My husband is having an affair and wants a divorce. I advise you not to leave in a hurry.

My husband is having an affair and wants a divorce. I advise you not to leave in a hurry.

According to research statistics, more than 90% of second marriages will be divorced again for two reasons.

1. A guilty third party

"People who pry away other people's husbands have a painful conscience? Joke. " "I think it's good to marry a mistress after an affair. People who can be a third party have no moral constraints. "

But in fact, a woman makes another woman lose her husband, children and even herself, which is a very harmful behavior.

The third party in the triangle relationship is to take the blame for this and condemn itself every night.

So no matter how happy and calm they are on the surface, they can't bear their own happiness in their hearts. This kind of happiness is bought by destroying the happiness of others.

Therefore, most of them will make self-destructive behaviors, such as abandoning men who have tried their best to grab them, spending men's money and not knowing what to do, intensifying the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, causing family disputes ... until the marriage they stole was destroyed.

2. Second Marriage: A more difficult company to run.

If the first marriage is a business, and both husband and wife start from scratch and run the same enterprise, then the second marriage doesn't mean changing partners or even changing projects, making business more difficult?

Family relations are more complicated: if a man remarries after an affair, it means that he has at least one ex-wife and many people have children. As for new wives, some also have ex-husbands and their own children.

Coupled with both parents, think about this network, your brain may not turn fast.

Housework is constant: after the second marriage, the honeymoon period has passed and the passion period has passed. Do they want to come back to life?

Do you want to support your parents and raise your children in class? Do you want to face the pressure of water, electricity, rice, oil and salt? If it happens that the ex-wife is a domestic expert, will the new wife be inferior? The man will remember his ex-wife, okay?