What does a mean person look like?

It looks like it doesn’t please anyone.

People who speak harshly have a dark psychology and tend to only see the bad side of people and things around them. And they dislike everyone, are quite selfish, narrow-minded, and are narrow-minded. They attack others, often in order to belittle others, elevate themselves, and find psychological balance.

The most important point is that acrimony often stems from inner unhappiness and insecurity. What appears outwardly as an attack is actually inner self-defense. Extended information

Critical people exaggerate the "badness" of others on the surface, but in fact they cannot adapt to the good qualities of others. This is a manifestation of a "sour grapes mentality" at work.

When someone is being mean, you can ask him very sincerely: "So where do you think the problem lies?"

For example, when you go for an interview today, your senior brother says to you , today’s interview is to increase the experience of failure. Then ask sincerely: "Then what do you think the problem is? Senior brother, you think I am not prepared enough, please give me some pointers."

At this time, you cannot show a mocking attitude. Well, we can only discuss this matter honestly. Moreover, it is very likely that you don’t know how to answer at all. If you ask this question, you will feel unsure and will not dare to be so prickly in the future.