What kind of mood do you feel when you are "black eyed" by others?

White eyes are like a sharp knife, which can stab a person's self-esteem.

In other words, it is easy to understand that he simply looks down on you. When I suffer from other people's eyes, the surface may be faint, but the scars that have been repeatedly torn in your heart have been ruthlessly salted. Why? Is it because I am unsuccessful, because I have no money, because I have no car, no room and no partner? In short, it is all kinds of self-blame, all kinds of dissatisfaction with life and oneself.

Of course, I won't fall into such cold eyes. I have my own set of self-adjustment methods for those strange and disgusting eyes.

Go your own way and let others talk.

If you used to be, and for a long time, you are down and out, and you can't mix well. In fact, not many people like to be near you. Then, don't mind the attitudes and practices of people who are not very important to you. A true friend won't give you the cold shoulder because of your situation. Keep working hard, and when you get ahead, you can laugh at those who once despised you.

Keep a certain social circle

If you are not a small and successful person, there may not be many rich and influential people in your circle of friends, but it is most important to have some like-minded friends. You have the same persistence and goals, and you can help each other when necessary. So, especially when you are despised, don't ignore those friends who really care about you. They can help you and encourage you when you are most helpless.

Reflect on yourself and find out the reasons for your failure.

I believe that no one wants to be ordinary. Temporary failure is because time has not yet arrived and efforts are not enough. If you feel that you have done your best but still have no gains, it is better to reflect on whether you are in the wrong direction, or whether your attitude and methods are wrong. At the same time, don't forget that everything you get now doesn't represent the future, so don't be discouraged, believe in and stick to your favorite job and ideal.