An inappropriate marriage will divorce sooner or later.

An inappropriate marriage will divorce sooner or later.

Most couples will ask both men and women to read the oath before obtaining the certificate. Loyalty between husband and wife can maintain an equal and harmonious marriage and family relationship, but some people will have a virgin complex. The following marriages will divorce sooner or later.

Divorce sooner or later: 1 Divorce experience of a foreign wife: How long can a self-deceiving marriage last?

I never thought that the mistakes I made when I was young would cost me so much. I obviously made myself happier, but now, because I'm not a virgin, my husband keeps picking on me, and I'm really fed up. Now he chose to leave, but I feel relieved.

After graduating from college, I worked hard in this city alone, and my parents were in my hometown. They have repeatedly advised me to go back to my hometown and work with them, but I insist on being here alone for my own ideal. I spent almost all the rest of my time on my career except work. After 78 years, although I have made small economic achievements, I still feel empty and lonely.

Going home alone every day, looking at the cold pot and stove at home, my heart is empty. I decided to find someone and marry someone who understands me. But after so many years, I still don't have a warm-hearted person to let me relax my vigilance. Later, by chance, I met my husband Chen Li through my colleagues. He is gentle, honest and patient with me. I grew to like him.

We are all adults, and basically we have clearly expressed our views on marriage. We hit it off and got married six months later. My parents were very satisfied and soon urged us to have children. I thought we could have a good life, but within a year, our marriage was in trouble. I gradually realized that there are not so many fairy tales in this world. The life of two people is just ordinary, but I thought too well before, and the losses gradually accumulated.

Since then, he has become more and more mature and his business has become bigger and bigger. However, for me, I didn't pay much attention to what I said from the beginning. Money gave him confidence. We often quarrel over trifles. Whenever we quarrel, my husband will turn over old scores. Because I feel guilty about him, I will try my best to be tolerant and calm down the war every time.

Before dating my husband, I had an emotional experience. At that time, we were young and tasted the forbidden fruit, but this relationship didn't last long and we died. Until later, I met my husband. When we first got along, my husband and I confessed our love history, but we had reservations.

I didn't tell him that I had sex with my ex-husband. After I was with my husband, he found that I was not a virgin, but he acted as if nothing had happened. I naively thought that he didn't mind at all. Now, he doesn't treat me like a wife at all. In his eyes, I am a maid. Give me a cold war at any time, and now we are separated.

When I returned to my hometown during the Spring Festival this year, my mother-in-law told me privately about having a baby. I was stupid at that time, and I had to swallow coptis. The marriage with her husband has existed in name only. How should I plan to have children? I can only verbally perfunctory mother-in-law.

Last winter, on a snowy night, he left me and home because of a quarrel. It happened that the power went out suddenly that day. I curled up under the covers all night and didn't see him come back until dawn. The next month, he didn't answer my phone, and WeChat didn't return. I have a hunch that he will divorce me. But later, he came back with a very calm expression on his face, as if nothing had happened.

Because I don't want to end this relationship, I also choose silence, but the result of forbearance is more harmful to me. Not long ago, I heard from a friend that my husband was fooling around outside. Combined with the last time he didn't come home for a month, I vaguely felt that something was going to happen. Last month's birthday, I prepared some good dishes at home and wanted to celebrate with him.

But he sent a text message saying that he was going to have dinner with his client and would not come back. At that time, I immediately saw the picture of him fooling around with other girls. In the evening, when he came back drunk, I couldn't help having a big fight with him. During the quarrel, I cried and said the grievances I had suffered these days.

Unexpectedly, after listening to my words, he began to go crazy with the power of alcohol: he said that I was ungrateful and the conditions were not so good. I am not satisfied with finding such an excellent man, and I make trouble with him every day. If I am so ignorant, I will divorce me.

Yesterday, when I got home, I found my husband packed his things and moved out. Unexpectedly, a mistake I made when I was young became a time bomb to destroy my happiness. Faced with such a result, I have no choice but to accept it calmly.

The wrong marriage will divorce sooner or later. Do you want to divorce your wife?

Q: We were good friends before we dated. At that time, we knew that she was not a virgin, but we fell in love with her hopelessly. She is very kind to me and very happy with her. At first she thought she wouldn't care so much, but later she thought she wouldn't care so much. As a result, after such a long time, she found that she cared more and more, and the more she liked it, the more she cared. Every day was so painful.

I am a virgin. I gave her all my firsts and felt like I was losing money. But I can't help liking her. Although I am in pain, I don't want to be apart. Last year, because of some things, it was a bit hasty for two people to get the certificate, but I wanted to give her a sense of security and happiness, plus some things (not pregnant), so I went to get the certificate.

She didn't ask for anything, not even a wedding ring. I am glad that she is not a material woman. But since we got married, neither of us is very happy. Needless to say, she is not a virgin, which has been bothering me. Obviously, we love each other, but this is the only difference. We are a perfect couple, but this difference makes me extremely painful.

The reason why she is unhappy is that I can't love her wholeheartedly, because she is not a virgin. She knew that she couldn't accept it in the future, and thought that I had reservations about her to stop her. Some time ago, she asked me for a divorce on the grounds that she didn't want to torture each other anymore. She thinks that in my current state of mind, divorce is a matter of time, and it is better to die early.

In fact, I have no confidence in our future, and I am worried that one day I can't stand it and I will divorce her. But I'm a little stubborn. I want to work hard until I finally beat it. Even if I failed in the end, at least I tried, instead of shrinking because of fear like her. She is a very good woman, very kind and loyal to me, and I don't want a divorce. Do you have any good ideas?

A: Your wife is actually quite intelligent and can let go.

Your wife is divorced from you now, and she may be able to find a good one with her conditions.

Do you want to spell it once? Oh, until your wife turned forty and said, Oh, I can't stand that you're not a virgin. Shall we get a divorce?

Can you afford it? Can your wife afford it?

Besides, with all due respect, do you think you can marry a virgin after divorce? Have you ever seen an honest virgin and a second-married old man?

Of course, in poverty-stricken areas, you pay a sky-high bride price like a daughter-in-law and marry a little virgin who has just reached the legal minimum age for marriage. Forget it.

Then you should come up and talk about how much you miss your ex-wife after the divorce. Now this wife is naive and BALABAL.

Be a man, okay?

Or tear off your feudal dross completely and promise your wife that it won't have any influence in the future; Or divorce your wife and face the fact that you can't marry a suitable virgin.

How to treat a man whose wife confessed on the wedding night, whose husband turned against him instantly and divorced sooner or later?

When answering this question, my friend couldn't help laughing and saying, "That is only available in kindergartens." In fact, with the development of economy and the opening of mind, it is very difficult for men and women to live together before marriage. If a woman insists on refusing, she will be laughed at and pedantic, and even break up because of it. It's incredible to think about it.

And what will happen to those parents who insist on finding such a daughter-in-law? Recently, a reader shared his neighborhood, and a rich man insisted on this requirement. Unexpectedly, I spent a lot of money and got unexpected results.

A handsome and rich man has been unable to find a wife because of the special requirements of his family.

Zhao Hao is a rich second generation, which is well-known in the circle, but he has been single and can't find a girlfriend. It's not his looks, but that he is handsome and rich, much like a male star. It's just that Zhao Hao has insincere difficulties, and his family has extremely high requirements for his daughter-in-law.

Zhao Hao's parents never care about anything about their son, but they must follow their own requirements when looking for a girlfriend: clean family background, beautiful, good temper, and the most important thing is to remain pure before marriage.

Actually, they also have insincere difficulties. As an only child, Zhao Hao needs such a daughter-in-law. Only by setting an example can we maintain prosperity to a certain extent.

Zhao Hao's parents think this is what many people want, but now cohabitation is common in society and they have to compromise. But my family has such a requirement. Is there something wrong? The old couple asked a lot of people, and they all thought it was right. Since the family is superior, there is always a certain threshold.

Zhao Hao seeks a girlfriend in this way. However, every time Zhao Hao brings his girlfriend home, his parents will feel dissatisfied. This is not the case, and all kinds of dislike directly make the woman leave angrily. Therefore, Zhao Hao won the title of "a man who can't marry a wife" in the circle, and gradually no one wanted to approach or introduce him. Just because the man's parents are too demanding, their hearts are strong and their strength is insufficient.

In the end, Zhao Hao's parents, out of desperation, can only start to arrange blind dates for their sons, so that their sons can see each other.

Parents arranged a blind date and they fell in love at first sight. A pure woman makes men despair.

Zhao Hao understands his parents' difficulties. Although I felt a little pedantic, I chose to compromise. After all, they did it for themselves. However, Zhao Hao's age is slowly rising, and his parents are very anxious about being single. Unwilling to let go of his demands and wanting to have grandchildren early, he began to arrange blind dates for his son.

Through various relationships or acquaintances, the old couple selected some eligible women and arranged to watch them with their sons, as long as they felt suitable. However, Zhao Hao didn't like the girl her parents liked, so she continued dating.

Finally, Zhao Fu's friend introduced Chen Xue, who was clever since childhood, to Zhao Hao. He fell in love with Chen Xue at first sight, a pair of pure eyes, and that kind of weak woman who seems to need to be protected.

In the end, Chen Xue succeeded in becoming Zhao Hao's girlfriend. Zhao Hao's parents have also privately confirmed whether they meet the requirements for many times. After they were right, they became more and more satisfied with this future daughter-in-law. After all, I chose it myself, and my son just likes it. This is killing two birds with one stone.

The relationship between the two quickly warmed up. Chen spent a lot of money when he came back from studying abroad. Almost every time he goes out, he spends a lot of money, which is paid by Zhao Hao. During their relationship, Chen Xue didn't want to get married so early at first. Under the attack of Zhao Hao and his parents, he nodded in agreement.

Finally, parents meet to discuss the details of the wedding.

The bride who spent millions of dollars to find her divorced the next day because of "going to the wrong place"

Chen Xue is a sea returnee, and his parents have high demands on him. They want 500 thousand bride price, house and car directly, and can only write their daughter's name Chen Xue's parents think that if they marry into such a wealthy family, they should strive for the greatest protection for their daughter. As a result, the old couple asked for so much, which was used as a dowry for their daughter.

When Zhao Hao's parents heard such a request, they were still shocked. When you open your mouth, you need millions of bride price. This family really dares to say that. But Chen Xue is a daughter-in-law, and they finally agreed to all the requirements, as long as they get married early. In this way, you can put down the stone in your heart, and the pure opening of branches and leaves is the big deal.

Chen Xue, the "Million Bride", spread in the local area after her parents settled down, causing quite a stir and envy. After that, the two sides picked a day to wait for the couple to get married.

Zhao Hao can't believe the woman in front of her. She has been dating for several months. Being your wife so soon is like dreaming. Although his parents repeatedly told him to stay on his wedding night, he secretly asked his fiancee, "Have you really never been in love once?" Chen Xue directly shook his head, which made Zhao Hao good and bad. His wife is so perfect that it is incredible in modern times. After all, it is very valuable for a beautiful and pure woman to insist on not falling in love.

The wedding was held as scheduled, and everyone was envious. Everyone knows that his family is rich, but the requirements are unattainable. The bride found today is one in a million. Zhao Hao was so happy that he drank a lot of wine and was carried to his new house drunk. The wedding night passed in a daze.

The next day, Zhao Hao got up early and looked at the quilt. When I found nothing in the quilt, I asked my new wife what was going on. Chen Xue didn't expect Zhao Hao to be so persistent in this requirement, and he felt that he was married, so there was no need to hide it. He said directly, "Actually, I was not sensible when I was studying abroad, and I once fell in love, and they also had a history of cohabitation in their contacts. But isn't that normal? I don't want to hide it, do you mind? "

Zhao Hao was very angry at Chen Xue's sudden confession. If you know what you want, you deliberately hide it. This is not cheating. What is this? Zhao Hao shouted at his wife without reservation and told her parents about it. The old couple were shocked, but this time they were wrong. But this is a bride who spent millions. If you say no, you won't. Nobody can accept it.

On the second day of their marriage, their parents sat together again. Chen Xue's parents were speechless in the face of her in-laws' aggressive questioning. Her daughter had a history of cohabitation and didn't even know it. Indefensible, they chose not to talk and let Zhao Hao's parents vent their temper.

Zhao Hao's parents filed for "divorce" and demanded the refund of bride price, garage and banquet expenses and compensation for mental damage. Chen Xue's parents stayed, but they only lived together. Why did they divorce the next day? Now that the family's face is gone, people are divorced.

Unfortunately, Zhao Hao's family has always insisted on this and claimed to use it to get it back. They can't tolerate naked deception. It's all announced in advance, not forced.

In the end, the two divorced and parted ways. In the past, the "million brides" that everyone envied turned into jokes, which made people brag: Things have changed, but you still have to lead an honest and clean life.

Conclusion:

Although it is only a story, a woman's cohabitation or self-love before marriage can really become a stumbling block and a great threshold for a happy marriage.

In fact, although cohabitation is widespread, it is still unacceptable to some men. After all, it is human nature to know that there is a hurdle in your heart.

On the other hand, even if a man has lived together, it doesn't have much influence, and he will even be praised as "capable". It's a bit harsh, but we have to admit that this is indeed a fact, so cruel.

So I still hope that every woman can stay awake when she is in love. Efforts to control impulsive hormones and maintain a complete body will be the capital of happiness in the future. Many abandoned things prove that women who don't love themselves will eventually encounter the following loss and passivity.

If you really love yourself, stick to the last level; If you really love that woman, don't take it off easily. Unless you can guarantee that you will get married, you will indirectly "destroy" her. At least it used to be my favorite, and self-love is the greatest love and blessing.

Anyway, I hope everyone can be happy!