I want to hook up with old classmates, but I don’t have many contacts. How to start?

A man or a woman?

If you are a woman, I can teach you how to chat correctly with the girl you like.

Topic cutting: This is usually a shortcoming of singles. They don’t all know how to cut into the topic when they are together: this is where you need to use the file trick to talk about topics she is interested in.

Analyze behavior: observe expressions, demeanor, and micro-movements (these behaviors will be presented in the mind notes at the end)

Capture behavior: Next, capture these expressions and discover the goddess’s focus. You can add a little Your own evaluation (of course you won’t evaluate these, you should search them in Zhihu while chatting)

Testing the bottom line: During a fighting competition, if the opponent does not understand the situation, most masters will test it. Punch your opponent to understand the opponent's strength; the same goes for picking up girls, tentatively bring up ambiguous topics to see her acceptance and bottom line of you (use this trick with caution)

Listen more and talk less : Guide the goddess to talk to understand the other person's point of view, such as: "Ah! You also like "Peach Blossom Man vs. Chrysanthemum Monster". It's quite funny. What plots do you like in it?"

Find*** Same point: After guiding the other person to speak according to the previous instruction, repeat it, and then say, "I think so too, and I can't help but laugh every time I see it."

Humor: It is best to speak humorously, If you don't have a sense of humor and you don't look humorous, don't force yourself. It doesn't matter if you pretend to be a man. Maybe the goddess is good at it.

Appropriate praise: A man will die for his confidant, and a woman will look good for her who pleases her. The key point is to find the right point to praise, and be careful not to flatter, repeat, this is not flattery!

Let her know that you are single: The main thing is to let your goddess know that you are single. Be careful not to talk too much and keep it mysterious.

Follow the above rules, I think you should have a pleasant chat!

Consolidate success

You can’t pick up a girl just by chatting, because you are not me.

Chat tool: I think you should add her QQ to capture the online and offline time and master the rules.

Mature: After mastering the rules, you continue to chat with her at a certain point. You can make an appointment with her during the period. If you can't make an appointment, continue chatting and don't give up cultivating her habit of chatting with you at that time

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Play hard to get: Once you develop a habit, it's like taking drugs. It's quite uncomfortable. Suddenly, you stop talking to her one day, and then stop talking to her the next day, and the third day...

Let The other person has a sense of crisis: getting close to a girl next to her (must be inferior to her) (why the girl next to her? If not the girl next to her, who would you act as a fool to), making her jealous, once a person feels that he is being evacuated somewhere? It will feel... like a child's favorite toy being robbed. At this time, her possessiveness comes out;

Taking advantage of the opponent's weakness: In this case, she will start to pay attention to you, chat with you, and Chat with her, and then seize the time to confess;

Let her make a decision while hesitating: She will probably hesitate to confess, so stick to your position and let her tell you immediately, don't give her a chance to think about it (why? Think for yourself)

Emotional signs of weakness: In the confession, you may be asked: "Why are you so close to other girls?" Then you say: "I want to understand you through her, I don't know Am I not good enough? I want to know what kind of person you like, and I have to work hard to be that kind of person." With the expression of the love saint, one hit is sure to hit! (I have taken this into consideration for you, and it would be useless if you don’t like it!)

Create an atmosphere and understand the meaning behind it:

Example:

WeChat chat

Female: “What are you doing?”

Male: “I’m chatting with you”

If you answer like this, you deserve it. You don’t have a girlfriend.

Correct answer: Girl: "What are you doing?"

Male: "I'm thinking of you"

This creates an atmosphere where girls ask you What are you doing? I don’t really want to know what you are doing. I just want to open up the topic. Please understand!

Okay, one final reminder: don’t hurt a woman just for the sake of her lower body!