On her 60th birthday, her mother-in-law asked her daughter-in-law to adopt her five-year-old brother-in-law. Does her daughter-in-law have this obligation?

To tell the truth, as long as there is a little goodwill between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there won't be too much hatred.

Even if there is occasional friction in daily life, it will not affect family harmony, let alone the stability of marriage.

But the fear is that some mothers-in-law think that they are elders, so they can do whatever they want with their daughters-in-law, not only interfere with their married life, but also decide their future plans.

How can a woman tolerate giving in when she meets such a mother-in-law? The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is naturally bad, and it may even cause great hatred, so it is difficult to become a family again.

If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law really reaches this stage, it is not only ugly, but also a kind of sadness, which makes others laugh and makes themselves miserable. Why bother?

Marrying Gu Yan was the worst decision Shu Mian made in her life. Even though she still loves her husband, real life tells her that if she never leaves this marriage, she will fall into a swamp all her life.

The love between Gu Yan and Jing Shu is as beautiful as a fairy tale. Two people met in college, and later became a pair through the matchmaking of classmates, and never separated again.

Two years after graduation, Shu Jing and Gu Yan plan to get married. But there is a problem in meeting parents, because Shu Jing's parents don't agree to be together.

The objection is that Gu Yan has a five-year-old brother. Jing Shu's parents are worried that the child will become a burden to both of them in the future.

However, Jing Shu believed in evil and felt that his parents were alarmist, so he even went on a hunger strike with his parents. Later, after Gu Yan's parents heard about it, they rushed to Shu Jing's house and assured Shu Jing's parents that Shu Jing and Gu Yan would never be held responsible for their children.

Finally, Jing Shu's parents took a step back.

The young couple happily planned all kinds of wedding matters, and it didn't take much effort to talk about marriage. In the future, her in-laws also showed great respect for Shu Jing, which made Shu Jing feel happy from the heart.

Unfortunately, this happiness lasted until Shu Jing got pregnant. The protracted contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law finally came to Shu Jing.

Before pregnancy, my brother-in-law was simple and lovely, and Shu Jing always liked to buy him some snacks to amuse him. But after pregnancy, because of limited energy, Jing Shu's attention was diverted by her stomach, and she was naturally less enthusiastic about her brother-in-law.

Maybe the child is too possessive. When he found that Jing Shu didn't care about himself as before, he began to haunt Jing Shu and even had a subtle hostility to Jing Shu's stomach.

At first, Jingshu just thought she was oversensitive. Later, she found that her brother-in-law always pretended to accidentally bump into his stomach before realizing the seriousness of the matter.

She hid in the past few times, so after educating her brother-in-law, she fell silent. But who knows, my brother-in-law went too far and even learned to hit Jing Shu in the stomach with something.

Jing Shu couldn't stand it anymore, so she told her mother-in-law.

However, her mother-in-law criticized Jingshu indiscriminately, indicating that Jingshu was too nervous recently and even began to slander her brother-in-law. What children can understand is unintentional, so there is no need to make a mountain out of a molehill.

At this time, Shu Jing discovered her mother-in-law's eccentricity. I talked with my mother-in-law for a long time and couldn't communicate. Shu Jing was so scared that she had to discuss with her husband to move out.

Although Gu Yan also felt that Shu Jing made a mountain out of a molehill, she worried that she was pregnant and went with her. The couple moved out as they wished. But the relationship between Shu Jing and her mother-in-law is getting worse.

In the eyes of her mother-in-law, Shu Jing bewitched her eldest son to alienate herself and vilified her younger son, which was simply a gross violation. So she disliked reading Jing Shu more and more, and Jing Shu discovered her mother-in-law's prejudice against herself at this moment. Many explanations can't be understood, and she is too lazy to have a good relationship with her mother-in-law.

What prompted Shu Jing to want a divorce was the question about her brother-in-law.

Last year 1 1 month, my mother-in-law celebrated her sixtieth birthday and invited many guests. It was originally a lively scene, but it was extremely embarrassing by her mother-in-law.

After cutting the cake, her mother-in-law directly picked up the host's microphone and made a speech. At the beginning, the mother-in-law mainly expressed her gratitude to the guests, summarized her life and looked forward to her son's future. But in the end, my mother-in-law added:

I'm old now, Gu Yan and Jing Shu, and I'll leave it to you later. He is your own brother. If you treat him badly in the future, I will never let you go!

What does this sentence mean? Everyone present can understand. Gu Yan nodded directly and assured his parents that he would treat his brother well.

But Jing Shu quit. She and Gu Yan's son are only three or four years old, and the burden is heavy enough. Why do they help their mother-in-law like children?

Static book cold face didn't say a word, that you don't want to. But my mother-in-law didn't see it and always wanted to give herself a guarantee.

After repeated urging, Shu Jing was really impatient. After receiving the receiver, she refused her mother-in-law's proposal. She said, mother-in-law, I have no obligation to help you raise your children. If Gu Yan really wants to take over? Ok, I'll divorce Gu Yan!

Speaking of which, Jing Shu didn't look at her mother-in-law's reaction, so she put down the receiver and left.

As a daughter-in-law, she really has no obligation to help her mother-in-law raise her husband. Even if she is young and her future is uncertain, her daughter-in-law can help her appropriately, but she has no obligation to bear this responsibility.

It is a very simple truth that whoever gives birth to it will raise it. But some mother-in-law stubbornly believe that the eldest son should help the younger son because of the relationship between brothers and sisters. Is that really the case? The consequences of this can only be the destruction of the family.

However, in real life, it is difficult for us to do this. Even if the daughter-in-law insists that there is no obligation, the son can't really refuse his parents decisively. The last compromise may only be the daughter-in-law.

Therefore, women must see clearly when facing marriage. Why do people say that families with brothers can't get married? A large part of the reason is because of this.