Should a man divorce when he has children?

Should a man divorce when he has children?

Whether to divorce or not depends on who dominates the emotional situation in this relationship. Is it your husband, that woman or you?

If you can't dominate the emotional situation, then marriage is a torture for you. Divorce is also good at this time.

But if you dominate the whole relationship, why give up easily?

Women who ask such questions often only see the enemy's strength-"motherly son", and women outside can eat men by illegitimate children for life. In the face of this situation, what should the original match do?

1, turn Saner into "predecessor"

The original boundary should be clearly drawn. Resolutely can't spend the night, can't go with three people, that is, he is with women and children outside, and a family of three lives like that.

Then it is best to bring the child out alone, turn the woman outside into an ex, and the man will break up with her and be only responsible for the child.

2. Conquer Saner and create infighting.

If not, then we will clean up this woman outside and let this little green make trouble. We forced the woman outside to detonate two big bombs.

For example, festivals are bombs, children are bombs, and money is bombs. For example, in a reunion festival, you can send a photo of the whole family's happiness and love to Saner.

At this time, the woman outside is living with her, and she may not even go home, because people at home will say, hey, why haven't you seen your husband?

These moments are very painful for her. If she can see the woman outside explode, in the end, the man will feel bored and bored, and she will become her predecessor.

3. Cut off this person's capital flow

But generally speaking, men who have illegitimate children are often scum.

It's no use reasoning with him. It is better to hold the money in your hand, so that the woman gets less and less money, and there will be contradictions between the two.

4, the heart is the best

Why do men cheat? He wants to find a feeling that is not similar to marriage outside marriage. If the third son also becomes a disgusting wife, what do you think is the attraction of that woman to him?

All you have to do is give men emotional value and make them emotionally dependent on you. Remember what your husband needs most at this time. If you can provide for him, you can grab his heart. Grab his heart and you win.