The man suspected that his mistress was cheating and pretended to be a real husband for extortion. As a result, he was sentenced to one year in prison for extortion. what do you think?

It is reported that a man named Lu Ping suspected that his mistress was having an affair with another man. Lu Ping used his mistress WeChat to invite the man, pretending to be his mistress's husband, and forced him to pay RMB30,000 by beating him with a knife and threatening him.

It was learned from Qingpu District People's Procuratorate that the court sentenced the defendant Lu Ping to one year's imprisonment and fined him for extortion.

Let me analyze this matter from the professional perspective of psychology and emotion. As mentioned in the news, both the man and the woman cheated in marriage, and they developed into an extramarital relationship.

But the man is very suspicious and suspects that the woman is unfaithful to her, so when he sees a man and a woman coming home, he thinks that the woman has betrayed him. He found the man and pretended to be a woman's husband to blackmail each other. ?

In this incident, the most puzzling thing is the mentality of the derailed man: it is obvious that two people cheated and both betrayed their marriage. Why does he ask the woman to be loyal? ?

The reason is that everyone will be exclusive in love, that is, there is a requirement for loyalty.

Although the cheating men are very playboy and betray this relationship, they know that love is exclusive and the importance of loyalty. For men who cheat, they put their emotional needs on the cheating object, so they will ask the cheating object to be loyal to themselves.

Many former partners connived at cheating men and were even forced to accept his definition of feelings. They think he can play outside and go home. Although cheating men have caused great mental trauma and inner pain, they will not express it and think that their demands for loyalty to their partners are unreasonable. ?

But this is not the case. Men who cheat know that their feelings should be loyal, but the essential reason why they let their wives not ask them to cheat is to cut off their needs: let their wives maintain their families, take good care of their children and meet the complete needs of their families; Let your lover provide you with emotional value, give him love and meet his emotional needs.

Therefore, if you encounter betrayal, your wife must realize this: the standard of love that the derailed man said is his excuse. We must make him have a sense of rules, be punished by betrayal, and truly be loyal to a relationship. Disloyalty can cause serious psychological trauma to anyone. Loyalty is not an option, but a basic requirement in a relationship.