China's "sky-high bride price" will not disappear. What is the essential problem behind it?

In fact, every boy in this world wants to spend the least money to marry the most beautiful daughter-in-law, and he will not be unable to marry his beloved girl smoothly because of money problems. What a happy and pleasant thing it will be, but not all people are so lucky. Some people, because of the money problem, the two families are very unhappy, and some break up in discord. What caused this phenomenon? In fact, I think it is caused by the serious imbalance between men and women in today's society.

Take my brother as an example. He and his girlfriend are college classmates. At that time, the two fell in love at first sight, and their feelings have always been very good. They had planned to get married after graduating from college, but my brother's girlfriend's parents asked my family for 200 thousand at a time. You know, it's really difficult for our family to come up with 200 thousand. Two families are very unhappy because of money, and one of them is indispensable.

In fact, everyone should know the reason for this situation. After all, there are so few girls now, who wants to let his daughter get married so casually? Besides, people nowadays need a lot of money to get married. If you don't ask the man for money when you marry your daughter, outsiders will laugh that your daughter is worthless, so some people ask for a lot of money when they marry their daughter, because this will save face.

It is because of money that the two families are not harmonious now. If there were more boys and girls in this society, wouldn't it cost so much money and be less unpleasant? If only all the people in this world didn't take money so seriously, so that everyone wouldn't be unhappy and the world would be beautiful.