How to judge whether it is a joke or a joke?

Feel, tone, context, and speaking habits all help you make a judgment.

There is also adjusting your mentality. If the other person is talking about something, then first reflect on whether what he said is reasonable and whether he did something wrong. Correct if there is one, and encourage if there is no one.

If it is a satire on the unchangeable things such as height, weight and family, it can show that you want to be happy. If you are a good friend, you can just tell him that you mind. If he makes the same irony many times in the future, stay away from her. People who respect others unequally are not worth being friends.