What do men fear most when couples are separated for a long time?

In relationships, there is endless talk about the relationship between husband and wife. No matter how passionate the love is, how vowed each other is, or how sad it is, none of this can be inferior to the experience of couples in marriage. In the decades of marriage, almost everything you can think of has been experienced.

So, when you look at the love between children as a person who has experienced it, you will appear much calmer.

For a couple, the most painful thing is to be separated. Every couple, from love to marriage, just hopes to protect each other, but the reality is helpless, or maybe because of other reasons. Things have forced couples to separate, and they have more worries in their hearts.

Both men and women will worry about whether their significant other will not have a good life outside, and whether they will lose their home and themselves after seeing too much of the painting world outside.

It is said that the relationship between couples who are separated in two places is easy to change. This is true at all. I often receive letters from readers in the background, saying that I am raising my children alone at home, working from dawn to dusk for this family. But the men outside not only don't care about themselves, but also don't care about their children, and they rarely even go home.

If he contacts her too frequently, he will get very angry and hang up the phone directly. These strange behaviors will instantly make a woman lose her sense of security and start to become suspicious, wondering if her husband is outside. Having a woman may also betray you.

Many men will strongly deny it at first, and even say that this woman is unreasonable and makes the family uneasy. But to put it bluntly, they just want the women at home not to make trouble, and the women outside not to make trouble, so that they can live a better life. The days of the Master.

Women are most afraid that after a man betrays her, everyone will know about it, but she will be kept in the dark.

So, what do men fear most about women after long-term separation? Let’s listen to the worries in men’s hearts!

Mr. Huang, 35 years old, has been separated for three years. He is most afraid that his wife will not be able to bear the loneliness.

I have been married to my wife for ten years. We have been together before. In the past two years, due to work transfer, , I had no choice but to come to the branch. My income has increased a lot, but it is very painful to be separated from my family. Moreover, I am not at home all year round and I am worried that my wife will fall in love with someone else.

Perhaps she thought of me the same way when we were separated. Three years of separation caused the couple to become emotionally distant and distrustful of each other, which had a great impact on our relationship.

So, after get off work, I would video chat with my wife to let her see if I had returned to the dormitory, and I would also see if she was staying at home. My colleagues in our dormitory all laughed at me, saying that we both Are you still like a young couple in love, video chatting several times throughout the day, and don't you get tired of it?

But there is no way. I can't hold the other person in my arms when I am thinking about the other person. If I can't look at the other person, I feel very flustered when I hear her voice, and I don't even have the mind to go to work. Therefore, the two of them Separation is really cruel for couples.

Mr. Liu, 40 years old, has been separated for 10 years. He is most afraid of his wife betraying me

It is difficult to survive the long night without mutual care and love after being separated for a long time, but this There was nothing we could do about it. We were always uneasy at first, but then we gradually got used to not being around each other.

We used to be in a free relationship, and our relationship was very deep. I also loved her very much. Although we chose to trust each other, we couldn't stop ourselves from having random thoughts after being separated for a long time.

In order to make a living, I went to another place, and my wife also noticed my worries. She told me at that time, you can go to another place with peace of mind, I will not be sorry to you, and as long as you can treat me well, I will I'm sorry for you. We have been together for so many years. We need to know how to cherish each other and don't trample on each other's deep love for ourselves. Since we love each other, let's stay together for the rest of our lives.

As long as I have time, I will bring the children over to see you. If you have time, come back and stay for a while. After all, the children and I will miss you very much.

With my wife’s promise, I have the courage to go to a foreign country. Although these years have been hard, as long as I think about having a family, I don’t care how tired I am. Every day I hear my children calling me daddy and my wife calling me daddy. The sound made me feel a little quiet and happy inside.

Mr. Qu, 45 years old, has been separated for 15 years, and is most afraid of my wife divorcing me

After being separated for so many years, I also know that I have wronged my wife, but husband and wife should be considerate of each other, as long as If she doesn't divorce me and keeps our family intact, and doesn't dislike me for making less money, I'll be satisfied if she can have a home for me and my children.

As for her personal life, I don’t want to ask too much about it. As long as she is happy, after all, we have been together for so many years, and our relationship is naturally very deep. As long as it does not affect the relationship between us, don’t let it Let's be sad for each other and don't let the children lose their families. I think everything is easy to talk about.

I know what my wife is like, and she will not betray me, but if her heart is no longer with me, I will never be able to keep her. Therefore, if she doesn't divorce me, she won't want to leave us. She just loves me.

She once said that we should not be sorry for each other. If you feel that your relationship is gone, you can bring it up as soon as possible. Breaking up early is good for everyone. After breaking up, you can get together and relax. There is no need to make everyone energy-challenged. Haggard. Therefore, I was afraid of hearing her tell me about divorce. Once she said it, she would be determined to leave.

After listening to the inner words of three men, I finally understood that it is not only women who lack security in relationships, men are also afraid of being broken up and betrayed.

Therefore, it is the happiest thing for a couple to trust each other and stick to each other in a marriage. We must grasp the boundaries of marriage and do not treat marriage as a joke, let alone because of the lack of time in marriage. If you are far away from each other, you will lose your dependence on the other person and turn around to be by someone else's side.

Didn’t we agree when we got married that we would stay together through thick and thin, no matter illness, poverty or wealth, for the rest of our lives? Remember this promise, keep your faith in marriage, and stick to it is the most valuable thing.