Why do I treat others sincerely, but others always treat me as a fool and deceive me?

In fact, being kind to others means that you find some advantages of the other person that you appreciate or have a tacit understanding with yourself. Get along with someone for a long time, and you will find that you start slowly and treat others sincerely. In fact, whether that person is his friend or lover, really, being sincere to others is just a choice for us. Because of this choice, we will feel happy from the heart. However, you have to think about whether your sincerity is what he likes, or even the opposite, and whether it has caused some trouble to the other party.

I had my doubts before. I care more about my friends than myself. Finally, he broke up with me. In fact, in the process of taking care of him, if I care too much, I will deal with some things, which is not very rational. We are both very sad and miserable. He has always been the person I care about most in my heart. However, this concern doesn't suit him, so I won't hold a grudge. I will leave a large space in my heart for it to remember my little things with him. I won't bother him, so he won't be unhappy and I won't be very sad, which is also good.