Collect wedding customs in xinji city!

I'm from Xinji, and the wedding here is like this: At about 5: 00 in the morning, women from relatives and friends' houses go to the host's house to help pinch jiaozi (mainly for relatives and friends who help), and then friends from the groom's house leave for the bride's house. Post "happy words" all the way. At about 8 o'clock, the groom set out from home to marry the bride. At this time, he needs some friends to help him. Our place is called "Shou", mainly because some villages have the habit of harassing the groom (or bride), which makes a lot of useful salt and corn grains rush to the groom or bride. It hurts to hit him. Be careful! Then the groom went into the house to have a rest. At the same time, let the relatives and friends of the bride see what the groom looks like. There are special flight attendants. It's almost time to watch it. Let the groom present flowers to the bride in the bride's room, wear a ring and invite the bride to get on the bus (also called sedan chair). At this time, someone will find trouble with the groom (usually the bride's sister's living friend). When the auspicious moment comes, the bride gets on the bus and leaves for the groom's house. The bride's family will be fine. As soon as the bride comes home, someone will start to find trouble with the bride, just like the bride's family's trouble with the groom, so the bride will follow several "guardians". After the bride enters the room, wait in the new house first, and then the relatives and friends on the groom's side will come to see the bride. The process is similar to the bride's side, and then she will "worship" and begin to sit down after the worship. The banquets in the village here are different from those in the city. Everyone in the city goes to the hotel to serve tables. The village is different. Generally speaking, invited guests and people who come to see the bride off will be invited to dinner at the table. There are drinks and vegetables, usually 10 12 or 16, and 18 with good conditions. This is the so-called "official position". As for the number of official seats, it is not necessarily. There is also an ordinary banquet for friends of the groom's family. Other relatives and friends in the village, women eat cauldron dishes, men have seats, and those who are not closely related only eat cauldron dishes and steamed bread like women. This is the process on the man's side after dinner, and breaking up is nothing. The bride stayed and went home three days later. Besides, cauldron dishes. The cauldron dishes here are fried tofu balls and tofu balls, which are stewed in a pot with Chinese cabbage. The dishes cooked in some villages are delicious and some are not, depending on the chef's skill. Besides, most friends' members are in100,200,500 grades, depending on your relationship and economic conditions. Excellent relationships and economic conditions are given 500, but these are few, most of them are given 200, and the average relationship is given 100. As for how much to give, you'd better discuss it with other friends, otherwise it will be less.