Mabel Yuan, you are such a bitch.

Recently, when surfing, you can often see some migrant workers and dry rice people.

Personally, Sicily can add an "apologist", of which Mabel Yuan is the best.

After all, this girl has too many confused behaviors and remarks, either apologizing or on the way to apologize.

No, on February 15, Mabel Yuan updated a Weibo.

She said that when she recorded a program with Zhang three years ago, she joked that Zhang snored loudly. Now that she realizes that this joke is inappropriate, she has come to apologize.

So, let's review what this is.

When the program was recorded three years ago, Zhang was absent. The topic of discussion with several boys and girls was "Does Zhang snore?" .

Several people were still speculating there: "No wonder she came back so late. She just wants us to sleep first. I didn't know she was snoring when she was asleep. "

Everyone said, laughing their heads off.

Until Zhang came back, he still stubbornly asked: Do you snore?

The atmosphere was already awkward.

Later, after the program was broadcast, this incident also caused heated discussion among many viewers.

Ah, here you are. . . A little green tea.

Hit people and face, Mabel Yuan's move is quite unique.

But it was many years ago, after Zhang became a hit, that I remembered to apologize, which is very strange for netizens.

Some netizens sighed with emotion: No wonder, no matter how hard Mabel Yuan worked in recent years, it won't be popular.

It's right to joke and be lively, but we shouldn't let ourselves go and talk nonsense.

It's even worse to avoid saying "I'm just kidding" after hurting others.

It is impolite to joke without discretion, and everything can be "unsheathed" through appropriate restrictions.

To say that Mabel Yuan is also an "inspirational goddess" who struggled in the mud for several times before she became popular again.

I didn't expect to keep giving back to myself.

Last year, in the variety "The Skillful Hand", Mabel Yuan still fiddled with cultural relics unmoved, although the restorer repeatedly stressed that it should be handled with care.

I was so anxious that Du Haitao was at a loss and my skull ached.

After a casual play, Mabel Yuan was excited to find that:

"There are really cracks!"

He also showed it to other guests, and careless actions made Sicily sweat.

Arvin really can't stand it, but in view of each other's predecessors, I have to whisper:

"Don't pinch him, it will be cut off soon."

Then, a classic scene appeared, and Mabel Yuan casually pointed to the restorer Liu Zhou:

"Nothing, it can be repaired again."

The clip must be subtitled and pay tribute to "honesty and frankness".

After this passage was broadcast, it caused public anger.

Mabel Yuan was forced to apologize again.

It's really rare to see people who commit suicide all over online celebrity.

Don't say vest line this time. Even if Mabel Yuan practices the road of King Kong Barbie, it is difficult to reverse his popularity.

Faced with the huge efforts spent on restoring cultural relics, Mabel Yuan just dismissed it with a sentence of "restoring".

They not only lack basic common sense, but also lack basic respect for people and cultural relics.

This emotional intelligence is really urgent.

No wonder, at the beginning, with the popularity of "Palace Lock Pearl Curtain", such a high starting point was still unknown.

Besides opportunities and abilities, what she should reflect on most is the sense of boundary with others.

People are really tired when they are alive, and they don't want to be bound by so many rules.

However, whether you are a person or doing things, you still have to have family, understand and respect others.

Is to give others dignity, but also to give yourself dignity.

People live a lifetime, don't take your mouth as humor.

In particular, your self-righteous humor may be harmful in the eyes of the parties.

I still remember that in a variety show, Dany Lee said that although her parents opposed her street dance, she still stuck to her dream.

Yun-peng Yue suddenly said, "Actually, I don't think you are suitable for dancing."

Seeing this, Sicily naively thought that this was his view on Dany Lee's dancing skills.

As a result, Yun-peng Yue's next sentence turned out to be: "Because I saw your legs very thick at close range!"

What is even more speechless is that Yun-peng Yue was afraid that Dany Lee didn't hear clearly and repeated: "Your legs are so thick!"

Let's not talk about whether it's polite to stare at girls' legs at close range.

What's more, where are Dany Lee's legs thick?

I'm kidding, Yun-peng Yue. I am very happy.

But joking Dany Lee made it clear in shock:

"Why do you say that about me?"

"I am very sad."

Then I put it in my pocket and said it was because I didn't have an ankle.

The body shame hidden in the joke is really not funny at all.

If you have to convince others to accept the malicious intention hidden in the joke generously, then such "personal attack" will only become more and more natural.

Because it was not a personal attack, but a joke.

Freud once said:

"There is no such thing as a joke. All jokes contain serious elements. "

There are also many people who like to joke regardless of the occasion. For example, Cherrie Ying vomited again and again that Cheng Lisha had Botox, saying that her face was stiff, even though Lisa buried her face beside her.

When Yun-peng Yue told the story of getting along with his daughter, Nana questioned his daughter's unhappiness and Yun-peng Yue choked up. Others are comforting, but she joked, "Ha ha ha, I'm going to cry."

......

They are just like some friends around them. Some are set by people with "true temperament" in the name of active atmosphere, but without exception, they all say embarrassing things in public.

After the joke, of course, everyone is happy.

If you can't drive well, it's really no different from being a bitch.

Just kidding. You need appropriate restrictions. Don't joke if you shouldn't. Improper humor, and don't tell it as a joke in public.

True friends should think from each other's point of view and respect others.

Sometimes, frankly speaking, it hurts people. Even if the relationship is good, we should leave each other three points.

Sicily said more than once, to be a man, you must love yourself first, but don't forget, there is another saying behind, you must be able to put others in your heart.

-Write it at the end-

The world of adults, the most important rule is:

Any joke that the parties think is not funny is regarded as a personal attack.

Don't understand other people's scars, but please be sure to keep silent.

Some scars are not something you can make fun of.

"You don't need the world to understand you. It doesn't matter. Some people, who have never experienced it, will never really understand. "

If you can't understand other people's pain and can't get comfort, then the best way is to choose to shut up, instead of exposing other people's scars for fun.

Where's Lao Tzu's skirt?

Sicily wishes you all the courage to express your dissatisfaction with malicious jokes.

No one is born to be sacrificed to please everyone.

Remember, when you feel uncomfortable, it's their fault, not yours.

Click "Look", I hope we can all have the courage to refuse in the face of uncomfortable jokes ~

In short, there is no harm in talking well and being a good person.