Money worship is not aimed at girls, but at boys, which is not only sad, but also terrible.

I don't know if you still remember Mano. When "If You Are the One" broke out, "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle", it became synonymous with women worshipping money for so many years. But who would have thought that when we pay attention to the proposition that women treat the material and happiness of love, men's values are slowly changing. Men's worship of money is probably the same as the scars covered by this society. If you don't tie it, you won't pay attention to the pain.

I remember a few years ago, when the new film Transformers was released, a gentleman in Shanghai called his ex-girlfriend from a distance on the Weibo. When they were in college, the boys didn't buy some gifts for the girls because their families were poor, which made the girls very angry and broke up. This gentleman also came to Beijing to see the new film, which was just on the occasion of its release. He is also expressing his success to his ex-girlfriend and swearing that he has been unwilling and angry for many years. At that time, it was very fierce, and the lady didn't know if she would care. After all, everything has changed over the years. On the surface, it seems that this boy's material can't satisfy their life, and the deeper reason is that their understanding of happiness is biased. Matter is just an illusion accumulated by actions in the long river of time, which not only enriches the self, but also attracts others. But happiness can only be a reflection of time, even if it is pursued, it will disappear before the next scene appears. People have not changed, but happiness is always changing silently.

I have a male classmate who is a typical otaku. The idea is simple and single. After work, the family arranged several blind dates for him. The first girl is a cheerful and optimistic girl, but she looks average. On a blind date, my classmates suddenly threw out that falling in love with me could not interfere in my life. You must cook and wash clothes at home. Even only the woman is allowed to be kind to my classmate's parents, and she has to sever contact with her parents on the grounds that you married me. And when a girl asks you if you have a house or a car? My classmate bluntly said that as long as my parents can buy it, the day is ours, so don't worry so much. After the blind date, the woman directly rejected my classmate and let my classmate return to the prototype of single.

Later my classmate dated another girl. This girl is a salesman with excellent ability and beautiful appearance. In the face of this girl, the students did not throw out the previous questions. Instead, he looks diligent. Say hello to this girl if you have nothing to do, and ask her out for dinner and shopping. Save money to buy gifts for girls. It was with his enthusiasm and hard work that they established a love relationship, but my classmate showed his true colors after living together. The girl is a good girl at home. She often cooks meals and waits for my classmates to come back, but my classmates complain when they see meals. And throw dirty clothes at girls every once in a while. The most important thing is that he often asks girls for money to buy things, which has become his capital to show off. Because girls can make money and have a well-off family, as long as they get married, they can take fewer detours and don't have to worry about the house and car. In his arrogant world, the girl didn't think too much at first. After all, the sales job smiles at the customer every day, and she just wants to have a little comfort when she goes home. However, she never imagined that the wealth she had accumulated for many years had become the capital that this "money worship" teenager showed off. One day, my classmate took a bunch of friends to his house for a drink, during which he shouted at his girlfriend. His girlfriend was so angry that she swore and slammed the door and left. It wasn't long before they broke up. And my classmate begged this girlfriend, but finally separated. Six months later, he was still single, but the girl was married.

Love is equal, but it also needs the right time and place. The weather is similar to the age of two people, and the geographical location is the opportunity to meet. The most important thing is that under the premise of being in harmony with people in the right place at the right time, the two sides can be honest with each other and live a happy life through hard work. And my classmate, in the face of a girl he doesn't like, bared his teeth, but ignored the basics of love. When facing the second girl, he was still squeezing the material hope around the girl. As I said before, matter is only an illusion, and only by giving and accumulating will there be more. And happiness is always changing. You just ask, how can others see your ability to accumulate materials? How can I let others see the reflection of happiness from you? Money worship is a detour that is blinded by shortcuts. Although it is fast, it is always far from the finish line. Although this boy's life is full of too much pressure and anxiety, don't take risks. After all, your money worship failed, which not only became a joke, but also made the happiness that should belong to you farther and farther away from you!