My mother-in-law always dislikes my spending money, what should I do?

My mother-in-law is a housewife who has spent her entire life taking care of her husband and his son. My father did a little business outside. Before I got married, my husband and I had support from my father. In fact, our two families have similar financial conditions, so we are well-matched, right? It’s just that my mother-in-law is a bit stingy. After I had a baby, I couldn’t wait to give him the best of everything. When I bought baby products, I always bought the best and most expensive ones. In addition, my husband and I are used to spending money to buy good things, and we still haven’t changed our lifestyle even after having children. But my mother-in-law always criticized me when she saw it, and thought I was spending too much money. For this reason, my relationship with my mother-in-law was not what it used to be.

Mother-in-laws in the world are very frugal because they came from poor times. Only those who have gone through hard times understand that money should not be spent carelessly. The second is nature. Some people are reluctant to spend money no matter how much they have. This is a natural trait that lasts their whole life. When you meet a mother-in-law who always says that she is "a lavish spender", is the only way to solve the problem is to separate the family? Ming Yiyue read that this may not be the case. It is your mother-in-law's nature to like to be frugal. Even if you escape to the ends of the world, she will still care about your lives. It is better to fundamentally solve your mother-in-law's ideological problems. Please give your mother-in-law more understanding and wish you happiness.

Of course the happiest thing is to have a husband who cares about you. Mothers who take care of their children don’t have to worry. The money they should spend is still spent. What are the disadvantages of buying a maternity down jacket? The style can be worn after giving birth. The most important thing is not to freeze yourself. It's normal for the elderly to be frugal, but if it goes too far you just ignore them. The situation in my family is that my father-in-law is more economical than my mother-in-law, and she often makes jokes about saving a small amount of money and suffering a big loss. Fortunately, my mother-in-law has the financial power and doesn’t take the initiative to tell my father-in-law about spending money, for fear of him complaining. The two elders must have felt that we spent money lavishly at times, but sometimes when the money was spent on them, they talked about it and were still happy in their hearts, knowing that the younger generation was thinking of them.

There is a custom before marriage that the man gives the woman jewelry. My mother-in-law and I went to the mall to buy it. I bought it in a beautiful style that day, a thin necklace and a bracelet. After we left the mall, my mother-in-law said she was afraid that I would lose it, so she kept it for me. After four years of marriage, I have never seen those jewelry again.