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Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are at odds. Some things need to be done less, and if they are done too much, the family will be separated. What do you think of this?

There is nothing she can do about how to deal with this problem, but sharing the experience of failure will give some suggestions to future generations. This former daughter-in-law wants to tell everyone that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not harmonious, and a daughter-in-law has to do five less things. If she does too much, the family will be separated.

Don't say that your mother-in-law is bad in front of your husband.

After three years of marriage and half a year of divorce, Bai is still full of opinions and opinions when it comes to her mother-in-law. In the first few days after returning to her parents' home, she was still expecting her husband who signed a divorce agreement with her in a rage to come and beg her. Husband and wife had a free love, and the contradiction was caused by her disagreement with her mother. There is nothing between the couple.

But who would have thought that this man who kept saying that he would love her forever when he married her was really gone forever. She couldn't resist giving him a call. Although the other person's anger has subsided, when talking about their affairs, the other person's attitude is: "Forget it, my mother can't accept you anymore. She doesn't like you anymore, and she didn't slander you in front of me at that time. On the contrary, you often abuse her in front of me. As a daughter-in-law, I don't even understand that my mother-in-law is not good in front of her husband. If I come back, I think you will still be like this. Instead of fidgeting, it is better to break up with your family. "

Don't go back to your mother's house in anger

In fact, there are still many things that my ex-husband can't forgive her, but now he doesn't want to talk to her anymore. Bai, a wayward woman, has been loved by her family since she was a child. Because her parents are delicate, she can't stand any injustice, which is why she gets angry as soon as she hears her mother-in-law's words, and then directly conflicts with each other.

Many times, her husband can't stand her talking back to his mother. He always told her that if she felt wronged, she would react with herself and let him communicate with her mother. Don't always quarrel directly. After all, her younger generation has to leave a little regret for her mother-in-law and husband.

But she thinks this is her husband's eccentricity to her mother-in-law and neglect to her wife. As long as he said so, she would point the finger at him, and they had another quarrel. Feeling doubly wronged, she ran to her mother's house when she was angry. She refused to go home until he apologized. After a long time, the other party got bored and went to pick her up from time to time. Later, she stayed as long as she liked, and he was indifferent.

Don't let your parents judge you

There are naturally many disadvantages for couples to get out of the normal life track. They felt that they had been treated unfairly in their in-laws' house, so they ran back to their parents' house and ignored them. Bai is doubly sad and angry.

If the other party doesn't come to the door, she won't go back so "despondently" and end up in an embarrassing field for her mother-in-law, so she will take her family back to her husband's house, support herself, let them judge things and reason (in fact, it is to teach her husband a lesson), and use numbers and dignity to pressure him to yield, so that her face will be taken back, and she won't feel that she is waving a white flag and surrendering to those who hurt herself.

Because she thinks this trick is very useful, as long as there is a contradiction between her mother-in-law and her husband, she will always go back to her mother's house to help, find her parents, brother and so on to judge. After all, this kind of reasoning is overwhelming support, which can be overwhelming for a while, but not for a lifetime. Later, her husband was disgusted and closed the door to prevent her family from knocking. The relationship between the two families is so stiff that there is no middleman.

Don't tell the neighbors about your mother-in-law.

In the ex-husband's mind, his ex-wife is really not sensible. Anyway, what happens behind closed doors in her own house should not be made public, and she doesn't understand this basic truth.

Look at the Zhang family. It's okay for the Li family to take a walk. Without a few words, I dragged my mother-in-law. As soon as they started talking, they didn't have a good word for each other. They criticize each other's hearts all the time, whispering, complaining and exchanging "bad mother-in-law" classics with those kannika nimtragol.

Wall has ears. You may not speak well of others, but bad words are like wings. I learned from others that her daughter-in-law said a lot about herself behind her back. Which mother-in-law will tolerate such a presumptuous daughter-in-law? The natural relationship is even worse, and the war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is imminent. If it used to be a trivial matter, at this point, the nature has changed, and my mother-in-law will not show mercy. The two sides have reached the point where water and fire are incompatible.

Don't have a cold war with your mother-in-law for more than a week

Means and strategies, plus weather, location, people and so on. , youthful, scheming but grumpy, Bai is actually in front of her mother-in-law, just like Cheng, who only knows three axes and looks very bluffing. After three strokes, she was no match for her mother-in-law.

Then I will just sulk and start a cold war with my mother-in-law. A mother-in-law doesn't have to have a good relationship with her daughter-in-law to survive. She is not afraid of you at all. If the daughter-in-law is smarter and can't help but make her mother-in-law angry, she will apologize quickly afterwards and buy some gifts. Maybe the other party will forgive her for being young and not sensible.

However, more than a week after the cold war, the situation has changed again. Mother-in-law will be more angry and think that you are deliberately giving her a look and challenging her authority and bottom line. She is the master of her husband's family and your husband's mother. No matter from which angle, she can't take the initiative to find you to ease the atmosphere and apologize with ceremony. Over time, the family atmosphere will deteriorate, and there is no room for things to change.