Is it acceptable for a wife to cheat and sincerely repent? What is right for a man whose wife is cheating on him?

After men cheat, women often forgive their cheating husbands because they are soft-hearted and take care of their families and children, but few men can forgive their wives for cheating. As long as they find out that their wife is cheating, they will decisively let the woman go out of the house, then deprive the child of custody, and even refuse to see the child in the future. But there are also some men who really love their wives, and they will ask their relatives and friends for advice: Is it acceptable that their wives really regret cheating?

Is it acceptable for a wife to sincerely repent of cheating? 1. Mr. Zhou: It is impossible for a woman to return to her family after an affair.

A woman who is unfaithful to her will not be accepted by men, even if she suddenly wakes up and returns to her family. If a man accepts a woman who is unfaithful to her, he will be teased by other men, and others will think that this man is worthless and cheated by this woman.

Men pay special attention to self-esteem, especially their own dignity. Where can they allow their wives to cheat? If a woman wants to return to her family after an affair, it is impossible, and men will never accept it. A man accepting such a woman is tantamount to discrediting himself.

2. Mr. Lin: Why should men forgive women for cheating?

There are plenty of fish in the sea, so how can a man be willing to accept a cheating woman? If a woman cheats, it means that she is ready to never return to her parents' home. A woman who cheats must pay the price of losing her family for cheating.

Men and women have never been equal. If a man cheats, women often choose to forgive him, because the man is the head of the family and bears the responsibility of supporting the family. Men who rely on women dare not choose divorce in the face of men's infidelity, so they have to forgive men, not the other way around. If a woman cheats, why should a man forgive her? A man can divorce this woman and then find another wife.

3. Mr. Park: Not many men are willing to accept cheating women.

My wife is five years younger than me. Since I got married, I have been responsible for making money to support my family. My wife helps me take care of my family at home. I always thought she was a good wife and mother, but I didn't expect her to cheat. I found out after the affair, and she cried and begged me for forgiveness, saying that she would return to her family.

I usually like fooling around, and sometimes I do some unnatural things. I can forgive her for her good temper, but I will never forgive her for cheating.

I tried to make money and send her flowers. She doesn't appreciate me, even if she doesn't sympathize with my hard work. She also took my money to raise a little lover outside. Now she asks me to forgive her. Why should I forgive her?

Men in this world often want to conquer women. Not many men are willing to accept cheating women. No matter how much you love, you can't accept an unfaithful woman. Every woman should know not to betray her marriage easily. If she betrays her marriage, she will never look back. Even if she did, it wouldn't happen again.

What should a man do when his wife cheats? 1. Understand women's thoughts.

When many men know that their wives have betrayed them, their first reaction is anger.

Some men will choose to curse their wives or even beat her. In fact, this is very unwise.

The first thing you have to do is to talk to the other person calmly and find out what she really thinks.

If you just lose your head for a moment and your wife realizes her mistake, you can give her a chance.

If a woman has feelings for her partner and the idea of divorce, don't force her to stay at this time.

Because once a woman has determined something, it's hard to change it.

2. Don't be cold and violent.

Cold violence is the most commonly used method for many men to punish their wives, and it is also the most ineffective method.

When encountering a problem, the first thing to think about is how to solve it, not how to escape.

The more you treat your wife like this, the more you push her to others.

Except for some restless women, most wives cheat because they are cold to their husbands.

Don't put all the blame on a woman, think about whether you have given her enough love and warmth.

If every quarrel is solved by cold violence, your wife will be farther and farther away from you.

Until one day, she has no hope for you, and any remedy is in vain.

On the contrary, if you can communicate with her more and give her more care, your relationship will get better and better.

If you are still reluctant to part with her and this family, you must not be cold and violent.

Step 3 rebuild trust

Betrayal is a knot in many people's hearts, and both men and women care about it.

Once the other person betrays himself, he will lose trust and become very alert to every little thing.

The failure of many marriages is ultimately destroyed by mutual suspicion and distrust.

If you choose to forgive and continue to live a good life, the first thing to do is to trust each other.

You should have a good talk, untie all the knots and live in a way that is acceptable to both of you.

If you keep catching each other's faults, your marriage will still be full of holes.

Rather than mind, let go, I believe you can still have a beautiful marriage.

What are the manifestations of wife's infidelity? 1, don't want to be near you.

Sometimes the body is the most honest. If she hates you and doesn't like you, all your intimate actions, including your hugs and kisses, will make her very disgusted. She will refuse all intimate contact, because she has been satisfied from other men and will naturally be very resistant to you. A man may cheat between two women, but women usually change their minds before cheating, so they will definitely refuse your intimacy. If the woman around you does this, you should be careful.

2. The whereabouts is a mystery

If a woman has someone other than marriage, her whereabouts will definitely be mysterious. She will arrange many things for herself and refuse to be with her husband. She always has many reasons to prevaricate you, saying that she went out to play with her friends and that she worked overtime with her colleagues, but she didn't say who. If you ask any more questions, it will only make her impatient. By the way, why do you care so much? Do you know him? A woman is afraid to let you know her whereabouts, which means she has her own little secret.

3, no longer care about you

When a woman no longer cares about you, takes care of you and has no patience with you, then she may not love you so much. Because a woman who loves you can't care about you. She will be anxious to give you her whole heart, so she no longer cares about your woman. Generally speaking, she may have lived with someone else in her heart, or she is completely disappointed with her existing feelings and her heart is not at home. Her mind will only think of another person, hers.

4. Behavior becomes abnormal

Extramarital affairs are always a shameful thing, so women usually try their best to cover it up. But out of a guilty conscience, I become more sensitive and give people a feeling of tension. Set up a series of defense lines for you psychologically and behaviorally, such as not letting you touch your mobile phone, not asking questions when you go out, or just finding an excuse to perfunctory you. Can't ask why, women are full of loopholes. This state is like a wall between two people.