My First Half Life: Behind every white light in love rat, there is a Luo Ziqun with no bottom line.

The most worrying character in the hit drama My First Half Life is Luo Ziqun who married love.

When I was young, I thought that love was the whole of my life. I thought that if I didn't marry Bai Guang, I couldn't live. I thought that poor couples could drink enough. Unexpectedly, before marriage, poor couples can drink enough water, but after marriage, it is but not as those know it who have been poor together.

Not only does my mother hate that iron does not turn into steel, but even my sister, who is also married to love, advises her to leave her poor love and find a reliable person to live a new life.

It's not the influence of Luo's mother and Luo Zijun, but the unreliable love rat who is married to Bai Guang, whose heart is higher than the sky, whose life is thinner than paper, whose ambition is too high and her temper is too hot. Anyone would collapse.

At the beginning of the plot, Luo Ziqun lost 2, yuan by selling bracelets and asked him to borrow money from his sister's house, and he had just lost 3, yuan by selling tea. In the face of such an unreliable brother-in-law and sister Luo Zijun, who was humble to the dust for her husband, she was angry and scolded her sister severely.

Later, Bai Guang lost his job and went to the hospital for emergency treatment because he was unconscious, so he had no money to pay the medical expenses. Although Luo Zijun had divorced Chen Junsheng, he was no longer the rich wife of the rich, but Luo Ziqun, who was desperate, still crustily skin of head and asked his sister for help.

zijun saw her timid and decadent brother-in-law in the hospital bed and her sister who was tortured by life and was older than she saw, so she couldn't help but persuade her to divorce.

you can't be dragged to death by white light. You can't always wipe his ass after something goes wrong.

but Luo ziqun cried and said, if I leave Bai guang, he will die.

and a woman like me who is incapable of being destroyed by life early into a yellow-faced woman will want me.

We are different. Although you are divorced, you have been pampered and well maintained over the years, and you look much younger than your actual age. And what I have been tortured by life over the years, those unhappy, wronged, resentful and angry are written on my face.

I have to say that the role of Luo Ziqun is really too grounded and realistic.

whether a woman is happy or not is written on her face.

In the latest story, Luo Ziqun, who was desperate, went to Chen Junsheng to borrow money again, but he fell behind in the number of quilts and said a heartfelt line.

I wouldn't have the audacity to ask Chen Junsheng for money if I didn't really have no choice.

no matter how hard I save, I can't afford to support my husband and children.

sometimes I wonder what would have happened if I had married a rich man?

It's not particularly rich, that is, you don't have to squeeze the bus every morning and evening, you don't have to count the money to live, you are eagerly looking forward to getting paid, and at least you want to buy whatever you like when you go to the supermarket. Someone can take care of your children, and you can go out on weekends. If you really don't want to cook, go out to eat.

Luo Zijun smiled helplessly. This is the life of the rich. Your requirements are really not high.

Luo Ziqun said helplessly, don't laugh at me. Now you will be tempted to have such a person in front of you. The fairy had to bow her head when facing the reality.

In the plot last night, the contradiction between Luo Ziqun and Bai Guang intensified to the extreme.

seeing the white light like a madman, saying Luo Ziqun, don't you just think I'm poor? Want to hook up with a wild man after divorcing me?

if you don't take a piss and look at yourself, what can you find with your virtue? You won't be happy if you marry anyone. You can only find me like this in your life!

My heart was broken when I saw him kneel down to Luo Ziqun and rush to the busy road like crazy, threatening Luo Ziqun not to divorce with his life.

I'd like to say that Bai Guang and Luo Ziqun's acting skills are bursting.

what happened to the poor wife in the end?

just look at Luo ziqun.

Her grievances, grievances and helplessness are not only written on her face, but have penetrated into her blood.

The difference between love rat, who was also born in poverty, and a good man is that a good man will feel sorry for his wife's efforts.

In the face of my wife and family, I will work hard, hug my wife and tell her firmly that marrying me is a gamble for you. How can I let you lose?

and love rat will say, you deserve it when you are so tired and so hard, and blame your bad life and your inability to marry a rich man, so you can only suffer with me.

a vain and powerful woman like you will not be happy when she marries anyone.

The problem between us is not because of poverty at all, but because of your bad attitude. The maid ordered the princess to be healthy.

other people can live well for 3, yuan a month, so you can't live.

alas! The three views of love rat in the whole world are surprisingly consistent.

their most terrible place is not poverty, but their cognitive limitations and distorted three views.

She is different from the rich Luo Zijun. She doesn't have a smart female best friend like Tang Jing to advise her, and she doesn't almost know an elite man like He Han.

the saddest thing is that the man she loves with all her heart and soul is not distressed by her efforts.

He can't afford to support his family. He makes his wife try to borrow money again and again. He is not only timid and incompetent, but also has a bad temper, so he tore up with his mother-in-law.

it's hard to imagine how worried a woman is when her husband quarrels with her own mother every day.

In fact, the more incompetent a man is, the less educated and cultivated he is.

The more timid a man is in his career, the more likely he is to get angry at home.

The poorer a man is, the stronger his self-esteem. That fragile blx needs your careful care.

In the eyes of poor men who have no ability, all women in the world are greedy for vanity and love money like life, especially their wives.

don't you want to divorce me because you are poor?

I'm working hard, too. I'm not eating, drinking, whoring or gambling. I was born in a poor family and have no old age to chew on. Is it my fault that I'm poor?

sorry, it's really your fault that you have been poor for too long!

yes! He Han and Chen Junsheng won't quarrel with their mother-in-law easily.

They won't complain that their wives and women all over the world are powerful money worshippers. Because in their concept, it is a kind of happiness for men to make money and spend money on their beloved women. It is also an honor.

Some people say that it is difficult for Luo Zijun, who is pampered and kept in captivity by her husband after marriage, to fight back.

In fact, in my opinion, it is very difficult for Luo Ziqun, who was raised in poverty, and Bai Guang, who is penniless, to counterattack. Not only are they difficult to counterattack, but even their children are difficult to break the class.

Although Luo Zijun is divorced, Pinger's learning, growth and psychology are definitely much better than those of Bai Guang, who only smokes and drinks and complains, and Luo Ziqun, who is driven into a dissatisfied wife by life.

some people say that Luo ziqun can also find a well-paid job like Luo zijun.

Bai Guang can also do small business and accumulate it slowly, not seeking to be rich and expensive, but seeking to provide food and clothing for his children and wife.

In fact, apart from the guidance of Tang Jing and He Han, Luo Zijun became a sales champion in luxury shoe stores. The most important thing is that she used to wear those luxury shoes, and she knew them like the back of her hand. The most important thing is that everyone in her circle can afford those tens of thousands of shoes.

while Luo ziqun bought a hundred-dollar dress, she was scolded by Bai guang, and she had to set up a stall.

But the child is so young, there is no one to help her take care of it, and she doesn't even have time to set up a stall.

I found that the poorer my friends and husband's family are, the less help they have to take care of their children.

Because in rural areas, there are very few only children for children born in 198s and 199s. Generally, the poor family is nothing more than a poor family, and it is difficult to raise one. However, traditional feudal ideas such as son preference and having both children and children restrict their cognition and follow others' lives. As a result, the more children there are, the poorer they are, and there is no way to give them a good education. When the children grow up, get married and have children, there is no way to help buy a house, and there is no way to help with the children.

In today's society, it's really difficult for you to let a couple who have not received higher education buy a house on their own and take care of their children. They are the most difficult people in society to counterattack.

I have a best friend who, like Luo Ziqun, insisted on marrying a poor love despite everyone's opposition when she was young. She said that she and her husband could work hard and start from scratch.

She said that her husband's family has many children, and her mother-in-law can't help with the children. It doesn't matter, she can balance family, work and children.

It doesn't matter if you don't have money for weddings, rings or wedding photos. Naked marriage is a trend now.

it doesn't matter if you have no money to buy a house, and renting a house is also very convenient.

it doesn't matter if you don't have money to buy a car. We still have 11 routes, so it's healthier to walk. Rich people have to spend money on treadmills!

before getting married, she felt full of affection and water.

after marriage, I live in a chicken feather. She has a deep understanding of what but not as those know it who have been poor together is.

Her husband is no better than Bai Guang of Luo Ziqun.

Because of that poor self-esteem and the 3-year-old mantra, I have to leave my job with an annual salary of 15, to start a business.

If the family is poor and has no money to invest, they can only partner with friends. Others hold 9% of the shares, and he only holds 1%. In fact, it is no different from working.

On the eve of his wife's birth, he took all his savings to start a business.

Results Four years later, the company was still in a loss state.

having no money to buy milk powder, he instilled all kinds of benefits of breastfeeding in his wife, and then coaxed her to breastfeed until the child was two years old.

I can't afford diapers. My baby is eight months old, and my wife washes diapers with her hands around her waist every day, leaving ten fingers red and swollen.

having no money to buy toys, he gave his wife a book "You are the best toy for children".

Because of his unsuccessful venture, his self-esteem is getting stronger and stronger, and that blx is extremely sensitive. Every time my wife says she wants to stop starting a business, find a job! He's furious. I'm 35 years old, so I can't work for others anymore. I will start a business even if I die. Didn't you ask me to find a job just to solve the immediate difficulties and life? Why are you so shortsighted? This business is done, and you can enjoy endless splendor.

If your best friend laughs, you will get 1% of the shares. Even if the business is done, your friends will be rich and expensive, and we can solve the problem of food and clothing at most. I don't say shortsighted, so what do you tell me about the children's tuition?

What saddens my best friend most is that her mother-in-law not only doesn't help with the children, but also makes mischief, saying that her son is poor because her best friend secretly gave all her money to her mother's family. Let the son and best friend make AA system.

My best friend wanted to cry. She said that I finally understood what it meant to be a unruly person in into the badlands. AA is fine, so that he can't pay off his credit card, and I have to wipe his ass.

my best friend said with anxiety that he always said that I had changed. Before I got married, I wanted nothing. After I got married, I was greedy, selfish and powerful. The key is that I dare not divorce him. Every time I mention a divorce, he will be desperate and say that I divorced him because I was poor. The cost of getting angry at home is getting lower and lower now, and everything as big as sesame seeds can make him furious.

if you really can't, just leave! Although divorce is harmful to children, parents quarrel every day, especially if the mother is unhappy and the father is depressed, which is even more harmful to children!

my best friend said awkwardly, but he didn't cheat, and others would laugh at me for divorcing her because she was poor.

You live by yourself, so why care about other people's opinions?

A kind, tolerant dissatisfied housewife who cares about other people's opinions everywhere is more sad than a scheming woman who strives hard for her own happiness.

Compared with Luo Ziqun, who is weak, indecisive and full of virgin heart, I appreciate Luo Mama who strives for happiness in the second half of her life.

Her mind is clear. In order to reduce her daughter's support burden, she needs to find a wife with better economic conditions.

Even Ling Ling, whose acting skills burst, did not hesitate to be the most despised mistress of others because she gave her children a better life and education.

Seven years ago, after I met all kinds of wonderful men on a blind date, my aunt couldn't help feeling. I found that the bad girls in our village who started dating in their teens and didn't look very kind usually married well. On the contrary, the good girls who were taught not to fall in love early, study hard, work hard, be virtuous, be gentle and know the truth, and say every day that no matter how much material there is, they can't fill the gap in their hearts, all became the snail girls in love rat.

It's like Luo Ziqun, whose husband is ignorant and eats and drinks at home and gnaws at his wife, and his wife, who works three shifts every day in the supermarket, gets up early in the morning to make him breakfast.

seeing this, I'm going to explode.

From the psychological point of view, Bai Guang is the indulgent of intimate relationship, while Luo Ziqun is the victim.

behind every indulgent, there must be a victim.

In other words, behind every love rat, there is a hard-working snail girl.

behind every white light, there is a weak, opinionated and bottomless Luo Ziqun.

everyone should stick to their own bottom line in marriage.

For example, domestic violence, being rough with one's parents and so on are untouchable bottom lines.

to love a man deeply, you must have your own principles.

it doesn't matter if you are young and ignorant, but stop loss in time.

When you are young, you can fight for love, but after having children, you have to think about their life and education.

Because the 21st century is changing with each passing day, it's hard to give birth to a noble child.

The champion of Beijing College Entrance Examination said in the interview that our family is middle class, my parents are diplomats, and my educational environment and resources from childhood are difficult for rural children to reach.

this is not the sorrow of social development, but fairness to the strugglers.

Yes, if parents don't work hard and only know how to play mobile phones, TV dramas and mahjong, it is almost impossible for you to expect your children to learn carp and jump the dragon gate.

Especially in today's rapid development of information technology.

I suddenly remembered the saddest news of this year's college entrance examination: "The 18-year-old Xueba twins were cut off from the Internet for three years in preparation for the college entrance examination". For the sake of children's study, there was no wireless network installed at home, and the mobile phone used had no memory card and no traffic. Looking at this year's college entrance examination composition topic, we can't help but feel sad.

The biggest difference between the poor and the rich lies in their cognition and vision.

Due to limited cognition, poor parents will feel that surfing the Internet will delay their studies, but rich parents will know how to skillfully use network resources and how to use their children's interests to stimulate them to learn and broaden their horizons.

Just like the mother Luo in "I am the first half of my life", because of the cognitive limitations, she will think that her daughter is the most secure only by marrying a rich man, but she doesn't know that a real secure marriage is evenly matched.

Just look at Luo Ziqun to find out whether marrying love is affectionate and full of water or but not as those know it who have been poor together.

When you meet a good man who understands you, your friendship is full of water. When you meet love rat who destroys three views, it is but not as those know it who have been poor together.

In fact, in the play, Luo Ziqun regrets that he was young and ignorant and married a poor white light countless times.

Will she divorce Bai Guang because she is poor?

Poor people must have something to hate, and love rat has nothing to miss.

Give up the wrong person to meet the right one!

no matter where you go in the future