Be a man, regardless of three things and four things.

Don't care: first, don't care about other people's affairs, less boring curiosity, don't care about other people's affairs, you can live longer. Second, we don't consider other people's feelings, what's more, in life, we have our own practices and marriages. Third, regardless of other people's housework, and the so-called housework is a family matter, it is not convenient for outsiders to intervene.

Four don't say:? 1, don't say angry words to your face, people are not saints, it's normal to be a little emotional, and contradictory quarrels are common. But if you say something, there is no room to take it back. Saying angry words to friends easily dissipates feelings; Saying angry words to relatives is easy to make lovers feel cold; It's easy to degrade yourself by saying angry words to a villain. Don't brag in front of people, why be swollen and fat, brag and show off. It is better to be an ordinary person and do things in a down-to-earth manner. Perhaps the opportunity will come. 3, don't laugh at others, in this world, it is always the easiest thing to see other people's jokes. But a lot of things fall on you, and you may not do better than others, especially standing in the same place watching other people's jokes. If you complain as little as possible, nine times out of ten things in life are not satisfactory, but only complaining is the lowest level of practice. As San Mao said, "complaining about life occasionally may be an emotional catharsis, but it is also impossible." But it is unwise to complain habitually without seeking change. "Moreover, if a person often complains and sighs, not only will he consume his inner magnetic field, but his life will become more and more unsatisfactory. It is better to accept the unchangeable and try to change the changeable. Only when the pattern is big and the realm is high can we face everything we encounter in life calmly. Don't laugh at others' temporary disappointment, you are just lucky. Life is a marathon, and whoever laughs last will win.