What does it mean for men to start hiding private money?

Men have reached the point of hiding private money, which is a retrogression of civilization; This is a concrete manifestation of extreme inequality between men and women. This is the sorrow of a family; This is a very unequal price of love. Why do you say that money is earned by two people? The woman has mastered huge family expenses; Leave a certain amount of discretionary power to the husband; This is a kind of mutual trust; It is a kind of mind; This is a kind of harmony. Men usually hide their private money for several reasons:

First, the man's family is difficult and needs his support; I don't want to talk to my wife all the time; I have to do this to avoid family conflicts.

Second, the man is generous before marriage and easy to make friends; Hospitality has always been very large; Suddenly cut off contact with friends after marriage; Afraid of losing friendship between friends; Be laughed at and looked down upon.

Third, due to the fierce competition in modern society, in order to get a better future, leaders send gifts to leaders who don't care, and money is not enough; No way, I usually hide some money in Tibet.

Fourth, he is a playboy, a worthless man, hiding private money and cheating his wife.

Except for the fourth case, the wife can yell at the tiger and the lion. Although they are brave and fearless, a man who steps on a tiger's foot and breaks a lion's foot will never turn over. No bail for life

In the first three cases, I think there is nothing to condemn. Wives should blame themselves for this and understand the hardships and psychological pressure of modern men.