Why work hard?

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Only by working hard can we have more choices.

I have seen such a joke on the Internet before, and I was deeply impressed:

In a famous school in China, the old professor didn't talk about profound philosophy in the first class, but only said a few seemingly nifty and meaningful words.

He said: "female classmate, you don't need to work hard, you just need to marry a good family." While the audience was shocked, he added: "Of course, how can you meet a better man if you don't work hard?" The students who can be admitted to our school should all be hard-working people. "

We don't care whether the joke is true or not. Uncle Mai thinks it can be summed up in one sentence: You work hard to have more choices.

In recent years, there has been a popular saying that "choice is greater than effort". If you make a wrong choice, your efforts will be in vain. It seems reasonable, but everyone ignores that this sentence must have a premise. You must first have a "choice". People who have no choice or only one choice have no "choice".

How can we have more choices? You must work very hard.

No matter those with good family, the second generation and the second generation, for most people, hard work is the only way for us to create choices. For those who have no choice, they can only make choices passively and have no freedom to choose actively.

No one is born to make the right choice for the first time, but successful people must constantly strive to adjust their choices.

Cai Kangyong said a passage:

/kloc-When I was 0/5 years old, I found it difficult to swim, so I gave up swimming. 18 years old, when someone you like asks you to swim, you have to say' I won't'. 18 years old, found English difficult and gave up English. At the age of 28, there is a great job that requires English, so you have to say' I can't'.

The more troublesome my early life is, the lazier I am to study, and the easier it is to miss the people and things I am interested in and the new scenery later.

Those who don't work hard are not qualified to talk about choice.

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People who really work hard are never anxious.

Last year, my cousin joined a book club.

When setting goals, he decided to read 50 books every year, with an average of one book per week. A few weeks ago, he punched in on time every day in the group, handed in all kinds of reading notes and mind maps, full of positive energy, peaceful and festive. But less than two months later, he decided to give up.

I asked him why he didn't continue studying. He said helplessly, you see, I have studied for so long, and I feel that I have not gained much?

I am angry and funny. It's only been a few days. Nowadays, young people are too impetuous and just want to take shortcuts.

So he said to him, if you keep going, it will definitely have an effect. Reading is a delicate process. You may not remember the last few books you read, but they will suddenly appear at a certain moment when you need them, just like a light. We often say that in your temperament, there are books you have read, roads you have traveled and people you have loved. This is a fact.

No matter what you do, you need to make long-term efforts. There is no quick solution, but you have accumulated a lot of money day after day.

Later, my cousin changed his mind and persisted for a year. People around him say that his temperament is obviously different, especially his confident talk.

In fact, many people are like this. When they first started doing something, they just wanted to take a shortcut, instead of sinking down and continuing to exert themselves. There is nothing wrong with their direction, but they are too eager to succeed. It always takes three minutes to do things.

We often talk about dreams, and our plans always run aground again and again. With the low efforts of most of us today, it is impossible to win talents.

The most important thing in today's society is anxiety. No matter what stage of your life you are in, we all have a deep sense of anxiety more or less.

Anxiety about health makes us pay attention to health. Anxious about knowledge, I bought many paid courses. I was anxious about my work and signed up for many training courses. Anxiety about the future makes us lose our inner peace?

What worries us is not that we don't work hard, but that those who are better than you work harder than you. Actually, it's not necessary There is no comparability between people. We can't simply measure the degree and intensity of our efforts with others.

All you have to do is know where your direction is, aim at the target and go step by step. In the process of doing it, constantly adjust your own ideas and stick to it until the last moment until you touch yourself.

People who really work hard never worry, because they have no time to worry.

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Try to be a better self.

Not long ago, a reader K told me his experience:

In his freshman year, K was an idle scum. Eat and sleep every day, and your grades are in a mess.

When I was a sophomore, I accidentally went to the study room to read. I fell in love with a goddess who studied French at first sight, but the goddess was so excellent that K chickened out.

So he began to study hard from the second semester of senior two, and his grades soared, entering the top of the department and winning a national scholarship. Later, I could have walked the graduate students in our school, but when I learned that Goddess wanted to go to Peking University and go to a better university anyway, I gave up graduate school. He began to study behind closed doors for half a year, and he was admitted to Fudan University.

Sometimes you can't choose who you meet. But what kind of way you can choose to deal with it, positive or negative, depends entirely on your attitude.

Everyone has a different lifestyle. Some people are enterprising, some people are indifferent to their ambitions, some people like ease, some people are brave in dedication, and there is no right or wrong.

But no matter which lifestyle you choose, if you want to stay in this society, you need to work very hard and become excellent. The meaning of hard work is not to surpass others, but to become a better self.

The challenges of life are everywhere, and efforts can enhance our risk against this world.

Only when we are strong enough can we protect our relatives and friends. Don't worry about your wallet when you see something you like. When the person you like appears, you can't lift your head with inferiority. My parents are old and their energy is not as good as before. You can clap your chest and say, I'm coming.

Why are we working so hard?

This passage in Divorce Lawyer is the best answer:

I am a serious person and work hard, so one day when I stand by the person I love, I can open my hand and hug him frankly, whether he is rich or nothing. I don't have to feel aloof if he is rich, and we won't be down and out if he is poor. This is the meaning of women's efforts.

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This is an era of excessive entertainment and hard work. In the eyes of many young people, efforts are useless, so "lazy cancer" runs rampant and they are too lazy to feel at ease.

People often tell me that hard work may not be successful, but I want to say that hard work will definitely make you a better yourself.

The Analects of Confucius said: "Take it, and you will get it; Take it, take it; If you take it, you will get nothing. "

This means that if a person sets a high goal, he may only achieve a moderate goal through hard work. And if you set a moderate goal, you may only achieve a low goal in the end. If you set it low from the beginning, I'm afraid you'll get nothing.

Only by working very hard can we have more choices. You may not get the best, but your harvest will not be too bad.

Efforts are not to catch up with others, but to surpass ourselves. Being a better self is a success in itself.

The harder you work, the luckier you are.

Time will not disappoint everyone who works hard. In the future, you will definitely appreciate yourself now!