My ex spoke ill of me to my face. What would you do if it were you?

Since you have chosen to break up, you should draw a clear line with your ex and don't let him out of your life circle. After all, two people had a special relationship, and intimate contact always gave people an abnormal feeling. If you keep in touch with your ex, it will only affect your current feelings. If your ex speaks ill of you in front of your current job, it must be very rare, because they can't be girlfriends or friends.

So let's just say that your predecessor is maliciously slandering you. Maybe he has been bitter about you breaking up with him and turned his deep love for you into hatred. He appeared in front of your present job for revenge, so you can only bear all the bad words he said, whether they are facts or rumors. I believe that smart people will not argue and argue too much.

If your current girlfriend breaks up with you because of what he said, there is no way. It is very likely that a lot of what he said is true, which makes your present one unacceptable. But in any case, don't think about getting back at each other. Now that the two men have broken up, his serious injury to you this time has made you see his essence clearly. You should also be glad that you broke up with him a day earlier. If the two had been closer before, I believe his approach might have been more extreme.

Although my predecessor said that he didn't speak ill of me in front of my present job, after breaking up, he spoke ill of me in all the circle of friends around me. My choice is to treat me silently, not that I acquiesce in everything he says, but that I don't want to argue with him because he doesn't deserve it. Some of what he said was just to attract your attention and make you angry. This is what they want to see, and we should look at it rationally.