Almost all great men have taught future generations to have ideals, but everyone in reality will tell you that "ideals are a joke"?

I think 80% of the pain in life comes from work. But I know that without a good job, 100% of the pain will come from lack of money.

So in the case of work and no money, I chose work. A sad joke, with a faint light of truth, really pierced my heart.

When we were very young, it was the best age to talk about the ideal life, and we always fantasized about giving ourselves one blueprint after another.

For example, I talked with my friends about many ideals:

Open a coffee shop,

Open a big bookstore,

Open the biggest shopping center,

Buy my parents a big house with a big back garden.

The column "My Ideal" in my classmate's book says to travel around the world.

However, when we grow up, our biggest dream is to get a raise and promotion. I used to want to make a lot of money for my parents, but now I buy them gifts to see the price, but I am reluctant to start;

The romantic wedding I dreamed of together turned others' into a red bomb and mine into a long list of expenses.

In my second year at CCTV, the national employment situation was extremely bleak. It is no exaggeration to say that CCTV is the place where students of the national journalism and communication department kneel.

According to common sense, if a newly graduated college student can receive the news that he has been hired by CCTV, he will faint with joy or turn around three times, which is considered restraint.

Ya Qin studied in Communication University of China. She was lucky enough to come to the top news media working system in China as an intern in her senior year, because she performed very well in all aspects.

Diligence, courage, hard work, colleagues praised her: You are simply not as good as the post-90s generation. This kind of praise made Ya Qin embarrassed to be happy about it.

Just like when you praise a Henan native and say that he is too beautiful to be like a Henan native, can people accept it gladly?

Ya Qin can always finish the tasks assigned to her quickly and well. With such good qualifications and such hard work, it just happens that our department is recruiting people. I told Ya Qin that we would consider keeping you, and you should prepare your resume. As long as the HR department passes, you will be our colleague after graduation.

But Ya Qin refused.

She said that her childhood dream was to be a good wife and mother. As a media worker, the working hours are too unstable. Although you don't have to punch in, it also means that you can't get off work on time.

She wants to find a job from nine to five, such as being a teacher and working in a state-owned enterprise. Because her boyfriend is busy in it, she hopes that he can eat her cooking when he comes home every day.

Virtuous and virtuous, what a scarce quality.

I should praise her.

But because she and I are alumni of the same school, and their qualifications are particularly good.

So I told her that the most important thing is not to let men eat first, but to let yourself eat well.

She said, yes, so I want to find an iron rice bowl. I don't want to take any risks and find a job that requires overtime.

I said: What is an iron rice bowl? Not that you have food in the company, but