gratitude, which I will never forget. Why did someone get 1000 mu of good land with the help of my father? After 20 years, she still doesn't forget the cheap price. Although her father was old, sick and poor, she still exploited his brain power, and then used two jiaozi to express her gratitude. Why is the difference between people so big? Jiang Yang can drink tea.

16, if people are spiritual and conscientious animals, then life is nothing more than knowing yourself, training yourself and voluntarily transforming yourself, unless you are willing to be an animal. But it's not easy. Jiang Yang Yu

17, God won't concentrate all happiness on one person. If you get love, you don't necessarily have money. Being rich is not necessarily happiness; Happiness does not necessarily mean health; Having health may not be everything you want. Contentment is the best way to temper and purify the mind. All happy enjoyment belongs to the spirit, and this kind of happiness turns patience into enjoyment, which is the victory of the spirit over the material. This is the philosophy of life. Yang Jiang

18, our home is very simple; The three of us, it's simple. So we don't want to compete with others, just want to get together, stay together and do what we can. When we encounter difficulties, we will bear them together, and the difficulties will no longer be difficult; We help each other together, no matter what hardships and difficulties, we can become sweet and moist. If we are a little happy, we will become very happy. Jiang Yang is the three of us.

19, I am willing to be a zero. People don't treat me like things, and I can see through people who look down on me at a glance.

20. Yao Mi's eyes lit up, just like a thunderstorm. Before the thunder sounded, lightning first penetrated the dark clouds. Jiang Yang Yu

2 1, sitting and studying all day, even annoying to re-educate our workers and teachers. A 23-year-old master muttered, I don't feel tired making steel in front of the stove every day. Now sitting all day, my ass hurts, my head hurts, and I feel weak. Obviously, refining people is more troublesome than steelmaking; Sitting on the bench is also a chore. Jiang Yang's Six Chapters of Cadre School

22. I mended a pair of trousers and sat up like a globe full of latitude and longitude, as thick as a turtle shell. Mochu appreciated it and said it was great. It's like carrying a seat with you. You can sit anywhere. He said, don't be too prepared, just wait for me to go down, and you can look after him. As for family reunion, when will A Yuan and Germany and Italy settle in the countryside and wait for them to meet them? Jiang Yang's Six Chapters of Cadre School

23. Write a letter home when you are free; In a few words, off and on, all day long. How interesting it would be to reread these letters if they were kept! But more valuable letters have been destroyed, so why cherish them? Jiang Yang's Six Chapters of Cadre School

24. I always thought I was an easy-going person, but I was a little withdrawn, often unhappy, and even suspected that I had depression and felt that I was a mistake from birth. In retrospect, I always feel inappropriate. I was wrong about everything. Why do I have this person? Jiang Yang Yu

25. People around the city want to escape, while people standing outside the city want to rush in. Whether it is marriage or career, most of the desires in life are like this.

I once had a little dream, blaming him for leaving suddenly without saying a word. He is walking slowly on purpose now, and wants me to send him one by one and get together as much as possible to turn a small dream into a long dream in Wan Li. I am willing to do that. Send a ride, say goodbye, goodbye. Is it to increase the pain or reduce the pain for a long time? I don't know. But the farther I go with him, the more afraid I will never see him again.

27. He made an oath: From now on, we will only die and never part again.

28. If a person doesn't want to climb high, he is not afraid of falling and doesn't have to crowd out others. He can keep his innocence, become natural and concentrate on what he can do. Jiang Yang can drink tea.

29, people can condense into a stone, lurking in the bottom of the water, let time pass like running water, only know that they are in the water and can't feel the water. Yang Jiang

30. When Mocun and I lived in Tsinghua, we had a cat. Its fur is not as good as Dabai, but its intelligence is far above Dabai. That's a brown kitten my relative brought from the city. Just full moon, just weaned. His mother is a pure Persian with long white hair, but this son is black and white: there are three black circles on his back, a black tail and four black claws, and two black semicircles on his face, which are as big as the big black-rimmed glasses worn by fashionable people, covering half of his face, but even his ears are black. It has Zhang Yuanyuan's face, gray-blue eyes, and the beauty of eyes is not lost. It was suddenly carried out of the city and kept screaming. I can't bear to hold the kitten in my arms all day, so it is closest to me.

3 1, I often hear people brag, which makes me feel very small. I also want to boast of my greatness, but I am as ghostly as a mouse, because it is just a dead face without fermentation and air.

32. I still owe at least one hand, so I have to help with my teeth. I tied the end of the thick rope with a thin rope and bit it with my teeth. Then I tied a bed into three parts, each with a silent name written repeatedly. A small bed divided into several parts is better than a family in war. I'm afraid that as soon as I leave home, I'll be separated from each other and never get together again. According to Mocun's letter, the reunion of the three parts in one place really hurt his search. Jiang Yang's Six Chapters of Cadre School

Yancheng shook his head and said, I just think this kind of bath is useless and a waste of water. Realizing one's own shortcomings is a painful process. A person can cultivate one's morality and seek goodness, and then he will see that he is not good. Then, out of shame, we will repent. Regret may not change. You have to make persistent efforts to make it better. Now we are under the pressure of sports, and the masses help us understand ourselves. None of this is good, and we can't deny it, so we have to admit it. The so-called voluntary is forced out. Is it voluntary? Jiang Yang Yu

34. Human beings do not rely on the teaching of gods, and there is a spiritual conscience in human nature. Under the guidance of spiritual conscience, everyone has higher requirements than material things.

35. Although a man is small and his life is short, he can learn, cultivate and improve. Man's value lies in himself.

36. God will not concentrate all happiness on one person, and getting love does not necessarily mean having money; Being rich is not necessarily happiness; Happiness does not necessarily mean health; Having health may not be everything you want. Keeping a contented heart is the best way to temper and purify the soul. All happy enjoyment belongs to the spirit, and this kind of happiness turns patience into enjoyment, which is the victory of the spirit over the material. This is the philosophy of life.

37. I remember once seeing passengers going abroad by sea boat boarding the ferry, and the people who saw them off threw many colorful paper tapes at the boat. The boat slowly sailed to the big ship, and the colorful paper tapes broke one after another, and the applause on the shore thundered. Some people also shed tears in cheers; A broken ribbon is like a broken parting. This farewell to ultra-leftwing cadres, the advance team on the bus and the relatives who got off the bus, if visible, are by no means colorful, nor can they be broken at once.

38. As the saying goes, colorful clouds are easy to disperse, so how can dark clouds occupy the sky forever? The days when the sky was covered with dark clouds are hard to look back, but what remains in memory is Phnom Penh with light and heat.

39. I'm an old man, I'm just saying some old sayings. For the times, I am a laggard, and I have no good words to contribute to modern marriage. Only under the trend of material supremacy, I want to remind young friends that the most important thing in the combination of men and women is feelings, which is the degree of mutual understanding. Only through in-depth understanding can we appreciate, attract, support and encourage each other, two of a kind. It doesn't matter whether you are suitable or not.

40. I am one hundred years old this year, and I have reached the edge of my life. I don't know how far I can go. My life is involuntary, but I know very well that I will go home soon. I want to wash away the filth that has been contaminated for a hundred years and go home. I don't want to climb Mount Tai and live in a small world, but I live a quiet life in my own land in Xiaotian.

4 1. People who are waiting to go to school in Beijing are of course concerned about the life of the school and often ask me to tell them something. What everyone likes to hear is the story of Comrade He Qifang eating fish. The local fishing was exhausted, and the canteen improved the food, with braised fish. His comrades took their own big mouthwash cups to buy one; But it tastes weird, and the more you eat it, the weirder it gets. He picked up the biggest piece and wanted to have a taste. When he looked at it, it turned out to be a medicated soap that had not been soaked, and it was put in a mouthwash cup without being removed. Everyone laughed with infinite sympathy. They also told me a joke, saying that Qian Zhongshu and Ding, two first-class researchers, can't cook in a boiler for long! Jiang Yang's Six Chapters of Cadre School

Qian Zhongshu's love quotations are from the love poems written by Jiang Yang to Jiang Yang.

The marriage between Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang is called the most ideal marriage. Qian Zhongshu commented on Jiang Yang's most virtuous wife and most talented woman. Here, I sorted out the love words and poems written by Qian Zhongshu to Jiang Yang. Let's feel the love of this couple in the literary world for half a century!

1, the most virtuous wife and the most talented woman Qian Zhongshu

He made a vow: From now on, we will only die and never part again.

3. Jiang Yang read the British biographer's summary of the ideal marriage: I never thought about getting married before I met her; I have been married to her for decades and have never regretted marrying her; I never thought of marrying another woman. When I read it to Qian Zhongshu, Qian immediately replied that I am the same as him and replied that I am the same.

4. Miss Su's flying gold fan is engraved with a poem: Did I imprison you? Or did you take me? You broke into my heart, closed the door and locked it. I lost the key to the lock. It's me, maybe you. I can't open that door from now on, and you are locked in my heart forever. Fortress Besieged (by Mr. Qian's wife and scholar)

I once had a little dream, blaming him for leaving suddenly without saying a word. He is walking slowly on purpose now, and wants me to send him one by one and get together as much as possible to turn a small dream into a long dream in Wan Li. I am willing to do that. Send a ride, say goodbye, goodbye. Is it to increase the pain or reduce the pain for a long time? I don't know. But the farther I go with him, the more afraid I will never see him again.

6. Our family is very simple; The three of us, it's simple. We have nothing to do with the world and others, but to get together, stay together and do what we can. When we encounter difficulties, we will bear them together, and the difficulties will no longer be difficult; We help each other together, no matter what hardships and difficulties, we can become sweet and moist. If we are a little happy, we will become very happy.

7. He is thin and I am old. He didn't even have the strength to speak, and he entertained me with his eyes open. Now he deliberately walked slowly, let me walk one by one, get together as much as possible, and turn a small dream into a long dream in Wan Li. I am willing to do that. Send a ride, say goodbye, goodbye. Is it to increase the pain or reduce the pain for a long time? I don't know. But the farther I go with him, the more afraid I will never see him again.

8. Is it more painful or less painful to leave for a long time? I don't know, but the farther I go with him, the more afraid I will never see him again.

9. I am an old man, and what I say is an old saying. For the times, I am a laggard, and I have no good words to contribute to modern marriage. I just want to remind young people that the most important thing in the combination of men and women is feelings, not the degree of mutual understanding. Only through in-depth understanding can they appreciate each other, attract each other, support each other and encourage each other, and become the right people in two of a kind. It doesn't matter.

10. Husband and wife should be friends for life. The most important thing between husband and wife is friendship. Even if you are not intimate friends, you should at least be friends who can be partners or partners who respect each other. Relationships between lovers, not friends, can't last. Husband and wife are not friends enough, so they have to break up.