Who will cook when you are pregnant? Mother-in-law or mother Why?

I got pregnant in the second month after I got married. When I was pregnant for more than two months, my father-in-law was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer by the local staff hospital. During my father-in-law's hospitalization, almost all my family members rushed to the hospital, and I was the only one responsible for cooking family meals and nutritious meals for patients. Every week, the hospital will issue a critical notice, which makes the whole family extremely anxious.

Later my father-in-law was transferred to a hospital in Shanghai. After detailed examination, fortunately, it was finally confirmed as a liver abscess. My husband, my mother-in-law, and my mother-in-law's daughter accompanied my father-in-law to Shanghai. I stayed at home because it was inconvenient to get pregnant. There was a brother-in-law at home at that time. He can't cook, so my mother-in-law left me the task of taking care of her brother-in-law.

My husband stayed in Shanghai for a month and came back first. After my father-in-law was discharged from the hospital, his mother-in-law accompanied him to his hometown in Jiangsu to rest and didn't come back until three months later.

At the beginning of pregnancy, my reaction was particularly strong. I vomited so badly that I could hardly eat anything. My mother was in the countryside. At that time, there was no telephone, so she could only write letters. So my mother can't take care of me, and my mother can't walk, because there are more than ten acres of land at home.

Because young people don't know how to take care of themselves, because pregnancy is particularly severe, they don't know how to breastfeed, and my husband doesn't know how to take care of me. When my mother-in-law came back, I was pregnant and lost weight. My mother-in-law began to take good care of me. But because of the strange living habits of the north and south, I eat very little. Fortunately, my health is getting better.

My child was only five pounds when he was born, and he was weak and sick. The doctor said it had a lot to do with my diet and mood when I was pregnant.

Oh, pregnant parents, be sure to take care of yourself!

Eat in the canteen when you are pregnant.

I was pregnant in 2002, when I was working in the operating room. I am too busy to touch the ground every day. My colleagues laughed at me and even took time to throw up morning sickness. Everyone took care of me, but I was so busy that everyone came over like this. Walking is always a trot, and when you are nervous, you will ignore your physical discomfort.

The meal was delivered by the canteen, and we all took turns to eat it. After I get pregnant, everyone will let me eat first. After months of intense work in the morning, except for nausea and fatigue at noon, I have no appetite at all, just like a dog (there is no derogatory meaning here, just describing the state at that time), panting, drinking some water, taking time to rest and meeting the test in the afternoon. Many times I can't get off work on time at night, and the night shift is worth seven months of pregnancy.

I was still busy in the operating room the day before caesarean section. I took part in rescuing patients at night and then slept in the duty room. The next morning, I felt abdominal pain and climbed onto the operating table for caesarean section.

Looking back now, I don't feel wronged. In my opinion, pregnancy and childbirth are normal physiological reactions, not pathological. Although we need to be taken care of, I think there will be a lot of disappointment if we often feel that we must be treated specially.

My mother-in-law never wants to cook for me, nor does my mother, and I don't think they should cook for me. During confinement, my mother came for half a month, and my mother-in-law was always there, but she couldn't take care of the children and cook very well. After my mother came home, my daughter bathed herself twice a day, and it was not easy to squat by caesarean section. So I took a high stool and put the washbasin on it, and washed myself standing up.

I don't think my mother-in-law owes me, because I know that she is like this. She didn't mean to take good care of me. She didn't cook at home, so it was really difficult for her to cook soup and stir fry. Later, I cooked by myself, and my mother-in-law wrote a list to buy food every day. My husband will buy more vegetables when he has time. As long as he is free, he will definitely cook for me, and my father-in-law will come and stew a chicken for me every once in a while. My mother-in-law went back when my child was two years old. Although the child has been waiting for us to pick her up in grandpa's reception room, I still thank my mother-in-law. In order to help us take care of the children, she separated from my father-in-law for two years. My family drives an hour to my mother-in-law's house. In my opinion, they have no obligation to help us with our children.

At that time, we didn't have the conditions to ask a nanny to have a new moon, but among our colleagues, the school teachers were very helpful. The children of our colleagues in the hospital always have no time to answer. As long as colleagues are free, they often pick up a few, which is really bad. The teacher will arrange a teacher for our children.

Therefore, I think it's better to have someone in charge now. If no one is in charge, you can hire someone. If the economic pressure is great, I personally think that we can postpone the birth plan and don't rush to have children in order to complete the task. Now the pressure of life and work is greater than before, and emotional instability during pregnancy is easy to collapse.

Personal point of view.

It's really nice to see many people complaining about their mother-in-law.

I have a very good mother-in-law, who took good care of me from the moment she knew I was pregnant.

18 national day, I learned that I was pregnant in my hometown and went back to work in the city. My mother-in-law is here, and my father-in-law is in his hometown, because there is a 90-year-old grandmother to take care of at home.

My mother-in-law and I are very worried about going to work for two days. My mother-in-law suggested that I resign. I think the company is too far away from home, and its belly will get bigger and bigger in the future. It takes an hour to drive, so I resigned reluctantly. I work on weekends, with five insurances and one gold, and my salary is about 10 thousand. I can only sacrifice myself for the next generation.

After nine months of pregnancy, my mother-in-law contracted all the housework every day and tried to make three meals a day. Sometimes you should use your mobile phone to check whether pregnant women can eat before buying food and cooking. He left the food to me and her son. I know it's not that she doesn't like it, and I will deliberately say that I don't want to eat it. I can't finish it. Save some for her.

There were more than 20 days of morning sickness in the first three months, and every day was night. After vomiting, rinsing, eating dinner as usual, and not picky about food when pregnant. I eat whatever my mother-in-law does. Tell her what I want to eat, and she will cook it for me, but she won't learn to do it online. Very happy.

Mother-in-law cooked and cooked us a delicious meal. My husband and I are spoiled, especially my husband, who does nothing at home.

My mother-in-law is retired, in her fifties, a typical housewife, super cautious and likes to worry.

As for me, I don't care about anything, and I belong to a superior attitude when the sky falls. We don't agree on some things. Now that you have a baby, many ways and means are ambiguous and you can only accommodate each other.

I am very grateful to my mother-in-law for taking care of me. Listening to her saying that she was busy with pregnancy and confinement, her mother-in-law, my grandmother, almost ignored her. In the late pregnancy, she slipped on a piece of yam skin in the kitchen and gave birth to my husband more than seven months later. At that time, she suffered too much and had to work hard to bring up my husband. She hates her mother-in-law. She is a kind person and won't do anything unfilial. But they are still very filial to their grandmother. I had a crush on my husband, and one of them was his family style.

Facts have proved that my choice is right. I am an easy-going person myself.

Thanks to my mother-in-law's hard work over the past year, three meals a day, all kinds of housework, and keeping the house in good order.

My whole pregnancy was like a roller coaster. Why? Look at me slowly.

It has been more than 40 days since I knew I had it, and it was not until more than 60 days that I really put my heart down, because I had two B-ultrasound, the first time I only had gestational sac, and the second time I had fetal heart buds, so I was relieved.

About two and a half months later, one day I told my husband that I might throw up and I wouldn't have a good meal for a few days.

As a result, I began to vomit within a week. Then suddenly vomiting struck, water and rice were not touched, and life was doubted. I remember that during the Chinese New Year, that is, the New Year's Eve, other people's families were reunited, and my husband and I were in the hospital, and he accompanied me to infusion.

After the blood transfusion, we flew directly to my mother's house. I couldn't eat normally until I was four and a half months old, but I still couldn't smell the oil smoke.

So, in the first stage of my pregnancy, I didn't eat much. My mother serves me when I can eat.

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I went home after the fourth and a half months, and my husband greeted me with dinner.

You can say try not to repeat it within a week. I remember I was very good at eating, especially at six or seven months.

Husband's cooking level is also improving, usually two dishes and one soup or three dishes at a time, at most four dishes and one soup at a time. It is the picture below.

My stomach is full, too. I can't stand myself. I can really eat.

So, in the second stage, my husband brought me rice.

In the third trimester, my husband was afraid of an accident, so he took my mother-in-law and went back and forth. Later, he came back and waited on me alone until I was alive.

Because I'm from the south, I can't get used to my mother-in-law's cooking, so I try to let my husband do it.

In a blink of an eye, the baby will be four months in ten days, and now the mother-in-law has been helping to take care of the baby.

I want to say that both mother and mother-in-law should be grateful for their service.

My husband is a soldier and his home is from other places, so he still lives in his parents' home after marriage. I really didn't feel any inconvenience when I was pregnant. I used to weigh 95 kg, and I will give birth soon 1 14 kg. I don't know why I never have morning sickness and edema. Everything is normal except that it feels a little inconvenient to bend over to pick up things. Our unit gets off work at 4: 30, my mother is a primary school teacher, and they get off work at 5: 30. My unit is close to home, and it takes only ten minutes to walk home, so until the day before I gave birth, I still cooked for the whole family normally. My mother usually cooks eggs with milk and bread for breakfast. I eat them in the canteen at noon and I only cook dinner.

I also brushed my teeth, washed my face, washed my feet and washed my hair for the next month. The father was seriously ill in hospital before the full moon of the child. My mother went to the hospital to take care of my father, and my husband went out to shoot. Then I washed the baby's diaper with cold water and went out to buy food. I work like a normal person.

Now I'm in my fifties, and I haven't found any sequelae. I grew up drinking ice water all year round, and even milk has been chilled in the refrigerator, and now it is. And I don't belong to the kind of person who looks strong, but looks a little sick, but I really don't know why I didn't feel any difference between pregnancy and confinement. I have never been to the hospital except when I gave birth to a child. Don't take intravenous drip even if you have a cold and fever. I just take some medicine. I don't buy expensive medicine yet. I usually eat small packages of vitamin C Yinqiao tablets or Huoxiang Zhengqi tablets. My only problem is hereditary hypotension, and sometimes I feel a little dizzy.

I don't think it's natural to be like me It's better to maintain it, but there's no need to be too delicate.

I am from the countryside, and my daughter-in-law has to do farm work when she is pregnant. Because the kitchen needs wooden boards, someone saw wooden boards on the mountain, and the daughter-in-law who was pregnant for six months insisted on helping to carry some. When she went back, she went downhill and couldn't see the road under her feet. One accidentally slipped, sat heavily on the ground, rested for a while, got up and continued to carry the board.

At night, she said that she had a little abdominal pain and her lower body was a little red. It's late at night, and she is far from the health center. The next morning, I took her to the health center by bike. The doctor listened with a stethoscope and said it was nothing serious. I prescribed some Chinese medicine, took a few injections of progesterone, rested for a few days, and gradually got better. Also because of worry, I often put my ear on my daughter-in-law's growing belly to listen to the movement of the fetus, and sometimes I can hear the crying of the children inside. I'm afraid few people know that an unborn child will cry in the mother's womb. My daughter-in-law can't hear me and laughs at my nonsense. I said it was true.

As for the cooking mentioned by the subject, these are easy jobs and can't be tired. Exercise is good for both pregnant women and fetuses. Don't think that you can't do anything when you are pregnant.

My mother-in-law never cooked me a meal from pregnancy to birth. Yes, I will go back to my husband's house and cook for his family.

My mother-in-law doesn't cook, she doesn't wash diapers for her grandson, and her sister-in-law cooks for me. I wash the baby's diapers myself. I started cooking before the second month.

Why not? My mother-in-law is lazy and doesn't want to do housework She just likes to sit quietly.

My father-in-law served my mother-in-law when he was alive, and she bought it for her mother-in-law at breakfast. The breakfast seller is just outside the gate and doesn't want to walk a few steps.

When my father-in-law died, my brother-in-law made it clear that my mother-in-law would not live in his house. My mother-in-law felt ashamed to come to my house again, so she crustily skin of head to disturb the second girl. She thought that the second girl was still the kind-hearted person who had paid for her family in those years.

Because the second girl is also very disappointed with her mother, people live in four rooms and two halls, but let her live in a nursing home.

From pregnancy to childbirth is the most uncomfortable time in a woman's life, especially for a woman who reacts strongly. Only she knows the crime. Both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be considerate, especially mother-in-law, and think more about daughter-in-law. Maybe your daughter-in-law will wait on you when you are old.

I gave birth to two children. The first one was brought by my mother-in-law and my father-in-law, and my mother came back for a week. During my mother's care, my mother-in-law was completely relieved to let my mother take care of her, but she was playing mahjong with peace of mind. Because my mother has also been in charge of business for a week and returned to other places (business is in other places), and she has been taken care of by her mother-in-law and her father-in-law for more than 20 days. In the first few days, her mother-in-law gave me lunch early and played mahjong at 2 pm. I was very hungry. I called her to ask if she could have something to eat again, but she said she was outside (playing mahjong). Don't ask where my husband has gone. At that time, my husband was simply a child who had not grown up. He eats, drinks and plays outside every day, and his mother-in-law is even more rampant in the back. He gave my diet to my father-in-law directly. You said it was inconvenient! When it is inconvenient to nurse and go to the toilet, the child has no one to help change the diaper, and no one to coax him when he cries. He just has to endure the pain of changing diapers and washing his ass. At that time, he shed tears involuntarily. Now my eyes are sore after watching the mobile phone for a while. I don't know why, once my mother-in-law cooked me a meal with Chili skin. I see how lively it is! I can only be speechless without washing the pot. Finally survived the first month!

The second child was an accident, but it was born anyway! Know that parents-in-law are like this! So I went directly to my grandmother's house (where my mother does business), and my mother helped me with all the children's things! After a relaxing month! This is my experience. ...

When you are pregnant, you cook for yourself and serve your husband three times a day.

I feel happier than my mother. Mom is pregnant and has to serve a family. I have to go out to work and do farm work when I am pregnant. Lack of medical care and medicine also gave birth to five or six children

It's the turn of this generation to be pregnant, just like being pregnant with a prince. Who needs to be served?

My colleague, the due date is February 4th. Still working now. It takes nearly an hour to commute with a big belly every day. Bring the dishes my husband cooked yesterday to the company to cook some rice for Chinese food every day.

Yesterday, she wrote a leave of absence. Including annual leave and maternity leave from 1 20th.

She said: If the rented house was not too far away from the company, she would have worked until the day she was born.

She is thirty years old this year. At the beginning of pregnancy, she cooked by herself. Her husband didn't cook until she was pregnant.

Both mother-in-law and mother are in Hunan.

Her in-laws will come to Shenzhen on 1 20th. I asked her: Why don't you have your own mother to wait on you?

It's hard to wait for the next month, she said. She doesn't want her mother to suffer. Her father has something to do in the village, and he doesn't want his parents to separate for her.

I said, didn't you say my mother-in-law was difficult to get along with?

She said, alas! I'm going to embarrass myself for my mother's sake!

It turned out that her mother was her father's brother who gave birth to three daughters, and all other uncles gave birth to sons. This was in the village at that time, and her mother was discriminated against and predicted. Said her parents, no son, old age is very miserable.

So the three sisters must be kind to their parents when they meet. ...

The topic is beside the point.

I like this colleague very much. He is both sensible and diligent. She is a company accountant. She has a lot of things to do at the end of the year and always runs to the bank with a big belly.

Let's get back to the point. Why can't you serve yourself when you are pregnant? Except for pregnancy, people who can't smell gas and lampblack are probably spoiled by their parents. They are not pregnant and can't cook (like my daughter). This is especially true when pregnant.

Actually, it's good for you to walk more when you are pregnant. It's good for the baby to get in touch with more people and do something.

When I am pregnant, I always cook by myself. Sometimes my husband will buy food at noon when it is convenient, but most of the time I take care of myself. Occasionally I go out to eat when I don't want to cook. My mother-in-law didn't come to cook for me at that time. She takes care of the second child's home. At that time, the child had just turned one week. My mother-in-law and father-in-law often come to see me, and once gave me hundreds of dollars to accept and let me buy whatever I want. It is said that the second daughter-in-law is responsible for cooking when she is pregnant, but I don't care about me when I am pregnant, because it is inconvenient for my mother-in-law to take care of the children, and my mother has been at work, because I have a younger brother who is unmarried, so my family has been trying to save money to work and buy a house, so I basically cook by myself when I am the boss. My mother-in-law will take more care of me when I am pregnant with a second child. Because pregnancy is sometimes inconvenient, my mother-in-law will take care of my boss. I think whether it is or not