What should I do if I am looked down upon by others in the village?

What should I do if I am looked down upon by others in the village? Do these things and be a respected person. When you are looked down upon by others in the village, you must find the reason within yourself. You must first change yourself and make yourself capable. Only by being principled in doing things and having morality in your heart can you gain the respect of more people.

Speaking of the feeling of being looked down upon, many people may have a lot of complaints to express. In fact, everyone wants to be a respected person. Many people attribute the reason why they are looked down upon to lack of money, but the author does not completely agree with this view. Can people with money always be able to look up to others? The female Porsche owner in Chongqing who slaps others in the face is very rich, so I’m afraid it’s hard for her to gain people’s respect.

Although this is just a joke, it also shows that in order to gain the respect of others, it is not enough to have money alone. What rich and powerful people get may not necessarily be true respect, but may be more the need and fear of others. Our country is a country of etiquette and has always paid attention to convincing people with reason and virtue. If you want to be respected by others, your values, your emotional intelligence, character and sentiment are also important. If you feel looked down upon by others in the village, you might as well try this: First, you can have a good temper, but you must have your own principles and bottom line when dealing with others, and don't always show yourself as a good person. If you just blindly follow others, your kindness is likely to be regarded as cowardice. As the saying goes, a good horse will be ridden by others, and a good person will be bullied by others. Although most farmers are relatively kind-hearted, there are also some people in the village who take extra measures.

Big Yi brother Zhu Zhiwen is a big star who was born as a farmer. After he became famous, he never forgot to repay his hometown. He built roads and schools for the village and lent a lot of money. In this way, some villagers are still dissatisfied, and some people's desires will never be satisfied. If you want to be respected by others, you must have a high emotional intelligence, see through human nature, and know how to say no. Facts have shown that people who have their own principles and bottom lines in life and work are often more likely to be respected by others.

Second, you must hone your skills and have your own career or skills. Although poverty cannot be used as a reason to be looked down upon, poverty is often accompanied by laziness and lack of ambition. As the saying goes, poor people must be hateful. How can those in the countryside be respected by others, those who are idle all day long and do not do their jobs properly? Even if pie falls from the sky and these people get something for nothing, I think they will still be looked down upon.

Respect is not given by others, but earned through one's own hard work. Happiness comes from struggle. If you want to be a respected person, you must have the ability to survive and a motivated heart!

Third, honor your parents, be harmonious to your neighbors... and don’t do anything that is harmful to nature or contrary to morality. "Filial piety comes first among all good deeds." Those who do not honor their parents will definitely be looked down upon. Secondly, if you often do things that harm others, it is also impossible to gain respect from others. Just like some "village tyrants", they are rich and capable, but what they get from others is fear instead of respect. Therefore, if you want to be respected by others, you must be a moral and righteous person.