Can you accept opening doors backwards?

Of course not. I think this is hard to change. Even if a man is willing to accept it in time, I think there are few people who are willing. After all, this is a deep-rooted concept of China people, and it is very difficult to change it.

In the past, the traditional marriage mode has always been that the man marries the woman, and the man's family should give a bride price and show his ability. If the economy is good, the girl he married will not be too bad, and then he will prepare a house as a wedding room and two people will get married. It seems natural for a man to marry a woman, but once the woman's economy is greater than the man's, it becomes a reversal.

Although today's young people are more and more enlightened, have a new concept of love, and are deliberately expelling the feudal ideas of the old society, they will not do something that involves principles or even makes people look down upon it.

It is a realistic thing to pour soup on the door in China, and pouring soup on the door is a delicate relationship between the two families. Generally, women's families with inverted doors are all only children, and their parents need to take care of them, so they will choose.

However, from the tradition of our country, you are still a man because you can't even give a man's home to your lover. So most men can't accept this kind of thing.

Boys who plug the door upside down basically have no face and dignity. From the moment the boy promised to take his son-in-law, his parents and ancestors had already lost face. Second, he has acquiesced to all the insults he will bear in the future.

For various reasons, dumping the soup is becoming a compromise choice in reality, but in China's traditional cultural concept, the man's psychology of dumping the soup is very depressed and lost.

The truth is cruel. No matter how weak a man is, he wants to be the backbone of his family. A man's social identity is based on this, and his son-in-law deprived him of this role, making him have no corresponding position in the family.

Overall, I can't accept it. At least in China, I don't think it's acceptable to leave the door wide open.