20 19 Yi Chan wechat classic quotations every day, calm down and have a good look.

First, people should be calm, and if they talk too much, they will lose. Instead of looking at yourself, it is better to say, when complaining about others, it is better to listen and forget. What can interfere with you is often your own concern, and what can hurt you is often your own obsession. You are peaceful and no one hates you, and no one can bother you if you don't investigate.

Second, the Buddha said that fate is not predestined, it is our own decision. When fate is bad, we need to change it. If you want to change your destiny, the most important thing is not to change anything else, but to change your mentality. What kind of mentality, there will be what kind of fate.

Third, be humble and calm; Don't argue, don't make trouble, be calm; No comparison, no comparison, indifference; Not angry, not angry, easy-going; Do not love, do not complain, and be calm. Life has a length; Life has joys and sorrows; Life has its ups and downs.

Fourth, you can't change the environment, but you can change yourself; You can't change the facts, but you can change your attitude; You cannot change the past, but you can change the present; You can't control others, but you can control yourself; You can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; You can't do everything smoothly, but you can do everything wholeheartedly; You can't extend the length of life, but you can decide the width of life.

Five, life is alive, there are always some empty old things, and the years are not over; There are always a few seasons when the flowers are cool and sad. A lot of things, when you look at them, will turn around; Many dreams, if pessimistic, will open the sun. Learn to think, learn to cherish, smile and understand, be silent and strong.

Sixth, learn to let go and know how to be calm. When you are alive, you will inevitably encounter many disappointments. When there are problems in your life, don't be dissatisfied and resentful, and don't be bitter and depressed. You have to face both blessings and disasters, and both good and bad will pass. The biggest regret in the world is that we are close at hand, but we don't understand each other's silence; The biggest mistake is to stubbornly refuse to turn when you know there is no road ahead.

Seven, life, how much care, how much pain; Learn to be generous and forgive others' shortcomings and mistakes. You have to forgive others, forgive others and let people pass. Generous people are open-minded, do not haggle over every ounce, do not hold grudges, and are naturally happy.

Eight, don't implicate yourself, and don't implicate others. Be careful if you are good to yourself; If you are kind to others, you should care. Looking at others is annoying; Look at yourself, smart student. Be considerate of others, you are a man; Know yourself before you do things. People can't stand the test, so don't test people easily. It's hard to get into people's hearts, and it's even harder to get into your own. The heart is uncertain, so everything is uncertain; If it is confirmed, decide now. Peace of mind leads to wisdom, confusion leads to stupidity.

9. It's good to know peace only after experiencing ups and downs. I have tasted the ups and downs, and it is good to know that it is plain. After so many ups and downs, it is good to know that you are satisfied. Think about it, and you will know that confusion is the best. The best way to live in life: cherish what you do, don't be sad or resentful, live in the present and cherish your side!

Ten, Buddha said, when you are happy, if happiness is based on the suffering of others, it is not happiness, but karma; When you are happy, if happiness leads to pain, it is not happiness, but the pain is not yet mature; When you are rich, if wealth comes from improper industries, it is not wealth, but accumulated debt; When you think you are smart, if smart is used for selfishness, it is not smart, but ignorance. True happiness and happiness are not painful because they are not based on evil.

1 1. Bitterness is life, pain is experience, fatigue is work, change is fate, patience is experience, tolerance is wisdom, quietness is practice, giving up is gain, and doing is possession. Say goodbye to the past calmly, seize every minute to live in the present, greet the future calmly, look at the mountains and the sea calmly, have a peaceful mind and be content with everything!

If you live in the eyes of others, you will get lost in your own heart. In this world, don't rely too much on others, because even your shadow will leave you in the dark. Don't regret the past; Don't worry about the future; Now, cherish it more. If you are satisfied, life is full of scenery; Not satisfied, life is full of traps!

Thirteen, this lost life is not experiencing any doom, but tempering a personality. Don't exaggerate its loneliness and sadness. Living is a kind of inner awakening, to understand the surrounding environment, to understand all the things that the wind can blow and the wind can't. All reminders of life lie in self-awakening or being awakened by life.

Fourteen, ordinary embrace the secular, this is life; Helpless for trivial things, this is life. Life, whether busy, rich or poor, is a kind of happiness; Life is dull, whether bitter or sweet, what you want is a kind of contentment; Families, regardless of age, want a kind of harmony; Life, fragile and powerless, needs a kind of health regardless of its length; Life, ups and downs, regardless of gains and losses, is a pity.

In this world, no matter how you live, there are people gossiping, and no matter what you do, there are people telling you what to do. No matter how well you do, there are always people who say that you are not good, and no matter how right you do, there are always people who say that you are not right. There is no comment, no discussion. It is difficult to be a man, weigh the hearts of thousands of people and adjust everyone's mouth. So! How to be happy and how to live. Love with addition, hate with subtraction, and be grateful with multiplication.

Sixteen, like to complain, more and more troubles; If you like contentment, you will be happier and happier; If you like to escape, you will fail more and more; Like to share, more and more friends; If you like to be angry, there will be more and more diseases; If you like to take advantage, poverty will increase; If you like to give money, you will have more and more wealth; If you like to pay, you will have more and more blessings; If you like gratitude, you will get more and more success; More and more noble people like to help others.

Seventeen, some things need to be tolerant, not angry; Some people, need to let, don't pursue. Eat something. What's wrong? There is nothing wrong with letting him shoot three points. Deep water is silent, and people are steady. Learn to temper, learn to hold back anger and face dissatisfaction. Be a man and give half the essence; Doing things requires half and half. Everything can't be too detailed, and there is no way to be too detailed; Don't be too hard on others and friends. Knowing how to give in will show the atmosphere; Knowing tolerance makes you generous.

Eighteen, life is not easy, don't laugh at others. Every family has a difficult lesson, and everyone has a difficult song. No matter how beautiful the scenery is, there is also cold pain behind it; No matter how happy people are, they also have helpless difficulties in their hearts. No one's life is easy. To laugh at others is to laugh at yourself, and to respect others is to respect yourself. The poorest is nothing more than begging, and the undead will always emerge. Whose life is perfect, whose life is not thin and cool, who can guarantee that life has always been proud. Gold is not enough, no one is perfect.

19. If you don't want to give up, you will accomplish nothing. A person, only he can seize hope, and only he can give up hope. Resentment and jealousy will only make you lose more. Regardless of success or failure, we have reason to cheer for ourselves! It doesn't matter if you fall and lose it. Get up and continue to share joys and sorrows, singing and walking. Keep your eyes open and don't let your confusion confuse you. If you have a shore in your heart, you will have a ferry, a boat and a tomorrow.

Twenty, there are always some things in life that need to be experienced by yourself to understand; There are always some people who need time to see clearly before they understand; It doesn't matter whether you get together or leave, gain or lose, whether you expect too much, whether you pursue it deliberately, whether you go your own way, and whether you know your own heart. No one can replace you. Difficulties, we bear; Joy, we feel it ourselves. Have a loving heart, walk steadily, and have no regrets in love; Have an indifferent heart, a lot of happiness, happiness is approaching; The most beautiful happiness is simple and true, plain and warm.