A Qiong Yao heroine whose husband cheated on her continuously and was defrauded of 8 million yuan, why did she insist on not getting a divorce?

From today's perspective, Grandma Qiong Yao's works do have some incorrect views, but in the 1970s and 1980s, her works were highly sought after.

In addition to the popular plot of desperate love, her works have also made countless handsome men and beautiful women popular.

In the 1970s and 1980s, Qiong Yao's romance dramas almost supported most of Taiwan's entertainment industry, and they are also considered to be indispensable.

Especially Brigitte Lin and Liu Xuehua in their early days, their appearance, temperament and eyes really fascinated a generation.

In the 1990s, Brigitte Lin gradually entered the Hong Kong film market, Liu Xuehua gradually reduced the frequency of filming, and another stunning actress appeared.

She has a very distinctive look, and she can be recognized at a glance even in a crowd.

Her eyes are big and smart, her mouth is small, and her nose is straight. Her every frown, every smile, every cry and every anger is vivid and lovable.

Her performance is vivid and real, her temperament is fresh and refined, especially when she cries, it is really touching and heartbreaking.

She is the actor of "Wan Jun": Yu Xiaofan.

Looking carefully at Yu Xiaofan's appearance, from face shape to smile, he is somewhat similar to Brigitte Lin, but there is a big difference in their eyes. Brigitte Lin's is more heroic, while Yu Xiaofan's is more charming.

Yu Xiaofan has developed motor skills since he was a child. In middle school, he already joined the school basketball team with his height of 170cm. Because of his outstanding appearance and appearance, he was spotted by a crew called "Applause".

Subsequently, she was spotted by the discerning Grandma Qiong Yao, who asked her to play "Wan Jun".

"A girl named Wanjun, her story is intriguing..."

Whenever this song sounds, audiences across the country think of Yu Xiaofan. Face, lingering.

Later, Yu Xiaofan started another close cooperation with Grandma Qiong Yao, from "Three Flowers" to "Wangfu Cliff", which opened up his popularity on both sides of the Taiwan Strait.

Between 1993 and 2000, Yu Xiaofan collaborated with Zhang Chenguang, Qin Han, Ma Jingtao, Lin Ruiyang, Weng Jiaming, etc. Her outstanding appearance, temperament and eyes have all stayed in their hearts. In the hearts of all the great male gods.

When she was at her most popular, Ma Jingtao would come to her house every day to play guitar and sing to "seduce" her. Lin Ruiyang also frequently gave her various small gifts to express his goodwill to her, which was unparalleled.

Women are always contradictory. The more they are in pursuit of someone, the less they care about her. Instead, they like those who are not very interested in her.

Both Ma Jingtao and Lin Ruiyang are romantics, but their daily romance makes Yu Xiaofan very insecure.

Our heroine likes pragmatic men. When she was filming "Wangfu Cliff", she worked with the leading actor Weng Jiaming for the first time, and she was impressed by him just because he sent her a few hot drinks in the room. water.

The filming location of "Wangfu Cliff" is in Inner Mongolia, which is very difficult. The hotel where I stay often has water outages, especially at night. It is common to have no hot water. Weng Jiaming took the trouble to provide it to Yu Xiaofan Hot water made Yu Xiaofan excited.

Look, how simple it is, the gift of singing is really not as good as a few pots of hot water.

After the two got along, everyone on the crew knew about it, and Grandma Qiong Yao also knew about it. For the sake of the actor's image, the company and Qiong Yao's grandma firmly disagreed with their relationship, and even said, "If you date, we will never cooperate again" to break them up.

That’s how people are, the more people object, the more motivated I become!

It’s okay now, Yu Xiaofan and Weng Jiaming completely broke up with Grandma Qiong Yao and went back to their respective homes to find their respective mothers.

Since then, Yu Xiaofan and Weng Jiaming have established their own business.

However, Yu Xiaofan still has to thank Grandma Qiong Yao. If it weren’t for her, no one would probably know Yi Wanjun.

After the two left Qiong Yao, they have been looking for other acting opportunities. Yu Xiaofan was lucky because she was already very popular at the time, while Weng Jiaming was finished and stopped before she became popular.

From the beginning of their relationship to after they got married, the woman always earned more and the man earned less.

During the period from 1993 to 2000, the focus of Weng Jiaming's life was basically all on Yu Xiaofan, and his career was suspended. Although he occasionally did business, he was not very good at it.

In mid-2000, Yu Xiaofan once took a plane to go out for work. The turbulence encountered on the way was very dangerous. The two of them realized that life is impermanent and they should cherish the people in front of them while they are alive, so they decided to get married.

At this time, Yu Xiaofan became pregnant, and the two began to wait for the arrival of a new life.

In May 2001, their son was born.

Because Weng Jiaming didn’t have too many acting appointments, he became a baby daddy, washing diapers and taking care of the children at home every day.

After the baby was one month old, the two held a make-up wedding. At that time, Yu Xiaofan's figure had not fully recovered, but he looked quite happy.

At this moment, the two of them should still be in love and happy.

Weng Jiaming also swore on the spot: "From now on, I will take good care of Yu Xiaofan for the rest of my life and will never let her suffer."

A few years later, he used these words "Papa" slapped myself in the face, which was very funny.

However, in order to please Yu Xiaofan, Weng Jiaming secretly bought a house in Shanghai for her.

However, some media mercilessly slapped her in the face and asked: "Who made the money to buy the house?"

After giving birth to the child, Yu Xiaofan temporarily retired from the entertainment industry and began to concentrate on taking care of her children. child.

One of the couple always has to go out to work so that the family can survive. Only then did Weng Jiaming start to go out to take on roles.

Since his comeback in 2000, he has basically appeared in front of the audience in one drama a year. He has worked with Andy Lau, Chen Zihan, Zhou Haimei, Yan Kuan, Anita Yuen, etc. However, most of them are supporting roles, and there are no outstanding characters, so they don't leave a deep impression on people.

In fact, since their marriage, Weng Jiaming and Yu Xiaofan have been in a strange circle of me taking care of the children and you filming, and you taking care of the children and I filming.

It has become the norm for them to spend less time together and more time apart. After all, they have to earn money for milk powder for their children.

However, this living situation paved the way for their future marriage.

In the seven years since Yu Xiaofan passed away, she gave birth to another daughter. For six or seven years, Yu Xiaofan has been caring for her husband and raising her children at home, and has been a good mother. This is really worthy of praise.

Weng Jiaming had already filmed several movies at that time, but he was never very popular and the pay was not high. Yu Xiaofan used some of his savings to let him go into business. Weng Jiaming has always been a good man in the eyes of the public. .

(Emphasis added) During this period, the two also agreed that they would never divorce. Once one party filed for divorce, it would be equivalent to giving up the custody of the child.

In fact, this agreement is quite "silly". What if one party cheats and the other party wants a divorce?

Then who gave the child to the cheating party? Or to the party who wants a divorce?

This question will always be unsolvable.

It was not until 2007 that Yu Xiaofan returned to filming and took on roles in "Tears of a Wife" and "The True Colors of a Rich Man".

Since then, Yu Xiaofan has officially changed from "Qiong Yao's heroine" to "miscellaneous female supporting characters".

Despite this, her role is still very important, and her pay is much higher than that of Yung Jiaming. After all, she has her previous fame.

After all, there are few performance opportunities in Taiwan, so Yu Xiaofan had no choice but to move to the mainland to take on roles. The couple still lived in separate places more often than not.

Since Yu Xiaofan’s comeback, Weng Jiaming has officially become a representative figure of a nanny, taking care of his two children at home.

A reporter interviewed Weng Jiaming: "Yu Xiaofan has been in the Mainland for a long time, will he worry about her 'stealing food'?"

Weng Jiaming was not worried at all, saying bluntly that she looked down on the "Tu Li" in the Mainland. "Country" actor.

Yu Xiaofan said that he is not worried about Weng Jiaming "stealing" because he trusts him very much and he has two children to take care of and has no time to fall in love with others.

Unexpectedly, within two years, while Yu Xiaofan was busy filming "In the Rain" and "Who Understands the Heart of a Daughter", Weng Jiaming was caught "stealing"!

In mid-2009, Weng Jiaming was first photographed holding hands with a flight attendant named Su while going out, and was also photographed going back to his residence to spend several hours alone together.

Not two days later, Weng Jiaming was photographed entering a hotel with another hot girl to book a room. The photo of the two hugging each other as they entered the hotel was taken by a reporter and made the front page.

Taiwanese media ridiculed Weng Jiaming: "He stole two women in a row and spent more time meeting each other than seeing his children."

The stewardess Weng Jiaming cheated on is also quite famous in Taiwan and is a famous social butterfly. , had scandals with many wealthy businessmen.

The news about Weng Jiaming taking Yu Xiaofan’s hard-earned money to “steal food” was overwhelming.

Yu Xiaofan, who was filming in the Mainland, found out that her husband had cheated on her husband after seeing the report. Not only did he cheat on her, but he cheated on her twice in a row. This was a huge blow.

The relationship between husband and wife after 20 years faces huge challenges, and whether they get together or break up has become a topic of concern to movie fans.

After the incident broke out, Weng Jiaming was also very panicked and immediately flew to Yu Xiaofan to admit his mistake and explain.

He claimed that he and stewardess Su were just friends, and that he and the other woman just lent each other their cars.

This excuse was so poor that the onlookers didn’t believe it. I wonder if Yu Xiaofan believed it?

Although Yu Xiaofan was hit hard, he did not lose his mind. After listening to Weng Jiaming's explanation, he asked him to return to Taiwan to take care of the children first, and they could discuss future matters after she was calmer.

In this way, Weng Jiaming returned to Taiwan in despair, leaving Yu Xiaofan alone in the mainland heartbroken.

What is certain is that Weng Jiaming does not want a divorce and still cares about this family and Yu Xiaofan, otherwise he would not go all the way to the mainland to explain and apologize to Yu Xiaofan.

Yu Xiaofan also has a very sad feeling in his heart. Imagine that the man you have slept with for 20 years suddenly uses the same method to sleep with someone else. How could he not feel disgusted?

While filming in the Mainland, Yu Xiaofan was persuading himself. It wasn’t until he couldn’t help but think about his children that he called Weng Jiaming, and the two had a chance to continue the conversation.

After filming and returning to Taiwan, it was natural for the two to separate. Even the two children at home could feel the low pressure at home and did not dare to mess around.

Yu Xiaofan tried his best to control his emotions, but occasionally he couldn't help but sarcastic towards Weng Jiaming.

Weng Jiaming is very smart at this time. No matter what you do to me, I will accept everything as ordered. Just calm down.

At this time, although both husband and wife were very unhappy, they both made a tacit agreement not to mention divorce.

Weng Jiaming did not want a divorce; Yu Xiaofan thought about it, but held it back for the sake of the children;

Both of them were waiting for time to ferment and for this matter to pass.

The house leaked and it rained all night. Just when Yu Xiaofan had not recovered from the blow of her husband's two consecutive derailments, another unfortunate thing happened.

I don’t know if it’s because the scammer is too clever, or because Yu Xiaofan was hurt by love and his IQ dropped, but he was defrauded of 8 million yuan by the Internet!

It is said that Yu Xiaofan received a call from someone claiming to be the "Shanghai Public Security Bureau", saying that there was an abnormality in her account and that she was suspected of fraud. On the grounds that the account needed to be supervised, she was asked to transfer 8 million yuan.

For some traffic stars like AB, Xiaolu, Miss Cai, etc., 8 million may not be a big deal, but for Yu Xiaofan, who is over 50 years old, this is many years of hard-earned money. .

After transferring it, Yu Xiaofan was murmuring in his heart before telling his husband Weng Jiaming. When Weng Jiaming heard this, he thought it was over. He had encountered an online fraud. The couple immediately called the police, but it was too late.

Yu Xiaofan was hit hard, physically and mentally injured, and had no one to rely on except Weng Jiaming.

So Yu Xiaofan once again became dependent on and grateful to Weng Jiaming.

8 million has been lost and can never be recovered, but their marriage was a blessing in disguise and they regained their warmth.

Since ancient times, "losing money to avoid disaster" has been a common saying among ordinary people. For the marriage of Weng Jiaming and Yu Xiaofan, losing wealth may be the price for them to regain happiness.

After the two reconciled, they moved to Shanghai to settle together, deliberately avoiding people and things in Taiwan, hoping to start over.

The two have been with each other for nearly 30 years. Although there were twists and turns and pains, there was also unforgettable happiness and joy. They also have two lovely children. It is human nature not to divorce.

To this day, Yu Xiaofan is still taking on some mother-like roles. Although she is no longer the protagonist, her style can still be glimpsed.

I only hope that in the future, she can watch the clouds clear and see the moonlight, and live a happy old life with Weng Jiaming.