My sister-in-law got married and gave me a bride price of 500 thousand. I have nothing. Why is my mother-in-law so eccentric?

My husband Chen Liang and I are college classmates. We both studied medicine and studied at Everbright University for seven or eight years. By the time we graduate, we will all be 30 years old. My husband is a dutiful son. He has long wanted to return to his parents after graduation and work in their county hospital. In fact, according to our education, it is not difficult to find a hospital in a big city. But for the sake of my husband's filial piety, I am also willing to go back to the small county with him. However, just when we went back to our hometown to prepare for the wedding, I found something I couldn't accept. My mother-in-law actually prepared a bride price of 500 thousand for my sister-in-law, and I didn't get any money! I am a girl in the city. I left my parents and married far away. You disrespect me like this. I've compromised. Why are the two daughters-in-law so different?

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My husband does have a younger brother named Chen Yong. Chen Yong and his brother have completely different personalities. They can be said to be proficient in one article and one skill. Husband studies well and has a quiet personality. My brother Chen Yong has been working and doing some small business since he dropped out of junior high school. I have long heard that my husband has a younger brother and a girlfriend. But his parents have a local custom that eldest brother can't get married until he gets married. Therefore, brother-in-law and girlfriend have been pressured by their parents-in-law not to get married. Mother-in-law said, "Your brother is not married yet. What's your hurry? If you get married first, people won't laugh at your brother and your daughter-in-law, will they? " In fact, we just didn't finish school. Now that my husband and I have graduated, it's time to talk about marriage. But when it comes to the 500 thousand bride price that my mother-in-law gave her sister-in-law, I feel so unfair!

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As a girl, I am quite open-minded and don't support the bride price. However, it is really unacceptable that the two daughters-in-law give 500 thousand each and not give me a penny. Back to my husband's hometown, my mother-in-law pulled me into her bedroom and said to me slowly, "I know you feel wronged and unfair, but you don't know what's going on." The second daughter-in-law has been talking to my second child for eight years and has been inseparable. It is because you are still in college that I have been holding back from holding their wedding. In fact, the second daughter-in-law and the children are pregnant, and they can't get married without it. If there is no way, get married first. But who knows, God is so blind that the second daughter-in-law was diagnosed with breast cancer when she was pregnant! The second child said to kill the child to protect the adult, and go to see the wife first. But the second daughter-in-law just disagreed. She said that now that the child is big, she must bring the child down! "Mother-in-law said while crying. It can be seen that she is not distressed by the child in her stomach, but by the second daughter-in-law who has never been through the door.

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My mother-in-law told me that I know it is very wrong not to give you a bride price. But that 500 thousand is all your father-in-law and I have saved. According to our custom, the bride price is generally 65,438+10,000 yuan or 80,000 yuan. The reason why I gave her so much is to see a doctor for her! I see. After listening to her mother-in-law's words, I felt terrible. I said, I don't want bride price money. I didn't mean to ask too much. Let's all go to see a doctor. My brother and sister-in-law didn't have a wedding in recent years because my sister-in-law didn't go to the door, which was delayed. I took out a bank card from my bag and handed it to my mother-in-law, saying, "You'd better have a wedding for your sister-in-law. This is 30 thousand yuan saved by myself. Although it is not much, it is also a gift! " My mother-in-law took the card and said to me, "eldest daughter-in-law, I didn't give you a bride price. You spent 30 thousand." I'm really sorry ... "