Why did Daiyu not get angry when the Lady Dowager gave Baoqin a gift, but Baochai was jealous of Baoqin?

Baoqin is a very lucky girl in A Dream of Red Mansions. When she arrived at Jia's house, she was immediately liked by everyone. Mrs. Jia not only asked Mrs. Wang to recognize her adopted daughter at once, but also asked Baoqin to live with her. This is the treatment that Baoyu and Daiyu can get. When Baoqin came to Jiafu, her life was complete. Everyone loved her sister except Jia Mu and Mrs. Wang.

I don't know why. Anyway, Baoqin is very popular with Grandmother Jia. In winter, Jia even specially gave Baoqin a "fur", which is made of wild duck hair and is very precious.

The old lady liked Baoyu and didn't give it to him. Now she gave it to Baoqin. Then Baochai and Daiyu showed two different attitudes. Baochai was jealous at once when she knew that Baoqin was loved by the Jia family, but Daiyu was not angry, but she had a good relationship with Baoqin. Why?

First, Daiyu sincerely regards Baoqin as her younger sister and doesn't mind that Grandmother Jia loves her.

Before Daiyu and Baochai reconciled, everyone would feel uncomfortable with Baochai's praise. But after the two made up, Daiyu regarded Baochai as her sister and her family as her own. Daiyu called Aunt Xue "Mom", regarded Baoqin as her sister, and even called her "Sister" directly without any name. Daiyu loves Baoqin herself. Why would she mind Jia's dressing Baoqin?

Daiyu has never been a really stingy girl, and her small temper is only aimed at Baoyu. Grandchildren are all around Jia Mu, who gave them many good things, but Dai Yu never complained. Even Baochai suggested that Daiyu could eat bird's nest to recuperate when she was in poor health, but Daiyu refused to tell the grandmother that this was Daiyu's understanding, so she would not be angry and jealous of Baoqin because of a dress.

Second, Baochai thinks everything is better than Baoqin, but later, Jia prefers her to be jealous of Baoqin, which is human nature, because Baochai stayed in Jiafu for a long time. Although Jia said in front of everyone that she was better than their four daughters, Jia never really liked it, and she never gave her such good clothes as Qiu Fu. However, when Bao Qin is new here, Jia has an extraordinary affection for her, even worse than her, and Baochai will have complaints in her heart.

Maybe this is that there is no harm without comparison. In the past, Grandmother Jia liked Daiyu very much, and Baochai can be understood as a family reason. But this time, Bao Qin, the daughter of Xue family, came to Jia's house. Jia likes Bao Qin so much that she obviously doesn't like her. Moreover, the Lady Dowager patted Amber and told her not to ask Shu Baoqin out, so Baochai's jealousy deepened.

In everyone's eyes, Baochai is poetic and good at dealing with people. However, Jia just doesn't like her. She only likes Baoqin who knows nothing like a child. Baochai will be very unwilling in her heart. Obviously, she is better than Baoqin, but not as good as Baoqin. Baochai spent a lot of effort to get to the point where everyone likes it today, but Baoqin won everyone's love with no effort. How can she not be jealous?

Third, compared with Daiyu, Baochai is really jealous of Baoqin. Otherwise, with her steady personality, she wouldn't say anything jealous of Baoqin, but she can say it directly from another side, which also shows that there will be no gap between their sisters, but Baochai's jealousy is just a joke. Daiyu never said anything about Baoqin taking clothes, which shows that she is really not jealous. This is because she has a good relationship with Baoqin, so she doesn't mind.

Baochai and Daiyu have always been very extreme girls with two personalities. In people's eyes, Baochai has always been tolerant and generous, while Daiyu is mean and stingy, but this is our initial understanding. When something really happens, the contrast between Baochai and Daiyu comes out, and the two are just the opposite.

This is not to say that either of them is bad, but that this is their different style of doing things. Baochai received a very traditional education from an early age, that is, she needed delicacy and consideration everywhere. In order to help her mother share the housework, she put away her naughty personality and let herself grow up as soon as possible.

So in this process, what she needs is constant change, even gradually losing herself. Everything can be tolerated and understood. This is the source of her harmonious personality, but she is often not good. Baoqin is her sister and a close person, so she can speak her mind like this. Otherwise, Baochai's jealousy will remain in her heart, and Baochai's life is not easy at all.

Daiyu grew up in a relaxed environment. She is the apple of her parents' eye, and her family keeps her as a boy. Naturally, there are fewer rules and regulations for many girls. Later, when she came to Jia Mu's side, Jia Mu gave Dai Yu more love, and the comfortable living atmosphere in Grand View Garden also gave Dai Yu room to grow freely. Therefore, there will be willfulness and a generous integration in Dai Yu's character, because she doesn't care about these external things at all, so she won't be jealous of Baoqin.

Generally speaking, the different attitudes of Daiyu and Baochai in getting clothes from Baoqin can fully show their personalities. Daiyu is generous, Baochai is stingy. She always tells Daiyu that she is not satisfied, and Baochai always hides it in her heart. When something makes Baochai hide, she will break out, but Daiyu never takes it to heart when she has finished speaking. Just getting a little gift from the old lady through Baoqin, we can see their different personalities. However, this is only a small matter. They are all excellent girls, and it is normal to have different personalities and ways of dealing with people.