Which of the three views of life and death in A Dream of Red Mansions is more practical?

Life and death have always been an unavoidable topic in people's lives. Maybe it's the fear of death, or maybe it's because we don't want to talk about this sad topic, but it won't disappear because of it, but it will actually exist. There are three people in a dream of red mansions. They are not afraid of death, but they have a new interpretation of life and death. Jia mu is open-minded, Dai Yu is indifferent, and Baoyu is fearless. Their outlook on life and death transcends the traditional outlook on life. Because they know that life is impermanent, they understand the meaning of living in the present.

First, Jia is open-minded, not seeking a long life, but seeking peace and long-term coexistence with everyone. Jia is the elder of the Jia family, but Jia is not afraid of death at all. Instead, she will be very open-minded about it. Wang Xifeng will live and die-"Is it impossible for Bao Brothers to support your old man on Wutai Mountain in the future?" When joking with her, Jia can laugh it off, because Jia doesn't want to live long.

Jia has had many wonderful experiences in her life. She knew life and death for a long time. When I was a daughter, Jia Mu and her sisters accidentally fell into the water while playing under the pillow at home, and caught a cold after being rescued. Everyone thought they could not live, but Jia was lucky to survive, so people who have experienced life and death will cherish life more, know how to cherish happiness and be kind to others.

Therefore, Jia Mu is easy-going to everyone. Jia Mu is very tolerant of the little Taoist priests in Taoist temples and considerate of the little actors who sing at home. She can directly delegate power to Mrs. Wang regardless of the rights of the housekeeper. She is with the children every day, taking them everywhere and letting them enjoy life. There will be many disappointments in life, so children should not have so many rules and constraints in front of her. In ancient times, Jia was still healthy when she was over 70 years old, which was inseparable from her positive attitude and living in the present.

Jia's family has always predicted that "the tree will fall apart". If Jia Mu were gone, Jia Fu would have declined long ago. Jia Fu is big and crowded, but the existence of Jia Mu is an anchor, which will not separate them, but will bring everyone together.

Jia Jia experienced many things in his life. Tan Chun and others don't pay much attention to gambling at home at night, but Jia Jia will punish her immediately because it will bring great disaster to her family. When the Jia family can't make ends meet, the Jia family will set an example, scrimp and save, and give money to everyone to tide over the difficulties. Jia mu will be very calm in public, and there will be no barriers to cross.

Jia mu has a heartfelt open-mindedness about life and death, because life and death are always a state that people will experience sooner or later. Since the granddaughter-in-law, Jia has been the old lady of Jia's family. She has experienced a lot in her life and never regretted it. Her biggest dream is to see that the children are well, and she can shelter them from the wind and rain.

Second, Daiyu's indifference, life and death, and wealth are in the sky. Because Daiyu is born with a feeling of "three points of illness", everyone will think that Daiyu is in poor health and will experience the fear of death very early, but Daiyu does not have such an idea. Daiyu has an overage indifference to life and death, that is, "life and death have a life, and wealth is in the sky."

Daiyu has been taking medicine since she could eat. Bowls of bitter Chinese medicine made her taste hope and despair every day, but Daiyu never complained. She tries to love the people around her every day. Life and death have never been taboo for her, just a very common thing.

Daiyu will talk to Baoyu about life and death in the first month, because Daiyu is not afraid of death, which is not her taboo. Daiyu knew her illness and never insisted. Because she knows that life is impermanent, she will do what she can in her limited life.

Daiyu's sadness is all kinds of lifelong friendship, and she will give all her heart to the people and things around her. Daiyu gave Baoyu the deepest love; Daiyu gave her best friendship to her friends Zijuan and Baochai. Daiyu's love for her, her yearning for her late parents and her trust in Aunt Xue all expressed her cherish and attachment to her family.

All the flowers and plants around Daiyu have a love, because she can feel that everything has life and should be cherished. Daiyu will pick up fallen flowers, leave a pool of lotus leaves, teach parrots to read poems, and treat every kind of life with heart.

Daiyu knows the value of life. She will bear the sadness alone, but she will bring joy to everyone. Daiyu would tease Baochai to add "an iron pot and a spatula" when preparing materials for Xichun to paint the Grand View Garden, and then write about frying Baochai with ginger seasoning, which made everyone more amused. When xiren, Qingwen and Baoyu quarrel, Daiyu will use a joke of "I'm tired of eating zongzi during the Dragon Boat Festival" to resolve their embarrassment.

Daiyu will tell everyone that Xiangyun loves to wear Jia clothes, and Xiangyun's funny appearance will immediately appear in front of everyone; Daiyu made fun of Granny Liu's "eating locusts", which made Xiangyun laugh and almost fell off the stool. The mutual revelation of Daiyu and Xiangyun is the source of joy for everyone. Who says Daiyu only loves to cry? In fact, Daiyu brought us more joy than sorrow.

Daiyu began to know the meaning of death very early. Her mother died when she was only five years old, and then she experienced the death of her father Lin Ruhai. The death of relatives made Daiyu know the fragility and helplessness of life, but Daiyu would not fall into sadness because of it. She knows that her parents want her to live a quiet and happy life, so she can't give up on herself because of illness. She continues to learn and play the piano in the way she likes, and will do her best in needlework and live a romantic life.

Daiyu knew that her life would not last long, but she was not afraid of death. She has been living in the present, and Daiyu will mourn the Spring and Autumn Period, but her death will have the beauty of "Leng Yue burying flowers" and her life will be more meaningful.

Third, Baoyu's fearlessness, life should be lively, but it can also be turned into dust.

Baoyu has always been a comedy character. Many people may think that he is afraid of death, but on the contrary, Baoyu is not only afraid of death, he thinks that life can be lively enough, but he also accepts death and the state that life can be turned into dust.

Baoyu has a fearless state of death. He has never been afraid of death. He has a very compassionate heart. He can see the inner sadness of each character and give timely care and care. His greatest wish in this life is to protect the girls and friends around him so that everyone can live a happy life.

Baoyu was beaten by Jia Zheng for some things. Daiyu came to see him and advised him to "change everything", and Baoyu had a firm belief that he would rather die for these friends than change his mind. Although Baoyu is not responsible enough, he is still reluctant to treat his friends.

Baoyu also grew up through the death of people around him. He looked at the people around him and gradually understood the meaning of life. Baoyu's most profound ways to die in his memory are Qin Keqing, the goddess of dreams, and Qin Zhong, his childhood sweetheart. He learned from Qin Keqing that things are impermanent and he should cherish life. He learned from Qin Zhong that people are doomed to misfortune. Qin Zhong advised him to study hard and develop in the future, but Baoyu still didn't want to live such a constrained life. He wanted him to do what he wanted as soon as possible, and he was worried that he would regret it.

Baoyu experienced death again because of the dead girls Jin Chuaner and Qingwen. They are two people with deep memories around him. They all think that he was born. Baoyu's heart is full of infinite guilt. His words and deeds and irresponsible preferences will bring disaster to the girls around him, but it is very late when he knows this truth, so Baoyu has been paying homage to them in his own way. There is a censer on Baoyu's desk, and some food will be put at any time, just to commemorate Jin Chuaner.

Baoyu knows the value of life and has always taken care of Daiyu, hoping that he can protect her life. Baoyu's love for Daiyu has reached the point of sharing life and death. Daiyu is sick for him, and he is sick for him. He loves Daiyu and wishes her a safe life. If one day Daiyu is gone, drive her away. Zijuan used to test Baoyu with a joke that Daiyu was going back to Suzhou, and Baoyu became seriously ill for this. He said to Zijuan, "Live and die together, and feather turns into smoke." Baoyu has never been afraid of death and is willing to do his best to protect Daiyu.

Although Baoyu is only a teenager, he has a fearless feeling about death, which is a thorough understanding of life. Baoyu does not agree with the greatness that a person must die, and it is not necessarily a valuable way to die, because they are too persistent in the court. Baoyu believes that a person's life and death is just a very common thing, and everyone is a kind of "free and easy" from scratch.

Baoyu once told you that life and death are uncertain, and no one knows who will die or live tomorrow. If he can live a good life now, even if he dies tomorrow, he will feel satisfied. This is the meaning of living in the present. We never know which comes first, tomorrow or accident, so loving and living fully is the best explanation for ourselves, and living in the present is the best way.

Generally speaking, in A Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Mu's open-minded view of life and death, Dai Yu's indifference to life and death, and Baoyu's fearlessness to life and death are all three very positive views of life and death, which are a real understanding of life. They know that "life is a cycle, from birth to death, to disappear in the dust, return to nature and start a new life". Life and death are just a filling of life, and everyone has to experience it. No matter who can't ask for shorter or longer, the only thing that can be done is to live in the present, broaden the length and depth of life, and let yourself live wonderfully.