Wisdom in Guiguzi: A man must learn to bow his head and show weakness in order to become the final winner.

If you want to kill a person, indulge him, bow down and cater to him, make him swell and lose yourself, so that you have a chance to beat him.

It's too dark, isn't it

However, real life tells us that the person who can bend down and laugh is the strong one in life.

Bow your head just to stand up and be a man next time.

As the saying goes, people who are too rigid are easy to fold, and those who are so soft are unbeaten.

A mature person lies not in his experience, not in his age, but in whether he can bow his head in time when things happen.

I can't help but think of a news I once read. A tragic incident happened in a convenience store in Zhenjiang late at night on August 20 18. Zhang was drunk in the convenience store and went crazy, which coincided with anyone who came to the convenience store to exchange change at this time.

Ren was curious and glanced at Zhang, who was drunk in the shop. Zhang felt that he had been seen a joke and said, "What are you looking at?"

The youthful Ren replied: "Look at you!"

I don't know, when I heard this sentence, Zhang was ashamed and angry, took out the fruit knife he carried with him and stabbed Ren. Tragedy happened.

Although Zhang was severely punished by the law, he could never be reborn.

It is inevitable that you will not encounter such "garbage people" in your life. Don't argue with "garbage people" and stay away from them. In this paper, Ren won the true face of "garbage man", but also lost his precious life. It is better to put up with him first, let him, let him, and avoid him.

There are thousands of people in the world of mortals, and "garbage people" are full of all kinds of complaints and hostility to life. They are like mines. When something goes wrong, it will trigger and detonate, hurting people and themselves.

When you meet a "garbage man", the wisest thing to do is to bow your head and avoid it. And we just need to live.

People can be proud, but not arrogant. People who disdain to bow their heads like impulsiveness, and most of them will choose to be positive and work hard, thus intensifying contradictions and eventually losing both sides.

Guiguzi tells us that bowing is not weakness, but a kind of reason. Fools are good at tit-for-tat, and the weak like to try to be brave and win.

Hold on for a while, save trouble and calm people's hearts, take a step back and be safe.

If you become a big enterprise, you can't stand it, and you can't bow your head. Han Xin endured the humiliation of his legs and became a general. Gou Jian endured his wife's hatred, tasted the shame of dung, and finally destroyed Wu.

Believe in it, bow down to the achievement pattern.

In the year of graduation, classmate Guangzai joined a pharmaceutical company as a warehouse keeper.

When I first entered the warehouse, I was bullied by various old employees. The porter said: Give me a hand when I place the goods; The deliveryman said: learn some knowledge of distribution; The cleaner said: it is everyone's job to keep the warehouse clean and tidy; The accountant said: learn to co-ordinate drugs.

As a result, as long as Guangzai is free, his colleagues will use various methods to trick him into helping himself. He became a free assistant to his colleagues.

Snobbish bosses don't care about the "extra requirements" of employees at all, and sometimes they take special care of him. His salary will be deducted a little. Free overtime is a sign of learning and growth, and abuse is more important. ...

In all the enthusiasm and cynicism, he did everything silently. If you want to go, go straight.

Ten years later, he is familiar with every customer's hobby, he has the contact information of drug procurement, and he knows all kinds of processes of warehouse management.

Taking advantage of the reorganization of the company, Guangzai contacted several manufacturers, bought a batch of goods on credit and set up his own pharmaceutical company. Take it vertically.

After several years, all the hard work was recovered. It's a pity to have your own career.

Give full play to the value of "those who want to go are vertical and those who want to go are vertical".

A person's achievement begins with his patience and learning to bow his head.

Put up with what ordinary people can't stand, and you will have another chance to get ahead.

Only by putting down face can we bear the burden of humiliation; Smile and bow your head, and your eyes will see farther.

If you can stand what you can't stand, you will succeed; Accept all kinds of hardships and achieve a big pattern.

If you despise all beings blindly, more people will stay away from you. Who is willing to compromise?

If we bow our heads blindly, people will think that you are timid, bullied and suppressed. Over time, suffering from unfair treatment will form a habit.

Therefore, in real life, we should bow our heads moderately. Like a spring, the head will rebound to help within the elastic range.

Is the light pup in the article blindly bowing its head?

No, "secretly accumulate your own strength and get on well with manufacturers and customers" is to bow your head and prepare for the rise.

Once the time is right, it's time to spread your wings and soar.

In Sichuan and Chongqing, bamboo can be woven into various utensils. Bamboo shoots are delicious and deeply loved by people, and they are essential for every farmer.

A particularly interesting phenomenon of Phyllostachys pubescens is that its growth cycle is very slow before it breaks ground and shoots, and it takes five or six years to root underground. When it broke through the ground, it grew very fast, growing to more than 20 meters a year and becoming a usable talent.

Phyllostachys pubescens spent five or six years dormant, quietly rooting in the soil, then fattening the roots and strengthening the stems, and finally living like ancestors.

In fact, whether people or plants want to do something, they must learn to forbear, learn to bow their heads, enrich themselves and accumulate wealth. When the opportunity comes, it will come naturally.

Of course, the road of life will inevitably not be bumpy, and timely bowing is not cowardice, but the realm of perseverance and forbearance that laughs at the end. Moderate bow is an indomitable will, a state of steel tempering and soft fingers.

Knowing when to hold your head high, knowing when to bow your head and show weakness, combining rigidity with softness, and advancing and retreating moderately, is the respect for life, and you can become the final winner.

Knowing how to lower your head is rational, moderately lowering your head is wise, and being able to raise your head is strong.

I believe my heart!

Author: Zou Jian

Editor: Yao Lu