Why can't men eat soft rice?

That was a long time ago, maybe not too long ago, or right in front of our eyes. There was a rich old widow who had a little lover. One day, they went out to eat lotus leaf rice. The bartender politely asked the little lover, "Do you want to eat hard or soft?" The little lover knows that the old widow has a bad mouth. In order to please her, she quickly replied: "eat soft!" " "The bartender laughed:" The old lady eats soft food, and so do you, a big boy? "I don't know if this joke is the source of the word" eat soft rice ".A blogger wrote an article" Men who eat soft rice are rubbish ".You can see what she thinks of men who eat soft rice by looking at the topic. I commented at the end of the article: "He must have a mouth to eat. "China men have been educated to be tough guys since ancient times, standing in the wind and starving to death. Be the pillar of the country and the master of the family. How can a person who has been entrusted with such an important task pretend to be a grandson without his master doing it? Men who eat soft rice really don't have the "spirit" of men So what is a man's "spirit"? In ancient matriarchal clan society, women were masters and men were subordinate. Women are very feminine in the clan. Women should shelter the clan from the wind and rain, solve the problem of food and clothing, and resist foreign aggression for the clan At that time, men, I don't know if the whole is eating soft rice? In patriarchal society, it is the man's turn to be the master. Men have become the backbone of society, shouldering the main responsibilities of society and family, and their "male chauvinism" has gradually formed. Men in this era, if they live in a subordinate position and eat soft rice, will become despised alternatives. To tell the truth, I don't like men who eat soft rice either. But I respect a man's choice of such a lifestyle. Women should not and have no reason to look down on men who eat soft rice. As the old saying goes, "Marry a Han, dress and eat". If I still say this now, many women will scoff: "When women can hold up half the sky, why do they have to rely on men to eat?" "The same is true. Now it is neither a matriarchal society nor a paternal society, and the status of men and women in society is basically equal. Both men and women, as long as they are normal people, can live by their own wisdom and hands, and do not need to rely on anyone to live. It is human nature that men are capable and willing to raise women. A woman who is capable and willing to support a man will attract countless fuss. Why? Because many people think that it is natural for women to be raised by men; If a man is raised by a woman, it is somewhat neither fish nor fowl. After all, the idea that men are superior to women is at work. So I said: women should not look down on men who eat soft rice. This is not to put themselves on an equal footing with men. This is like saying, "you should support women, but how can you be supported by women in turn?" "? Shame ... "Society is open and fair. Since society allows some women to "get something for nothing" and be kept by men, some men should also be allowed to go the same way. In fact, "eating soft rice" is not an easy task, but also requires unremitting efforts. Some friends may think I'm talking nonsense: "Eating soft rice means getting something for nothing. What do you want? " You can take a cool look. Those beautiful young girls, who made a fortune, seem to have taken a shortcut and got something for nothing. In addition to losing their youth and beauty, they have to flatter the rich, wait on them carefully, and some of them have to suffer physical and mental torture. If you don't coax, you won't get the money; If you don't coax, you can't catch the rich; If you don't coax, you may lose everything you seem to have. What can be successful without hard work? Men who eat soft rice have to pay much more than those little girls. Most people (both men and women) who eat soft rice come from the bottom of society. They are either poor and afraid, and they want to be successful. Either you have no survival skills, you are in trouble and you have to do it. Although sad, but also poor, bitter enough to write a book. A tall and handsome young man from an ordinary background has no bright future. But he married a disabled daughter of a section chief, so he entered the public security bureau. Later, the section chief became a county magistrate and deputy mayor, and also climbed the position of the city traffic police brigade battalion chief step by step. I don't know if this is a "soft meal". When the boy settled down, he divorced his wife. So he has become a hot commodity for many unmarried women, and he has never heard of anyone who cares that he has eaten soft food before. In today's popular mode of "Peacock Girl" marrying "Phoenix Boy", Phoenix Boy is more or less dependent on the background and social relations of Peacock Girl's family, and is more or less "angry" by Peacock Girl's family. I wonder if this is a little soft, too? The society is so big that everyone will have it. Everyone has it, and what kind of lifestyle will it have. You can eat hard with a good mouth, but you can only eat soft with a bad mouth.