Salute to the middle-aged: The middle-aged life without money is helpless and sad, not as good as a dog

Some people say: middle-aged people are not as good as dogs. Think about it, middle-aged people are old at the top and young at the bottom. The living expenses and various pressures are not small. When facing difficulties in life and you are powerless, don't pant like a dog.

How many people are raising children, cooking, making money, and taking care of things, no matter what the wind or rain... without money, they live worse than a dog.

Poor people naturally know the importance of money. Being rich is every poor man's dream. He can live confidently without having to be humble.

I wonder if any of you have had this experience. When a friend invites you to dinner, you dare not go to the appointment readily because when you return the invitation, you have to live frugally for a while to fill the hole.

You have to be careful about everything you do, and pay attention to cost-effectiveness in everything you buy. You wear clothes after wearing them, and rarely wear clothes that keep up with the trend. When you hear which brand has a big discount, you still hesitate to buy again.

As the saying goes: "Money is not everything, but without money, nothing can be done." Money is a necessity of life. No matter how much we have, we all need to live on it. Who would dislike having too much money? Woolen cloth?

1. Pretend that you are living a good life and don’t want to send a lot of people away.

Face and self-esteem are more important than anything else. On the surface, you smile at life and see everything through, but in fact, the pride in your heart always echoes in your chest.

In middle age, watching others prosper, the sense of urgency in my heart becomes stronger and stronger, and the desire to make money becomes stronger and stronger. Because everyone knows the saying: "Money is not everything, but nothing is impossible without money." Some people may say that it is a bit vulgar for middle-aged people to talk about money. But we understand that when you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you, but when you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives. The family has no money, and it is difficult to move forward. They plan carefully for life, and often look sad.

You will definitely find that in today’s society, money is often linked to ability. In reality, if you have more money, you will have more friends, but if you have no money, your relatives will not come to your home. When people reach middle age, for the sake of face and their own image, they sometimes have to swell their faces and pretend to be fat, pretending that they are living a good life.

2. If you don’t have the confidence, just endure it if you can

There is a joke on the Internet: Don’t scold young people loudly, they will resign immediately.

But you can scold those middle-aged people to death, especially those who have cars, houses and children. A joke can reveal how much hardship and hardship it is.

The pressure on middle-aged people, who shoulder the three major tasks of family, parents and career, can be imagined.

An accessories manager in our company is a man in his forties and 1.75 meters tall. Once, a customer complained because a purchaser was missing a few parts.

So, in front of customers and employees, the boss pointed at his nose and yelled that he was a waste. Angry curses echoed throughout the office. He bowed his head the whole time and accepted the instructions from his superiors. At that moment, he looked like a primary school student who had done something wrong.

What I saw was that his face was red and his hands were tense. He had reached the critical point, but in the end he held back.

It turns out that behind those nonchalant faces is gritted teeth and helplessness. Because there are still parents and families waiting for him, middle-aged people have too many helplessness, and money is the culprit.

3. Don’t dare to get sick, don’t dare to die

Because you are sick and have no one to take care of you, it is not that you are afraid of death, but that your children have no one to take care of you, and your parents have no one to take care of you.

Some people say that when people reach middle age, every time before going home, they have to sit in the car for a while and stare into the distance in a daze. Because when I return home, I am no longer myself; I am the firewood, rice, oil and salt, the trivial life, my husband, my wife, and the pillar supporting the family.

Sometimes, when I receive a call from both parents at night, I will be so frightened that it takes me a long time to recover.

In adult life, there is never anything easy.

Yes, we cannot fall down or get sick. We must be healthy, we must run, and we must bear the burden and move forward, for our parents, for our children, and to stay with our loved ones until we grow old.

Lincoln once said: "Anyone over forty years old must have a sense of responsibility on his face."

Life is a long road, so try to walk your own path.