What are the characteristics of good jokes?

Kindness is a beautiful quality, but not everyone has it;

Kindness is a choice;

People with high moral level will take kindness as their life criterion, while people with low moral level will reject and despise kindness;

When getting along with people, there are many ways to express kindness, but what is certain is that true kindness is not ostentatious, but gentle, delicate and decent;

A person's quality and accomplishment can be seen from the details;

Because details can reveal a person's sincerity, in a relaxed state, it can best reflect a person's kindness or not;

Joking is a common occurrence, and it is also the lubricant of interpersonal relationship;

Two nervous people can laugh at a friendly joke and forget hostility;

Two strangers will also close the distance and enhance their goodwill because of a joke;

On the other hand, a joke will make others embarrassed and uncomfortable, and it is often not linked with goodwill;

Whether a person is kind or not depends on his jokes.

Kind people joke and don't reveal each other's privacy and pain.

Life has mixed feelings, and it has never been smooth sailing, bumpy and happy. It's just that a person's privacy and pain often make a person lose control of emotions, sadness and anger.

Kind people have a kind heart in their bones. When he is in conflict with others, he won't call a spade a spade, but treats things rather than people.

Even if you are joking, you are respectful and won't reveal each other's privacy and pain because of a whim;

Sometimes, people's hearts are so fragile that exposing a person's privacy and scars in public is like treating others as exhibits and letting people talk and doubt them;

It is easy to cause hostility and dissatisfaction of others. Kind people don't put themselves in danger and embarrass each other, but they either don't joke or make jokes that make each other comfortable and happy, so that they can feel at ease.

A truly kind person can take care of other people's feelings and understand their situation;

Joking is also to enliven the atmosphere, make the parties and people around them feel happy and carefree, and will not use vulgar words to make things like sprinkling salt on other people's wounds under the guise of joking;

Kind people joke and know the boundaries.

After working hard in the society for a long time, you will naturally understand what kind of jokes will make everyone happy and what kind of jokes will lead to contradictions and destroy a relationship;

Good people, make fun of what is appropriate;

Even if you are familiar, intimate and enthusiastic, you will understand proper limit and the sense of border;

A joke, said once, may make people happy, and said too much may make people uncomfortable;

Some paragraphs are elegant and interesting, which makes people put it down;

Some jokes are vulgar and people can't avoid them;

What kind of joke you choose can prove the other person's character;

Those jokes that insinuate and play tricks on each other are despised by a kind person;

When a person uses jokes as an excuse to bully others unscrupulously, his personality is contemptible;

Adults should have the responsibilities and rules of an adult;

Even if it is a joke, it will be important and will not be blurted out without thinking;

If someone really thinks that he has to, he inadvertently made a joke and made others feel uncomfortable, which only shows that he lacks goodwill towards others;

When people get along with each other, the depth of feelings can be maintained by goodwill or destroyed by jokes;

Jokes can be a sword that hurts people's hearts or a sweet honey.

The key lies in whether to advance and retreat moderately and be merciful;

Taking care of others, a person who knows how to respect others, is kind and upright, and will certainly win the welcome and love of others.

A vulgar and narrow-minded person will also make people tired and exclusive of him;

Kindness or not, in a small joke, will be vividly displayed;