If you are sick, just eat a canned food.

When you are sick, just eat a canned food. Have you tried it? As a child, I was always successful.

The happiest thing when I was a child was being sick. Although my body was tortured by the disease, and I had to have needles inserted into my arteries and some unknown liquids were poured into me, as a sick person I had the right to eat whatever I wanted. In an era of material poverty, canned food seemed to be a wonderful thing, and only when you were sick could you enjoy this good product. In my memory, when I was a child, my brother and I were sick together. We were lying on a shabby bed in a small clinic while we were getting intravenous injections. My brother wanted to eat canned oranges and I wanted to eat canned pears. My father sat in the middle of the bed and fed both sides in turn. Think about it now: Being sick at that time was also a happy thing, and the canned food I ate at that time was the most delicious canned food in my life.

After experiencing the benefits of being sick, we, as little people as we are, have also learned from our experience: if you want to eat delicious food, you get sick; if you don’t feel sick, you pretend to be sick, and delicious food will come. So I would say from time to time: "Dad, I seem to have a fever, just eat a packet of instant noodles." "Mom, I have a stomachache, just drink a bottle of Jianlibao."... At first, my parents were very nervous when they heard that they were sick. I hurriedly put down what I was doing and wanted to take me to see a doctor. I knew very well that once I went to the doctor, my secret would be exposed and I would not go away. My parents would see through this little trick. Sometimes my parents would satisfy their greedy wishes, and sometimes my parents could only say: "You, You..." went back to busy life.

If we were sick when we were children, or even pretended to be sick just to eat something delicious, then when children today are sick, besides having real physical illnesses, are they also getting sick because of their stuttering? Definitely not, what is it? It's an emotional need.

Recently, my baby niece has been ill and has intermittent recurring fevers and cannot eat anything. The younger brother and sister-in-law are busy making money and have no time to stop and take care of the children. Only the child's grandmother stayed with the little one 24 hours a day, and the old man barely slept a wink for several days. She was worried, anxious, and sad... I learned the news and sent my condolences on the family WeChat group. I accidentally mentioned that when I was sick and ate canned food with my younger brother when I was a child, my younger brother seemed to have suddenly enlightened and asked his old mother to buy a canned food for his daughter in the WeChat group. Although it is a joke, the child's grandmother is also a dead horse doctor, buying canned food. But today, with abundant materials, canned food is classified as junk food. There are fewer consumers and fewer manufacturers, and it is not so easy to buy it in physical stores. It was hard to buy it, but my eldest niece, who was not in good spirits, had no appetite to eat it. Looking at her niece with red lips, grandma shed tears of distress and said: I can't eat or drink. What should I do if I have such a high fever over and over again? I really hope I can bear this pain.

After some sighs in the group, I called my brother and learned that my brother-in-law and his wife were working hard to pay off the loan for their second home. The main business and the side business were desperate for 24 Spend all your time making money. In the morning, when the children get up to go to kindergarten, they haven't woken up at all. In the evening, when the children are asleep, they go home in the middle of the night. Although parents and children live under the same roof, they are actually "left-behind children" in close proximity. They are also anxious when their children are sick, but if they ask for leave to go home, not only will their wages be deducted, but more importantly, they are not doctors and cannot treat the disease. When getting sick, they should leave professional matters to professional doctors, and the children's life With grandma taking care of it, I just need to buy whatever nutritional supplements I need.

I was silent. Today’s children are in need of food and clothing. They simply have everything they want to eat. There are only things you can’t think of, and there is nothing a business can’t do. It is said that no one will get sick from eating whole grains, but one kind of disease is heart disease. For example, if people long for some kind of care, but are not satisfied for a long time, they will be disappointed. Diseases originate from the heart, and congenital heart disease will also cause illness in the body. Children who are sick want to get their parents' attention and love, so they use their illness to attract their parents' attention. The famous rhesus monkey experiment: In the experiment, the relevant personnel made two fake mothers for a young rhesus monkey. One of them was made of wire, but a bottle was hung on its chest, which means "it has milk." "Mom", while the other one is made of flannel. Although it is warmer, it does not have a bottle, which is the "Mother without Milk". When the experimenter put the little monkey into an iron cage with two mothers, they found that although the little monkey would go to the "wire mother" to nurse when it was hungry, it would immediately return to the velvet mother after eating.

In the second stage of the experiment, the experimenter put a "monster" into the iron cage and found that the little monkey was hiding in the arms of the velvet mother, not the wire mother. This leads to the conclusion: All animals need warmth and love. The results of the entire experiment show that compared to "milk", that is, material things, children need more warmth and love from their parents. A child is a human being, and her emotions are richer than those of animals. She is an emotional person whose growth requires not only material nutrition, but also the nourishment of parental love.

I said to my brother word for word: When you are sick, just eat a canned food. The times have passed. When you are sick, you still need heart medicine. Both my brother and sister-in-law took time off to go home to spend time with their eldest niece. During the day, the couple spent a day in contact, communication, interaction, and companionship with their child. Miraculously, the child no longer had a fever, his appetite improved, and his mental state improved.

Being sick is more often an emotional need. I thought of that children's song again: If you love me, just stay with me. If you love me, hug me. If you love me, just praise me...

True love in the world, emotional interaction is love The best form of expression.