In recent years, the divorce rate in China is getting higher and higher. Is there any good way to reduce the divorce rate?

To reduce the divorce rate, we must find the crux. It is often said that economic reasons are only one aspect, and they are not the most important aspect. Because the economic and social problems we are experiencing now appeared in Japan as early as 20 years ago. But why don't they have such a high divorce rate? The key lies in the guidance of cultural consciousness and social morality. Japanese people drink a glass of wine when they get married, and newlyweds have to drink 339 times. Strengthen the awareness of husband-wife relationship through repeated actions. Once married, they will be responsible for each other to the end. As the founding country of Tusi culture, we have continued the wedding culture for three thousand years. At the wedding, the strict etiquette of the couple's toast has become today's teasing and frolicking. Especially under the misleading of the current bad host, handing a glass of wine has become handing a glass of water, which is not worthy of the name and self-deception. The solemn wedding turned into a farce. In fact, the life of newcomers begins in a self-deceiving cultural environment. When people lose the elements of morality, the legal system is often powerless. Therefore, it is not surprising that under the temptation of material things, couples divorce regardless of the length of marriage.

Therefore, I appeal: carry forward the traditional wedding, and the couple will have a drink ceremony. Restrict the relationship between husband and wife with morality, put a golden hoop spell on husband and wife, give yourself peace of mind, give children a guarantee and give family a warmth. If every newlywed tries to do this, why not reduce the divorce rate?

I think the reasons for the high divorce rate in China are:

(1) I am persistent, willful and not accommodating;

When you meet a small shield at home, you can't sit down calmly and solve it. You stick to yours and I stick to mine. No one gives in, which leads to the situation becoming more and more stiff and deepened over time.

(2) Emotional infidelity is unacceptable;

Due to the hedonism and the stimulating influence of various external environments, a few individuals pursue pleasure and indulge themselves, deviating from the main axis of family responsibility and love-loyalty. One party's cheating or the intervention of a third party is unacceptable to the other party, which leads to irreconcilable cover-up, thus disintegrating the family.

(3) Domestic violence cannot be alleviated;

With the rapid development of society, thoughts can't keep up with the times, which leads to the upgrading of some families and turns them into violent incidents. In the long run, families will be separated, and it will be difficult for husband and wife to live in peace and to be separated.

(four) family shielding can not be properly solved;

Due to the promotion between parents-in-law and prospective daughter-in-law, parents-in-law and prospective son-in-law, hostility cannot be turned into friendship, and the stalemate again and again becomes more and more troublesome, difficult to resolve and extreme.

Family is the cell of society. The divorce together is directly related to the harmony and stability of society, how precious it is for couples to get along, how hard it is to find love and how difficult it is for a family to reconcile. As the saying goes, "Everything is prosperous at home." It is not difficult to achieve permanent harmony in a family. The key is that couples should pay attention to the following points:

(a) mutual respect, not condescending;

Husband and wife are the most sincere feelings in the world, regardless of you and me. When encountering problems, leave room for each other. Don't think that I am who I am, so willful. Then why don't you go alone? Now that you are free, no one will stand in your way? So think about each other and your family. In any case, we should not disturb the happy life and harmonious and warm development environment, we should take the overall situation into consideration.

(2) Empathy, the problem is clear;

People often say that pots and pans are inevitably bumped. So is the relationship between husband and wife. After a long time, it is inevitable that there will be opinions, differences, arguments, quarrels and sparks. At this time, we should be calm. If we can put ourselves in others' shoes, this problem will be clearly demonstrated and solved. Empathy is a sobering agent that can dissolve the protective cover. If you make good use of it, you won't get into a dead end.

(3) have something to say, regardless of other things;

When a husband and wife have an argument about something, talk about it. Don't dig up all the old accounts, let alone involve others. The more you talk, the more endless it is. This not only does not help, but enlarges the problem and makes it more complicated and inseparable. Fighting between husband and wife is not necessarily a bad thing. It is also a good thing to make things clear and solve them. Don't entangle, just take it to heart.

(4) Be generous and be patient with each other;

A quarrel between husband and wife should not end in victory. I believe you are very close, bear with each other and move on. What's the point of making a fuss Try to calm yourself down until both sides calm down and there is no knot that can't be solved.

(5) mutual respect and love, lasting forever;

A family must always have a sense of wholeness and overall situation. As a man, don't be a mother-in-law, turn hostilities into friendship, be serious about big things and be careless about small things. Less male chauvinism, more romance and care. As a woman, don't chatter. There should be less blame and more warmth. Learn from each other's strengths, and your life will flourish. Remember one thing, the main theme of the family is "home and everything".

The most shameful culprit of the long-term high divorce rate is that they are influenced by western culture and treat their families as children's play and their feelings as gambling. The family formed by such ideas will not last long. The older generation, even the ancients of the previous generation, can be faithful to each other because their deep thought is that good women don't marry two. The traditional virtues of women in China are vividly reflected in them. Although a bit feudal, it makes sense. Finally, advise those couples who intend to divorce, for the sake of children, divorce should be cautious and don't regret it for a long time. I wish all the couples in the world kindness, friendship and unity.

Germany is divorced! All property belongs to the woman! Give the woman living expenses every month! If the woman has never remarried! So the man gave it to him until he died.

Feminism is too high. Look at women's rights in Southeast Asia. Women are high in status and demanding. In the past, they had to be kept in pig cages. Now they like to eat. No matter how good a man is, he can't stand the temptation of women.

I don't think there can be infidelity in marriage. I cheated in marriage to be a chicken and duck, and I was put in prison. Cheating is actually the same as telling a chicken and a duck. Aren't they all surnames? Who says cheating a woman isn't about money? Some people talk to old people who are older than their fathers. What do you think this is for?

Solutions to reduce the divorce rate:

1, fish begins to stink at the head! The problem lies in Shangliang, but due to its status and current social background, it is necessary to strengthen the supervision, management and modification of Shangliang by the legal system in order to achieve people's satisfaction.

2. Rectify the media orientation. Comparing the exposure data of science and technology experts and comedians, we can know what the media is doing.

3. Improve the wealth of ordinary people, so that ordinary people will no longer be trapped by the daily livelihood economy such as employment, schooling and medical treatment. Economic poverty is the main reason for the instability of civilian marriage. Remember that we are talking about civilians here, of course, not the kind of people that everyone knows.

4, raise the threshold of marriage bankruptcy, establish a system of accountability, and put some people with clear responsibilities in prison, including parties other than the marriage parties.

5. Moral purification is the overall situation, a people's war and a people's movement, and local improvement will not work.

This scheme is not feasible, please uncheck it.

The national moral education is insufficient, there is no good national belief, and there is only money in mind. More and more people treat marriage as a joke and lack dedication. They just want to get married and don't want to pay.

The problem of divorce is the depravity of women in China, the openness of women's thoughts in China, and the problem of more men than women in China! ! ! Grass, if there are more women than men, I think divorce is a ghost.

Nowadays, young people have just got married and announced that they will be supported by their grandfather after giving birth. They are busy with their own careers. Without separation, they can barely see that others are richer than their husbands and can meet their own consumption, so they don't have to leave their children to have fun. When you are old, you can't earn money, and you will have less happiness for your grandson. The poorer the children, the less education they get, and the more they feel inferior.

At present, the divorce rate remains high, and I think there are several ways to reduce it: First, government departments attach importance to it, and civil affairs departments adopt the method of delaying and persuading divorce proceedings. Second, there are divorce mediation offices for residents in cities and towns, and mediators in rural areas. Try to solve the problem in the bud and solve it at the grassroots level. Third, they should educate people ideologically, the harm of divorce to families, children and society, and educate them from social morality and traditional concepts.