Why does Baoyu always annoy Lin Daiyu?

Excerpt from the 28th episode of A Dream of Red Mansions: I saw a maid in the old lady's room looking for Baoyu and Daiyu for dinner. Lin Daiyu didn't call Baoyu, so she got up and took the maid away. The girl said she was waiting for Baoyu to go with her. "He won't eat," said Lin Daiyu. Let's leave now. I'll go first. " Said and went out. Baoyu said, "I'll eat with my wife today." Madam Wang said, "Come on, come on, I want to fast today. Go eat your food. " Baoyu said, "I'll do the same." After that, he let the girl "go" and ran to the table first. Lady Wang smiled at Baochai and others. "Just eat your meal and let him go." Baochai said with a smile, "Go seriously. Whether he eats or not, he feels uncomfortable to accompany Miss Lin. " Baoyu said, "Never mind him. "。 "He will be all right in a moment." After eating for a while, Baoyu was afraid that the old lady would miss him and Lin Daiyu, so he asked for tea to gargle. Tanchun Xichun smiled and said, "Second brother, what are you doing at home? Eating and drinking tea is so busy. " Baochai said with a smile, "Tell him to eat quickly and go to see Sister Lin. Tell him what to do in the flock. " ..... He said, and came to Jia's side, only to find that they had finished eating. Grandmother Jia asked him, "What did you eat with your mother?" Baoyu said with a smile, "Nothing good, but I ate an extra bowl of rice." Because he asked, "Where's Sister Lin?" "It's inside," said Grandmother Jia. . Baoyu came in and saw a maid blowing an iron in the ground, two maids rubbing chalk lines on the kang, and Daiyu was bending down with scissors to cut something. Baoyu came in and said with a smile, "Oh, what is this? I just finished eating, so my head was empty and I had a headache for a while. " Daiyu ignored him and just cut him. One of the maids said, "That silk is not good enough. Iron it again. " Daiyu threw the scissors away and said, "Leave him alone. It will be all right in a minute." Baoyu just wondered. I saw Baochai, Tanchun and so on. Also coming, said a reply to the grandmother. Baochai also came in and asked, "What is Sister Lin doing?" Seeing Lin Daiyu cut, she smiled and said, "My sister is more capable and even can cut." Daiyu said with a smile, "It's just a lie." Baochai said with a smile, "I'll tell you a joke. I just said that I don't know the medicine, and Brother Bao is useless. " Lin Daiyu said, "Ignore him." . "It'll be all right in a minute." Baoyu said to Baochai, "The old lady wants to play dominoes, and no one is here. Go and play dominoes. " Baochai laughed and said, "I'm here to wipe the dominoes?" Say that finish and left. Lin Daiyu said, "You go." . "There are tigers here. I want to eat you! " Cut while talking. Seeing that he ignored him, Baoyu had to say with a smile, "It's not too late for you to go out and have a look." Lin Daiyu always ignores it. Baoyu asked the maids, "Who told you to cut this?" Lin Daiyu asked the maids, "I don't care who he told me to cut!" " Baoyu was about to speak when someone came in and said, "Someone is invited outside." . Baoyu hurried out. Daiyu said to the outside, "Amitabha! If I drive you back, I will die. " Blogger's comments: There are always quarrels between lovers, which are nothing more than two situations: one is to take the other side as a punching bag intentionally or unintentionally, which is harmful because it destroys feelings; One is personality. Like Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, Baoyu's stubbornness and Daiyu's sensitivity are contradictory, so they often quarrel. Because they never take it out on each other, quarreling is a kind of running-in, which not only does not hurt feelings, but plays a positive role. Baoyu's stupidity made him unable to fully understand what Lin Daiyu said. -Daiyu said, "He won't eat. Let's leave now. I'll go first. " Obviously, "he won't eat" is a joke. How could she be willing to let Baoyu starve? So she immediately said, "I'll go first." It means, come on! In front of Mrs. Wang and Xue Baochai, she can only be so reserved. But Baoyu didn't recognize this meaning, just literally, thinking that she was angry again. Lin Daiyu is angry in two ways. One is really angry, and Jia Baoyu will comfort her for the first time. One is half-truth and half-falsehood, depending on Baoyu's mood. He will comfort her immediately if he is in a good mood, and let her do it if he is in a bad mood. Usually Daiyu adjusts herself. This time, Jia Baoyu decided to let her do it First he said he would have dinner with Mrs. Wang, and then he said, "Ignore him. It will be fine in the future. " Lin Daiyu thought he would follow, so she slowed down, but she was actually waiting for him. She was really angry when she heard this not far away. Baoyu couldn't let her go, so he hurried to find her after dinner. Lin Daiyu was so angry that her first reaction was to ignore him. It's not serious this time. Let him know where he offended her. A maid said, "The angle of the silk is not ready yet. Iron it again. " Daiyu threw the scissors away and said, "Leave him alone. It will be all right in a minute." -This pun, Baoyu didn't listen, just "wondering". When Daiyu saw him like this, she said he was stupid enough, but she left him hanging. Baochai happened to come over and say to her, "I'll tell you a joke. I said I didn't know that medicine, so Brother Bao didn't use it any more. " She repeated in Baoyu's tone: "Ignore him, it will be all right in a minute." -Baoyu realized this. Baoyu regretted saying something wrong and quickly folded hundreds of soft words to coax her. Someone next to him couldn't open his mouth, and he couldn't give Baochai face in a hurry, so he put her away in a word. When Lin Daiyu saw that Baoyu was so intimate, her anger suddenly subsided and she was willing to talk to him directly: "You'd better go, there are tigers here, I'll eat you!" Willing to talk to him shows that she is not angry. But she still wants to be angry with him, let him learn a lesson, and dare not be angry with her next time, so she still leaves him hanging. Seeing that Baoyu was angry and wanted to take it out on others, he added, "I don't care who he told me to cut!" " -The title of "Sir Zhong" was thought-provoking, and she didn't stop until Baoyu was mainly like soft candy in her mouth. At this time, someone told Baoyu to go out, and the "stubborn" side of Baoyu's character immediately appeared-he walked down the slope and "hurried out". Knowing that Daiyu was not really angry, he dealt with her in the old way-"Ignore him, it will be all right in a minute." Daiyu was so angry that she said to him, "Amitabha! If I drive you back, I will die. " Baoyu must be laughing while covering his mouth when he hears it outside-you are angry with me and yourself, and you can't catch my pigtails!