Is it mysterious to talk less in the workplace? What kind of person will appear dignified?

The aura is a particularly powerful force that emanates from the inside out. This kind of power can make the audience fall for it. Is an attractive temperament, is a kind of wisdom, is a heartfelt strength. This force can't be faked, it is an invisible attraction like a magnetic field.

People with aura are born with confidence, which has nothing to do with whether their career is successful or not, and has nothing to do with how capable they are. They are born with a different potential trait, and they will naturally exude a charm wherever they go.

More often, the gas field is formed by the accumulation and refinement of various abilities of future generations.

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There is a proverb in the west. silence is golden. There is an old saying in China that it is too late to talk too little. The sky is not high, the ground is not thick, people are not angry, and water is not wormwood. "Tao Te Ching-Chapter 56"-Those who know don't speak, those who speak don't observe. A true wise man never speaks, and the speaker is usually not a wise man. True wise men are usually forbearing, unassuming, low-key and self-sustaining, tolerant and patient. They hide in their arms, play the lute to a cow, assess the situation, wait for the opportunity, and often achieve something. There is a joke: the conference does not speak, the meeting does not speak, prostate inflammation. In fact, this is also a misunderstanding. Walking in the workplace, we must understand a hidden rule: study major events and hold small meetings; If you study small things, you will have a general meeting; The research on personnel is conducted in private. At the meeting, all the speakers were fools.

Especially when there is pressure, don't shout, don't be as tough as Xianglin, and be a taciturn person. You just sit there and say nothing, nothing. Silence is a choice, a kind of wisdom and a kind of cultivation. In the face of injustice, silence is still the most powerful response. The silence of the place is a manifestation of strength.

Luo Pengzi, who likes to "make friends", finally paid off his debts by living and won the respect of men. He once said a famous saying: a violent life needs no explanation. In fact, this sentence is very reasonable, and there are many explanations, as if you are guilty; Explain more, it seems that you have no strength; Explain more, as if you cherish feathers; Explain more, it seems that you are pursuing perfection; Explaining it more will make you think more. Too many explanations will delay your trip and delay you from doing important things.

I used to have a strong self-esteem and pursued perfection, fearing that the leader would say "no". I was in a bad mood for several days because the leader didn't praise me at the meeting. On one occasion, the leader criticized me for not doing my work well. After three days of pain, I went to the leadership office to explain it for a long time. The leader said coldly that I had forgotten about it. What are you explaining? The purpose of explanation is nothing more than telling me that you are not wrong, it is someone else's fault, or criticizing me for being wrong. I don't want blx. It doesn't hurt to experience some ups and downs and encounter some setbacks. People are constantly growing up in setbacks.